my questions are finally answered

[Riverbound]

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

he will find it someday with someone that will actually appreciate him.


All the best

 

[500bbc]

Tom, perhaps TBI and I could come up with something to turn the heat up a bit.... Just a thought....

RCL is an internet GOD!!!!

 

[XtrmWakeborder]

This should get good now.

 

[OGShocker]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

You are a liar and a cheat!

 

[Lue]

Sorry to hear about these troubles in your life Bobby. Best of luck, you're going to need it.

Every time I saw you two, you guys seemed like a couple very much in love. Such a shame it turned out like this.

In time you'll find someone to appreciate your person. All the things you did as a husband are top notch. Don't let this experience ruin your good nature. :thumbsup

 

[HBCraig]

Ouch, this is going to get ugly fast.

HBjet was right, now AK is well within his rights to drag this out as far as he likes. The only reason why Windy came on here now is because somebody here told her about this thread. She knows exactly what it going on and is was all premeditated. She spent the governments money banging some dude that knew she was married. She cheated and stole IMO.

Battle buddy is just a gay term for somebody you might want to fuck around with and cheat.

 

[Jyruiz]

Sorry to hear about these troubles in your life Bobby. Best of luck, you're going to need it.

Every time I saw you two, you guys seemed like a couple very much in love. Such a shame it turned out like this.

In time you'll find someone to appreciate your person. All the things you did as a husband are top notch. Don't let this experience ruin your good nature. :thumbsup

Hope things are going better fo you bro, and nice sig pic you got there.

 

[HBCraig]

My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.



Windy

Horseshit. You were having an extramarital relationship with that dude.

Plus, your friends are on here pointing the finger at you and rightfully so.

 

[Lue]

Hope things are going better fo you bro, and nice sig pic you got there.

Thanks bro. They're turning for the better a lil bit. :beer

Give the family and my boy Christian a big hello on our behalf.

 

[rocket98]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

Windy
I don't know either of you. I admire you coming out and posting. I'm sure their are two sides to any story. Most would like to hear your side of all this. Doesn't seem that you have given your support group any reason not to abandon you. All it takes is a little time or PM to your friends. The people that have been behind you are still there if you let them.

Dr. Rocket

 

[Ziggy]

We have watched Bobby for months...... Prior to "her" deployment till now. It has been painful at times.
The nights of his rushing home so that he would be able to talk with Windy (if only for a few minutes, before she went out with the guys). The making sure that he had care packages off to her on a regular basis so that she would always have stuff from home. Cards every month for the anniversary... Everything for Windy and making sure that her daughter had everything she required for school or her car.
Then she came home.... she was so cold to Bobby, and he kept asking OG, Dia, myself, Knuckle heads (and all the rest of this group)what can he do? What going on? I knew something had gone on... Dia had asked Windy... she lied about it. Things do NOT change so much if you haven't screwed it up yourself. You don't start making up false stories about Bobby's anger or what he might do (he wouldn't hurt a fly..... I trust him with my greatest gift..... Mark John, and I don't do that lightly). You Do Not hurt you friends... Dia, Pixi, Knuckle heads, Bordsmanj..... who were calling and trying to help you..... and you just give them the big FU.... Then at MJ's party she sat here like a lump on a log..... no one knew yet what Bobby, OG & I already knew was coming....... Shame on her for hurting people that loved and cared for her... You do Not treat a husband that way.... you don't treat friends that way.

This is what bothers me the most also.
Shit happens, and especially if seperated by continents and multiple timezones(which was clearly stated by RD).....but to not come clean and fess up to #1, her husband, #2 her "supposed" closest friends is the worst part of the whole deal. Not only has it alienated those particular people but all others that gave every ounce of support we could for her deployment, not just with monetary means but emotional support.
If she wanted out of the relationship with Bobby then just tell the truth and cut the ties, don't make up excuses.
Her method will undoubtedly and probably already has affected most people close and loosely associated to her.
I wish no ill upon Windy, and I truely hope she finds what she is searching for....I just wish she'd been more honest with those close to her, I'd bet they'd be more understanding rather than completely chided.

 

[Pixilated]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

Windy, I cant believe this. We ALL supported you before you left, while you were away & when you were injured! We all prayed for your safe return & tried to help Bobby get through things while you were gone. You say this is between you & Bobby, yes, but you started this with your posts regarding how much you loved him & how you couldnt get through things without him & your friends...yet you isolated yourself from all of us....even at MJ's bday party. You have hurt more than just Bobby...infidelity is one thing....but if you really truly did love Bobby...you would have tried a little harder to repair the damage. Marriage & the vows we express to our BEST FRIEND/HUSBAND are deeper than a piece of paper & a weekend in Vegas!

FOR BETTER, WORSE,SICKNESS,HEALTH.................TILL DEATH DO US PART remember these words???

I dont wish anything bad to you...just letting you know how many people your lies hurt....I am dissapointed...but hope someday you find what you are looking for.

 

[RiverDave]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

I'd be really curious as to what you could say negative about Bobby? That he took care of your daughter? That he treated you like a princess? That he loved you with every ounce of his heart? That he missed you everyday like it was the 1st?

He's on here everyday Windy, and everyday you were gone, he would miss you, and talk about his love for you.. and do nothing but right by you.

He would ask people to mail you cards, he and some others would put together care packages. Tell me how he mistreated you Windy.

So that when you came home you could abandon him, and run him through the ringer becuase of your own guilt? (councelor, anger management?) And when YOUR FUCKING HUSBAND out of respect to him asks you to not call douchebag for a bit so you two can get your MARRIAGE back on track.. You lie about it?

Publicly Bash him?

Is that you in these pics?

How long have you been married or together as a couple?
"Less than a year. We met in Virgina deploying to Kuwait for OIF."
Stats:

What is your "Favorite Bar Story"?
"Hooking up with my "Battle Buddy" "

Are these YOUR OWN WORDS?

RD

 

[Ziggy]

Quote:
Originally Posted by ShockwaveBobSquarePants
Good one.

sorry Bob

Yes, you are. I'm pretty sure I apprised you once of the situation, a couple years back, maybe less than that. If you need to refresh your memory, by all means send me a PM.

In any case, I threw out what I had to say and he said what he had to say. That's how we handle it.

.
I would take this reply as a certain amount of remorse on Woodys side Jon.

 

[Ziggy]

Some of those few pics could be represented as "friendly", perhaps.
But this one here is well beyond and closed the deal from my perspective.
Nibbling and tongue in the ear is not just friends, not even best friends.

 

[RiverDave]

Ziggy.. if those pics were of my chick, her shit would be out on the porch.... on fire...

There ain't nothing friendly about any of those pics. That's puppy love right there.

RD

 

[HavasuWakecraftZR6]

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

Quote:
Originally Posted by ShockwaveBobSquarePants
Good one.

.
I would take this reply as a certain amount of remorse on Woodys side Jon.

We exchanged a few PMs and he said as much and I said my piece and we left it at that. I'm not good at forgetting things and I expressed that much to him. I also expressed that I appreciated the effort no matter how long it took.

 

[Pixilated]

Your signature is sick!:droolcarry on

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

That one chick on the right is pretty hot. Anybody know her situation?

 

[Lue]

That one chick on the right is pretty hot. Anybody know her situation?

She likes hands accross her ass????

 

[Ziggy]

Ziggy.. if those pics were of my chick, her shit would be out on the porch.... on fire...

There ain't nothing friendly about any of those pics. That's puppy love right there.

RD

I agree 100%.........hense the perhaps, only if one wanted to take a litagatory angle at it.

 

[Ziggy]

We exchanged a few PMs and he said as much and I said my piece and we left it at that. I'm not good at forgetting things and I expressed that much to him. I also expressed that I appreciated the effort no matter how long it took.

:thumbsup First step is always the hardest for everyone.

 

[2FORCEFULL]

so why doN'T all you goody goodyS just tie her to the cross and lighT her on fire!!! damm, she doesn't love the guy or she wouldn't been foc'n
around. maybe she isn't the ty'd down type. she felt feeling for some one else, so she told him it's over. I'm sure this was hard as hell for her, torn between two lovers. I 've allways said if you cage two together, they'll
either foc or fight.she not com'n back say'n I'm sorry I made a mistake,
she say'n it's over nuff said, move on!!! I love the hell out of my wife, I'd lay down my life for her, but I also love myself, and the gift god gave me,
LIFE!!!! we share love, I give and I get!!! God fills your heart, not a women

 

[BADAXE]

WOW! 37 pages of trainwreck internet.

Then......in just a few paragraphs in one post RD sums it all up and knocks it out of the park.

RD Doesn't Sux

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

:thumbsup First step is always the hardest for everyone.

Baby steps Ziggy, baby steps. Let me settle in to my new found kinder and gentler nature.

 

[Riodog]

Windy, please change your profile. It just doesn't fit.:thumbsdown
Rio

 

[Phat Matt]

Whew. Caught up.

 

[drtywhat]

Some of those few pics could be represented as "friendly", perhaps.
But this one here is well beyond and closed the deal from my perspective.
Nibbling and tongue in the ear is not just friends, not even best friends.

Best part is the wedding ring still on her finger with her in all those pics...:swear

 

[drtywhat]

I'd be really curious as to what you could say negative about Bobby? That he took care of your daughter? That he treated you like a princess? That he loved you with every ounce of his heart? That he missed you everyday like it was the 1st?

He's on here everyday Windy, and everyday you were gone, he would miss you, and talk about his love for you.. and do nothing but right by you.

He would ask people to mail you cards, he and some others would put together care packages. Tell me how he mistreated you Windy.

So that when you came home you could abandon him, and run him through the ringer becuase of your own guilt? (councelor, anger management?) And when YOUR FUCKING HUSBAND out of respect to him asks you to not call douchebag for a bit so you two can get your MARRIAGE back on track.. You lie about it?

Publicly Bash him?

Is that you in these pics?

Are these YOUR OWN WORDS?

RD

what i meant where these pics with the wedding ring on

 

[Mrs.Racer277]

That one chick on the right is pretty hot. Anybody know her situation?

Also married and that is NOT her husband

 

[atomickitn]

Also married and that is NOT her husband

You didn't call OG today... He is really worried about you...

 

[OGShocker]

You didn't call OG today... He is really worried about you...

She doesn't care anymore.....

 

[Mrs.Racer277]

You didn't call OG today... He is really worried about you...

He did not return my text???????

But Nise did XXOOXXOO

 

[Mrs.Racer277]

She doesn't care anymore.....

You know I XXOO you both

 

[XtrmWakeborder]

Also married and that is NOT her husband

lol whores of a feather....

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

Also married and that is NOT her husband

Well at least we know that's one barrier that can easily be crossed.

 

[OCMerrill]

I have to chime in just a slice.....

Obviously I don't know either one but Soldier Boy is also a big putz. Gets no respect from me. Spooning all over a married girl is below my morals and let me tell you I don't have many.

Pinning Atomic Kitten with Anger issues is a real weak deal. So she blows away her friends here all for this guy? Is there a bright future? Who knows.

Problem is soldier boy is lacking here as this relationship was made on the cheat. Once a cheating heart....never changes. That question will always be there providing he can think beyond the word dah.

This whole thing sucks and minus the military the EXACT same thing happened to me some 18 years ago.

RD's right...the nice guys will always continue to struggle in most relationships. I am not saying a brutal ass is necessary but a weak soul will get footprints on their back. This is exactly how I was and thus the outcome.

Again that was me years ago, I have been there. Right now passing time is the only thing that will help...along with friends.

Much respect to you Bobby. You will get through it and this was more than likely not preventable on any level and she will do it again...and again just let it be to someone else.

 

[SHAKE-YO-AZZ]

well I made it to the end and all I can say is dam, Bobby you are a good guy this was crazy.

 

[SHAKE-YO-AZZ]

mmmmmm someone just dumped me off of their myspace :hmm

 

[Jyruiz]

mmmmmm someone just dumped me off of their myspace :hmm

Poor you, you must be heart broken.

 

[kgt]

Wow....all caught up, what a thread.....what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. I hope it all works out as best as possible.....

 

[SHAKE-YO-AZZ]

Poor you, you must be heart broken.

yeah right

 

[RiverDave]

yeah right

What's your boy Eric been up to lately?

RD

 

[SHAKE-YO-AZZ]

What's your boy Eric been up to lately?

RD

he is all in love with his girl, mmmmmm maybe he should read this thread

 

[RiverDave]

I was thinking about him today for some reason..

I was thinking about all those shots he bought in catalina.. LOL

RD

 

[atomickitn]

you know she has said that she does not want to bash me and wishes me the best yet is sending me text messages bashing me and threatening me ... windy I know you are reading this thread, even though you say that you do not want to ... yet in my text messages you keep referring to some of the messages.. on here.. and spouting off about MY ANGER ISSUES... humm I know you don't want me to really make you look bad.. and start posting some of the BS emails that you have sent me from the past few weeks... even after I had said nice things to you and just asking how you were doing .. and if you were ok .. and that I am sorry... so now I will say this shut the fuck up.. you lied and cheated ... then you went and changed your profile from your meet up page to say different things , and you deleted some of the profile and changed your screen mane.. humm why are you covering your tracks..??? are you guilty of something? you say on thing in public but then something different to me ... I do hope that you continue seeing your physcotheripist and taking your meds.. soo that you don't end up like your mom... remember windy you did this not me.. I never quit. I never stopped loving you not even after you made me sign the divorce papers in order to get the money that belonged to me.. and now you want to trade me my ID for my ring.. you only want it so that I will not be able to go on base and spy on you and you fuck buddy.... if this was not the case then why would you tell me that you have changed your room... humm when you had a private suite.. why? .. you are only fooling your self windy.. just like your dad told me he wishes you would grow up... make all the excuses you want.. I do hope that some day we might be able to talk like adults and there not be any bitterness like there is now... especially from you... I put this out on the table because I had to find out the truth on my own... and I shared it with our friends, to let them see the truth as well I did not tell them what to say or how to feel.. that you did on your own.. these people here were your friends. and they have been here for you... when you came home you were writing your team members asking them to stay in touch with you.... and now that they are on there way home you once again are asking them to not forget you and to continue to stay in touch... you have soo desperately done everything to keep a hold of nothing! and threw away everything... be well windy and I wish you the best .

 

[Ziggy]

I was thinking about him today for some reason..

I was thinking about all those shots he bought in catalina.. LOL

RD

How funny, he crossed my mind yesterday

 

[SHAKE-YO-AZZ]

I was thinking about him today for some reason..

I was thinking about all those shots he bought in catalina.. LOL

RD

yess that was a good trip, when will you be up to havasu

 

[XtrmWakeborder]

you know she has said that she does not want to bash me and wishes me the best yet is sending me text messages bashing me and threatening me ... windy I know you are reading this thread, even though you say that you do not want to ... yet in my text messages you keep referring to some of the messages.. on here.. and spouting off about MY ANGER ISSUES... humm I know you don't want me to really make you look bad.. and start posting some of the BS emails that you have sent me from the past few weeks... even after I had said nice things to you and just asking how you were doing .. and if you were ok .. and that I am sorry... so now I will say this shut the fuck up.. you lied and cheated ... then you went and changed your profile from your meet up page to say different things , and you deleted some of the profile and changed your screen mane.. humm why are you covering your tracks..??? are you guilty of something? you say on thing in public but then something different to me ... I do hope that you continue seeing your physcotheripist and taking your meds.. soo that you don't end up like your mom... remember windy you did this not me.. I never quit. I never stopped loving you not even after you made me sign the divorce papers in order to get the money that belonged to me.. and now you want to trade me my ID for my ring.. you only want it so that I will not be able to go on base and spy on you and you fuck buddy.... if this was not the case then why would you tell me that you have changed your room... humm when you had a private suite.. why? .. you are only fooling your self windy.. just like your dad told me he wishes you would grow up... make all the excuses you want.. I do hope that some day we might be able to talk like adults and there not be any bitterness like there is now... especially from you... I put this out on the table because I had to find out the truth on my own... and I shared it with our friends, to let them see the truth as well I did not tell them what to say or how to feel.. that you did on your own.. these people here were your friends. and they have been here for you... when you came home you were writing your team members asking them to stay in touch with you.... and now that they are on there way home you once again are asking them to not forget you and to continue to stay in touch... you have soo desperately done everything to keep a hold of nothing! and threw away everything... be well windy and I wish you the best .

All the best...