my questions are finally answered

[Joker]

Nope, I have no opinion, but I was feeling left out. This seems to be a topic not to have an opinion on if you don't know anything about it. I've seen a few get caught up by posting b4 thinking.

 

[Mrs. OG Shocker]

We have watched Bobby for months...... Prior to "her" deployment till now. It has been painful at times.
The nights of his rushing home so that he would be able to talk with Windy (if only for a few minutes, before she went out with the guys). The making sure that he had care packages off to her on a regular basis so that she would always have stuff from home. Cards every month for the anniversary... Everything for Windy and making sure that her daughter had everything she required for school or her car.
Then she came home.... she was so cold to Bobby, and he kept asking OG, Dia, myself, Knuckle heads (and all the rest of this group)what can he do? What going on? I knew something had gone on... Dia had asked Windy... she lied about it. Things do NOT change so much if you haven't screwed it up yourself. You don't start making up false stories about Bobby's anger or what he might do (he wouldn't hurt a fly..... I trust him with my greatest gift..... Mark John, and I don't do that lightly). You Do Not hurt you friends... Dia, Pixi, Knuckle heads, Bordsmanj..... who were calling and trying to help you..... and you just give them the big FU.... Then at MJ's party she sat here like a lump on a log..... no one knew yet what Bobby, OG & I already knew was coming....... Shame on her for hurting people that loved and cared for her... You do Not treat a husband that way.... you don't treat friends that way.

 

[PolarBearKing]

Everyone should read RD's post again. That was some good shiat right there. Can you say "on the money, baby".

If I might drop my 2 cents into this..

I'm happy this thread was posted, and is as popular as it has become.. For Bobby's sake. A few weeks back Bobby came by my shop, and we talked for a good 4 hours or so about the subject.

It's no secret that Bobby worshipped Windy while they were together. It's funny ya know? Girls always say they want to be put on some pedestal, and treated like a princess.. But there's a harsh inverse reality to following that line of thinking when it comes to Cali girls. If you do it, your going to get walked on, rode hard, used and abused, etc.. Amplify that by 10 if they were a dancer at some point in their life.

The fact of the matter is, if you were to look up fairy tale "prince charming" guy, they'd use Bobby as the example to follow.

Topless was right earlier in this thread.. It takes two.

Where she's wrong, is that the only thing this guy is guilty of, is not treating her like shit.. Becuase if he did, then this story would be ending entirely differently. Most girls are rolling their eyes right now.. but most guys atleast the ones that have been around the block, especially with a dancer, know exactly what I'm talking about.

That being said, and this is just my opinions and theories... After they got married Windy was confused and Angry.. Not at Bobby, but if ya look deeper at herself. Not understanding, why she's not happy with the relationship. Feels like a million bucks everytime some nice thing happens, but then is bored and restless all the rest of the time.

She goes to VA.. Makes a mistake after drinking all night. The only thing worse then the mistake, is now they are suddenly put into a position where they see each other everyday, talk everyday, and the mistake turns into something special.. Few months overseas where they can't "hook up" and that mistake is on a pedestal, and has now turned into something that it never was.. Some monumental life changing event. They are soul mates.. Only problem is, this nice guy back at home taking care of all the responsibillities, that has done nothing but treat her right.

So she starts looking for reasons, any reason.. I mean after all it has to be this sumbitches fault somehow doesn't it? Otherwise I wouldn't feel this way? I wouldn't have done the things that I did, unless there was some reason? He's got anger issues.. He's not providing enough.. He's??

Well every reason is horseshit.. The root of the problem is "he's too nice" and he didn't treat Windy, the way she NEEDS to be treated..

Which sucks, but when she fucks up, dragging her by her hair into the house and putting her to bed. On occasion telling her to shut the fuck up.. and hey throw a box of rocks in their for good measure. It sux, but the bottom line is Cali girls like a little fuck you.. Strippers, you gotta be about a 1/2 a click off street corner Pimp to keep em loyal. To echo someone else, she has always, and will always have the mindset of a dancer... and it is what it is.

So back to the reason why I'm happy this thread was started, and why I'm happy so many people have seen it... Bobby for a long time was head over heels for her. As soon as Battle Buddy gets back, that shit might last a month.. Maybe 2? Who knows, it might even last a little longer..

But at the end of the day, when the sweetness of the icecream melts, and reality sets in, that douchebag, is in fact a douchebag... She would've come back to Bobby.. and truthfully, I think at one time he loved her enough that he would've taken her back.

This thread not only vindicates Bobby from ridiculous accusations (anger issues?), but it puts him in a position where it'd be very difficult for her to get to him anymore.. If for nothing else just from a "What would our friends think" perspective and truthfully I'm happy for that. While it sucks that it's public, when you love someone so much, you would do anything, and accept anything just to be with that person..

Sometimes you have to put yourself in a position to protect yourself from making bad decisions down the road. Bobby has now done that, and I'm happy for that, becuase his future is alot brighter becuase of it.

So your right Topless in my opinion. It does take 2. But it only takes one to plunge that fucking knife right into your back.

If we rewound my life about 4.5 - 5 years, you could've substituted my name with Bobby's in this post, and in this thread for the most part. I got lucky that I met Stacy, and she snapped me out of that shit.. I'm going to go ahead and clip the rest of this post right here.. and say

Cheers To Bobby's Future, it's a bright one. :beer


I think it should be noted.. I don't wish Windy any ill will. While it might sound fucked.. I don't think she could help what happened. It just kind of happened. Through years of therapy, and self reflection she might get it.. but until then she will always be a stripper. Not a war hero, not a medic, not anything else.. Just a stripper. Which isn't that big of a deal if you got your looks, but those looks will fade in the next few short years.

So if your reading this Windy. Take my advice.. Don't worry about the divorce. It's not the end of the world. When soldier boy lets you down (and he will), don't take that to heart either. Do some serious self examination, and look back on your life. When you've come to the correct conclusions, start over and you'll find somebody.. But don't ever forget that Mr. Perfect isn't perfect for you. You need somebody with alot of "FU" in em to keep the balance.

Those are just my thoughts, and opinions on the matter.

RD

 

[jordy]

Everyone should read RD's post again. That was some good shiat right there. Can you say "on the money, baby".

RD SUX!!! oint:beer

However, that being said, I don't think that ball has landed yet.

p.s. as I sit here reading RD's post again, I seem to recall having a very similar conversation on the patio at his place in the Keye's about 5 or so years ago. They're fun to look at, but never fall in love. :beer

 

[PolarBearKing]

I've never been the FU guy, I'm much too nice to do that with any regularity, but the couple times it's had to be employed, it really does work wonders. I could see making it a regular strategery.

I'm not a FU guy either.

These days I deploy the "I don't giva a shit" attitude. They hate that, if they think you could care less if they pack their trash they'll stick around. It's even better if they bail, 'cuz they always come back for more. Why is that?

 

[Pixilated]

We have watched Bobby for months...... Prior to "her" deployment till now. It has been painful at times.
The nights of his rushing home so that he would be able to talk with Windy (if only for a few minutes, before she went out with the guys). The making sure that he had care packages off to her on a regular basis so that she would always have stuff from home. Cards every month for the anniversary... Everything for Windy and making sure that her daughter had everything she required for school or her car.
Then she came home.... she was so cold to Bobby, and he kept asking OG, Dia, myself, Knuckle heads (and all the rest of this group)what can he do? What going on? I knew something had gone on... Dia had asked Windy... she lied about it. Things do NOT change so much if you haven't screwed it up yourself. You don't start making up false stories about Bobby's anger or what he might do (he wouldn't hurt a fly..... I trust him with my greatest gift..... Mark John, and I don't do that lightly). You Do Not hurt you friends... Dia, Pixi, Knuckle heads, Bordsmanj..... who were calling and trying to help you..... and you just give them the big FU.... Then at MJ's party she sat here like a lump on a log..... no one knew yet what Bobby, OG & I already knew was coming....... Shame on her for hurting people that loved and cared for her... You do Not treat a husband that way.... you don't treat friends that way.

Well said Denise. Love you

 

[Jyruiz]

We have watched Bobby for months...... Prior to "her" deployment till now. It has been painful at times.
The nights of his rushing home so that he would be able to talk with Windy (if only for a few minutes, before she went out with the guys). The making sure that he had care packages off to her on a regular basis so that she would always have stuff from home. Cards every month for the anniversary... Everything for Windy and making sure that her daughter had everything she required for school or her car.
Then she came home.... she was so cold to Bobby, and he kept asking OG, Dia, myself, Knuckle heads (and all the rest of this group)what can he do? What going on? I knew something had gone on... Dia had asked Windy... she lied about it. Things do NOT change so much if you haven't screwed it up yourself. You don't start making up false stories about Bobby's anger or what he might do (he wouldn't hurt a fly..... I trust him with my greatest gift..... Mark John, and I don't do that lightly). You Do Not hurt you friends... Dia, Pixi, Knuckle heads, Bordsmanj..... who were calling and trying to help you..... and you just give them the big FU.... Then at MJ's party she sat here like a lump on a log..... no one knew yet what Bobby, OG & I already knew was coming....... Shame on her for hurting people that loved and cared for her... You do Not treat a husband that way.... you don't treat friends that way.

I remember at little Marks party how she was talking about how bad she wanted to return to Kuwait, I think I know why now.:hmm

 

[Tom Brown]

... if they think you could care less if they pack their trash they'll stick around. It's even better if they bail, 'cuz they always come back for more. Why is that?

The same reason people are still following this thread. People love emotional abuse.

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

I'm not a FU guy either.

These days I deploy the "I don't giva a shit" attitude. They hate that, if they think you could care less if they pack their trash they'll stick around. It's even better if they bail, 'cuz they always come back for more. Why is that?

Oh, who knows. We could probably write a book.

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

You know it's bad when your own crew is talking shit on you or wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.

 

[PolarBearKing]

Oh, who knows. We could probably write a book.

Isn't that what we're doing?

 

[Tom Brown]

You know it's bad when your own crew is talking shit on you or wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.

I'd piss on you. No need to ask twice.

 

[woody56]

We have watched Bobby for months...... Prior to "her" deployment till now. It has been painful at times.
The nights of his rushing home so that he would be able to talk with Windy (if only for a few minutes, before she went out with the guys). The making sure that he had care packages off to her on a regular basis so that she would always have stuff from home. Cards every month for the anniversary... Everything for Windy and making sure that her daughter had everything she required for school or her car.
Then she came home.... she was so cold to Bobby, and he kept asking OG, Dia, myself, Knuckle heads (and all the rest of this group)what can he do? What going on? I knew something had gone on... Dia had asked Windy... she lied about it. Things do NOT change so much if you haven't screwed it up yourself. You don't start making up false stories about Bobby's anger or what he might do (he wouldn't hurt a fly..... I trust him with my greatest gift..... Mark John, and I don't do that lightly). You Do Not hurt you friends... Dia, Pixi, Knuckle heads, Bordsmanj..... who were calling and trying to help you..... and you just give them the big FU.... Then at MJ's party she sat here like a lump on a log..... no one knew yet what Bobby, OG & I already knew was coming....... Shame on her for hurting people that loved and cared for her... You do Not treat a husband that way.... you don't treat friends that way.

Nicely put MOM!!! Hey fixed the shower today, nomore leak....

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

Look what the cat dragged in, speaking of pricks.

 

[Deleted Account]

You know it's bad when your own crew is talking shit on you or wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.

That says it all right there...

 

[Pixilated]

DANG!!!!:hotdevil

 

[RiverDave]

RD SUX!!! oint:beer

However, that being said, I don't think that ball has landed yet.

p.s. as I sit here reading RD's post again, I seem to recall having a very similar conversation on the patio at his place in the Keye's about 5 or so years ago. They're fun to look at, but never fall in love. :beer

Similar, or word for word?

RD

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

DANG!!!!:hotdevil

I believe it's DNAG!

 

[woody56]

Look what the cat dragged in, speaking of pricks.

can someone spell _pa????:hotdevil

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

can someone spell _pa????:hotdevil

Good one.

 

[RiverDave]

can someone spell _pa????:hotdevil

Went over my head..

RD

 

[WYRD]

can someone spell _pa????:hotdevil

now thats just wrong

 

[Tom Brown]

Went over my head..

I don't get it, either. There seems to be some history between SWB and the woodsman but I am not appraised as to what has gone down.

 

[WYRD]

I don't get it, either. There seems to be some history between SWB and the woodsman but I am not appraised as to what has gone down.

or who for that matter...

 

[mbrown2]

They're fun to look at, but never fall in love. :beer

You break it...you buy it...

Saw the breakup thread a couple weeks back...and don't know either so just moved on...but missed this yesterday...

very sad to say the lead....wish you best in your recovery Atomikitten...

I would say a new screen names in order....single guys with strong pimp hands and kittens don't mix

 

[Boatfloating]

Wow!!!! In all my years of the boards I've never seen such a train wreck. I made it thru 26 pages and had to jump to the end......

If you look at the pictures of her with her "Battle Buddy" or should say "Butt Buddy" and you think they are just friends go straight to your HR dept and ask for a drug test. If I didn't know any better I would say they were married. I love the one that appears to be a double date just sickens me. Bobby never deserved this and should be commended for not completely throwing her under the bus.

When I say Bobby at the halloween party all he could do was talk about Windy and how much he missed her and waited for her call. Ever waking moment he did and cared only about her and then she comes home to do this????

Bobby, you have every right to get this out in the open to show people they need to see thru the lies and facade. Bottom line let rip now and once your done with it let it go and move and don't look back no matter how hard it seems to do.

 

[Mrs.Racer277]

can someone spell _pa????:hotdevil

NOT :skull:skull

 

[woody56]

NOT :skull:skull

sorry:smackhead:smackhead:smackhead

 

[woody56]

Good one.

sorry Bob

 

[RiverDave]

If you people don't stop talking in code, I'm going to hand out infractions the old way!

All the best

[video=youtube;7lRUgebnWVI]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lRUgebnWVI[/video]

RD

 

[angiebaby]

If you people don't stop talking in code, I'm going to hand out infractions the old way!

All the best

YouTube - EveryThing is going to be ok

RD

You know, Dave, that is my all time favorite movie. No joke.

But Buddy Holly would have never been part of the soundtrack.

 

[HolyMoly]

The person who surprises me most in this deal is HBJet. Through the marriage and now this, he has remained surprisingly quiet about everything. Sure, he's had a few comments but he has refrained from any significant sanctimony. I have developed a lot of respect for him and how he's handled himself over the years.

HBJet knew time was on his side. Now AK is going medieval on Windy and she will now forever wear the scarlet letter A. HBjet says more by being mostly silent.

 

[River Lynchmob]

You know, Dave, that is my all time favorite movie. No joke.

But Buddy Holly would have never been part of the soundtrack.

I believe that it's no more mr. nice guy in that scene

 

[djunkie]

can someone spell _pa????:hotdevil

:

 

[jordy]

Similar, or word for word?

RD

I didn't want to take all the credit for it... :beer

There are some subtle changes that you made, but the base message is still the same. :skull

 

[Sherpa]

Nice post... Who knows what his situation is. I wonder if he has a wife at home as well. People can be so cruel & stupid at the same time. Fucking up everybody elses lives in the process. Whata shame. I can only imagine what he is telling Windy about his soon to be ex and vice versa.

Hang in there Bobby ~ it'll get better.

- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

not sure what to make of your post oldCBDad........

I don't know Bobby at all. yeah, I've been married 17 years as of this past
sunday! happily I may add.

I think Bobby finding all this info is going to better his state of mind sooner
than if he "wondered" about what happened... I certainly know if I had info
like this back in my day I'd be glad I had found it... certainly makes the
"I'm a crap-load better off withour her" thoughts alot easier to say....

--Sherpa

 

[angiebaby]

I believe that it's no more mr. nice guy in that scene

You are correct.



I've gotta say, with all of the guys in Virginia to cheat with, couldn't she have found an attractive one?

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

I don't get it, either. There seems to be some history between SWB and the woodsman but I am not appraised as to what has gone down.

Yes, you are. I'm pretty sure I apprised you once of the situation, a couple years back, maybe less than that. If you need to refresh your memory, by all means send me a PM.

In any case, I threw out what I had to say and he said what he had to say. That's how we handle it.

 

[River Lynchmob]

You are correct.



I've gotta say, with all of the guys in Virginia to cheat with, couldn't she have found an attractive one?

I don't think it matters. My ex got with a complete dirt bag (actually it was multiple dirt bags). It must be a complete and total lack of self esteem.

 

[angiebaby]

Funny, this is on her myspace. I don't think it's quite accurate.

Oh, and I saved her the task of deleting me as a friend. I'm not friends with women like that. I like honest people. I get in trouble for being too honest. LOL Guess if that's a fault, it's a good one to have.

 

[Rexone]

As far as I'm concerned, this has remained surprisingly civil compared to where these things often go. If you are upset by this, you are not very well prepared for what life can and does serve up on a regular basis.


Respectfully,

Tom

Tom, perhaps TBI and I could come up with something to turn the heat up a bit.... Just a thought....

 

[TBI]

Tom, perhaps TBI and I could come up with something to turn the heat up a bit.... Just a thought....

:hmm

 

[Rexone]

This whole thing should be deleted.:thumbsup

Now that I agree with.:thumbsup

I've seen over the years at Hotboat that most requests for deletion normally came from those who's interests, expectations, point of view, or idealistic thread outcomes didn't come to fruition.

Not intended as a slam on anyone, only an observation as the reciepient of probably hunderds of these types of requests there over the years.

It is what it is. I feel bad for all parties involved. Life is certainly not always a bed of daisys.

 

[angiebaby]

I've seen over the years at Hotboat that most requests for deletion normally came from those who's interests, expectations, point of view, or idealistic thread outcomes didn't come to fruition.

Not intended as a slam on anyone, only an observation as the reciepient of probably hunderds of these types of requests there over the years.

It is what it is. I feel bad for all parties involved. Life is certainly not always a bed of daisys.

You're forgetting the much more significant fact that Kilr and Topless agreed on something. Hell must have frozen over

 

[kilrtoy]

I've seen over the years at Hotboat that most requests for deletion normally came from those who's interests, expectations, point of view, or idealistic thread outcomes didn't come to fruition.

Not intended as a slam on anyone, only an observation as the reciepient of probably hunderds of these types of requests there over the years.

It is what it is. I feel bad for all parties involved. Life is certainly not always a bed of daisys.

I have no bone in this fire pit of hell,
But I feel bad for both parties that so much of their personal lives have been trashed on here.
I would sit down with either one of them tommorrow and drink a cold one.
I have no ill will towards either regardless of their actions...
THIS DOES NOT INVOLVE ME....

 

[kilrtoy]

You're forgetting the much more significant fact that Kilr and Topless agreed on something. Hell must have frozen over

YEAH NOW, That was uncalled for...
SHE AGREED WITH ME....:thumbsup

 

[Windy]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

 

[angiebaby]

Windy, sorry, but your husband should be your best friend. Not some cock you meet on your way overseas. I sincerely think you blew it.

Speaking only for myself, it wouldn't matter what you came up with to say about Bobby at this point. You lied to him and all of us about your relationship. You told us how much you missed him, that he was your rock, that you couldn't get through it without his support and calls. It was all BS. That means I can't trust ANYTHING you say. Not that I need to, we were never more than aquaintances anyway.

I genuinely wish you good luck with your life. Hope you figure it all out.

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

Where'd your post go HBjet? Very nice post, BTW. You're a class individual.

I do wish we'd stop referring to the gentleman as a "battle buddy." Come on people, that freakin' reeks of absolutely gayness. I can't think of an absolutely less manly salutation. It reminds me "study buddy", which screams I'm almost cool enough to help you with your homework, but not cool enough to get inside your shirt.

 

[69 1/2]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

Awwwww, go ahead and read it! You might learn something!

Wow! Are you really a stripper? I've never really talked to a REAL STRIPPER!