my questions are finally answered

[atomickitn]

Bobby, did you have her daughter with you full time during the time of the deployment? I feel terribly for you, but just can't get over the fact the emotions a kid has to go through during one of these break ups....mom's gone, kid bond's with new dad....mommy gets back and moves on and the kid is left thinking WTF did I do to deserve this..

Too sad!

actualy we were getting close.. and there were a few nights we were up very late talking and I was doing all I could ... but windy has turned her.. towards her butt buddy, and introduced them on their myspace.. so that she would be comfortable.. even after I did all the things a dad would do for his lil girl.... remember the car , money , school, up late talkng ... having dinner , just the two of us.. quad took her riding.. great xmas.. you know .. just something I did because I loved them both... they were a package deal...

 

[dezertrider]

I don’t have time to read all 40 pages (OMG) but here is my .02

Congratulations Bobby!!!! Now the weight is off your shoulders wondering what you did wrong. When Desertgirl and I were around U2 it was obvious how in love you were with Windy. I’m sure you did all you could to make her happy. You are a good guy!!!

Like I always say women are no dam good. LOL

Well???? Except one,,, or maybe two……. Lets just say there are a few good ones at this moment but they always have the possibility to pull a Windy!!!!!

Now I need to get back to work so I can afford the child support I have to pay my X bitch and afford to make my future wife happy




NOW LETS GO FUCK SOME WHORES!!!!!!!!!!:beer:beer:beer:beer

 

[knuckle head]

I don’t have time to read all 40 pages (OMG) but here is my .02

Congratulations Bobby!!!! Now the weight is off your shoulders wondering what you did wrong. When Desertgirl and I were around U2 it was obvious how in love you were with Windy. I’m sure you did all you could to make her happy. You are a good guy!!!

Like I always say women are no dam good. LOL

Well???? Except one,,, or maybe two……. Lets just say there are a few good ones at this moment but they always have the possibility to pull a Windy!!!!!

Now I need to get back to work so I can afford the child support I have to pay my X bitch and afford to make my future wife happy




NOW LETS GO FUCK SOME WHORES!!!!!!!!!!:beer:beer:beer:beer

Oh now you went and did it!!!!!!!!!!! :smackhead

 

[mbrown2]

actualy we were getting close.. and there were a few nights we were up very late talking and I was doing all I could ... but windy has turned her.. towards her butt buddy, and introduced them on their myspace.. so that she would be comfortable.. even after I did all the things a dad would do for his lil girl.... remember the car , money , school, up late talkng ... having dinner , just the two of us.. quad took her riding.. great xmas.. you know .. just something I did because I loved them both... they were a package deal...

Sorry for you and the daughter....that's just terrible...I have no kids but had to take care of my nieces for two years....it is tough to see them go...

 

[mrs. bordsmnj]

I don’t have time to read all 40 pages (OMG) but here is my .02

Congratulations Bobby!!!! Now the weight is off your shoulders wondering what you did wrong. When Desertgirl and I were around U2 it was obvious how in love you were with Windy. I’m sure you did all you could to make her happy. You are a good guy!!!

Like I always say women are no dam good. LOL

Well???? Except one,,, or maybe two……. Lets just say there are a few good ones at this moment but they always have the possibility to pull a Windy!!!!!

Now I need to get back to work so I can afford the child support I have to pay my X bitch and afford to make my future wife happy




NOW LETS GO FUCK SOME WHORES!!!!!!!!!!:beer:beer:beer:beer

 

[Riverbound]

I don’t have time to read all 40 pages (OMG) but here is my .02

Congratulations Bobby!!!! Now the weight is off your shoulders wondering what you did wrong. When Desertgirl and I were around U2 it was obvious how in love you were with Windy. I’m sure you did all you could to make her happy. You are a good guy!!!

Like I always say women are no dam good. LOL

Well???? Except one,,, or maybe two……. Lets just say there are a few good ones at this moment but they always have the possibility to pull a Windy!!!!!

Now I need to get back to work so I can afford the child support I have to pay my X bitch and afford to make my future wife happy

Size 6

LETS GO FUCK SOME WHORES!!!!!!!!!!:beer:beer:beer:beer

This wil lprobably be the name of my next boat....lol

 

[dezertrider]

I don’t have time to read all 40 pages (OMG) but here is my .02

Congratulations Bobby!!!! Now the weight is off your shoulders wondering what you did wrong. When Desertgirl and I were around U2 it was obvious how in love you were with Windy. I’m sure you did all you could to make her happy. You are a good guy!!!

Like I always say women are no dam good. LOL

Well???? Except one,,, or maybe two……. Lets just say there are a few good ones at this moment but they always have the possibility to pull a Windy!!!!!

Now I need to get back to work so I can afford the child support I have to pay my X bitch and afford to make my future wife happy/SIZE]




NOW LETS GO FUCK SOME WHORES!!!!!!!!!!:beer:beer:beer:beer

:skull

 

[atomickitn]

I don’t have time to read all 40 pages (OMG) but here is my .02

Congratulations Bobby!!!! Now the weight is off your shoulders wondering what you did wrong. When Desertgirl and I were around U2 it was obvious how in love you were with Windy. I’m sure you did all you could to make her happy. You are a good guy!!!

Like I always say women are no dam good. LOL

Well???? Except one,,, or maybe two……. Lets just say there are a few good ones at this moment but they always have the possibility to pull a Windy!!!!!

Now I need to get back to work so I can afford the child support I have to pay my X bitch and afford to make [SIZE="5[COLOR="Red"]"]my future wife happy[/COLOR[/SIZE]]



NOW LETS GO FUCK SOME WHORES!!!!!!!!!!:beer:beer:beer:beer

yeah but she is a sweety ... you go boy

 

[Member: 71]

I dont wish to read everyones comments in this thread because it would only hurt me. I also dont wish to publicly bash Bobby. I hope this makes him feel better. My Battle Buddy and I are best friends and we will always be best friends. When this is all over I will know who my true friends are, this is between Bobby and I, and I havent done anything to any of my friends.

I wish Bobby the best in life.

Windy

Sorry...You Fail!

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

Did you people not read my first comment? Battle Buddy? Could that sound any gayer. If anybody called me their "Battle Buddy", I'd slap the taste out of their mouth.

Stop calling dude Battle Buddy. He sounds like a fucking Pokemon.

 

[BNB2008]

Bobby...dude, the more I read about this, and you....I am convinced that you are just a stand up awesome guy. Period. That said, some insights into what has ben said....at least from my point of view....

RD, I read your post about maybe this was just a fluke that became something more, I don't buy it, heres why. First, if it was a fluke, why plaster it all over the net? Why act so damned proud of this?? IT's more like she is boasting about it when she mentiones "Hooking up with my battle buddy" or whatever she said. That is just so lame on so many levels, I don't have enough lifespan left to name them all.

Second, the daughter. You sir, are a stand up guy. Bet you the daughter will come back some day and fill you in on all the BS going down right now. You took care of the kid, did right, and this is how she treats you? Wow, windy, did everyone just not see any of this coming?? How did you manage to snowball so many people into believing you were anything other than this? FWIW, this is also my second marriage, my ex had three kids by her ex, none were mine, and two of them lived with us. God, did I love those kids. Wrapped my entire life around them, but just could not get it right with thier mom. So I left. When I did, her last sentence to me was I'll never see the kids again. NEver did either. Tore my Fing heart out bro. So I feel for you, I know a lot about how you feel. Me? I burned her and all the emotions out by nearly working myself to death, taking every job I could, so not to think about the kids...took time, but I did it. You have something I didn't, a great group of people who love you dearly, and want only the best for you, use that.

Like I said, your just a hell of a great guy, and I sincerley hope to meet you someday, your always welcome in this home, stop buy for a T bone anytime ya want.....and a cold one..:beer:beer

 

[atomickitn]

NOTE TO ALL

I want to say thanks for your comments praise, and words of wisdom..

I will say this, the Windy I knew and met and loved, and will always have a place in my heart. IS not the same person who returned home form her trip..
If that person ever came back to see us all I would like to say that, while that bitch who took your place. really screwed up a lot of things, and a lot of friends.
But I would also be adult, and man enough to accept her apology and let bygones be bygones..
I know that being an adult and who I am as a person I can forgive her, and try to be somewhat of friends, I know that she will have a much harder time doing this but I know that in time anything is possible..
I mean it only took her 5 months for her and him to become "best friends" and the rest to be " like family ".
I don't care to hate anyone, hate is such a bad thing.. I don't think I can ever hate a person I once loved more than anything,and with my entire heart.

In conclusion some my say or think that I may or may not be a pussy..So as it be.
I am a man who was taught how to love a long time ago, and how to give wholeheartedly and not expect anything in return.
I say this because my grand mother taught me this and she is the one person who I look up to and cherish the most in this world, so to hate and not forgive would not compliment her for teaching me how to be the way I am.
Every one I have come in contact with over the years I have impacted, or helped or was just there for what ever support. You now know why I am the way I am.. and nobody ever will change the way I treat, act, love .. another person that means the most to me... My FRIENDS are how I have survived in this world.. I would not trade you for anything..
Thanks .. Bobby

 

[Pixilated]

time to close this threadLove you hun xoxo

 

[Jyruiz]

time to close this threadLove you hun xoxo

Agree.

 

[ShockwaveBobSquarePants]

time to close this threadLove you hun xoxo

Agreed. Not delete it, just lock it. Everybody's said their piece and nothing good is going to come out of anything else we have to say. This thread will turn into a caricature of itselfs in about 3 more pages.

 

[mrs flyin vee]

Great post Bobby..

see you on the River. xoxoxo

 

[Riverbound]

NOTE TO ALL

I want to say thanks for your comments praise, and words of wisdom..

I will say this, the Windy I knew and met and loved, and will always have a place in my heart. IS not the same person who returned home form her trip..
If that person ever came back to see us all I would like to say that, while that bitch who took your place. really screwed up a lot of things, and a lot of friends.
But I would also be adult, and man enough to accept her apology and let bygones be bygones..
I know that being an adult and who I am as a person I can forgive her, and try to be somewhat of friends, I know that she will have a much harder time doing this but I know that in time anything is possible..
I mean it only took her 5 months for her and him to become "best friends" and the rest to be " like family ".
I don't care to hate anyone, hate is such a bad thing.. I don't think I can ever hate a person I once loved more than anything,and with my entire heart.

In conclusion some my say or think that I may or may not be a pussy..So as it be.
I am a man who was taught how to love a long time ago, and how to give wholeheartedly and not expect anything in return.
I say this because my grand mother taught me this and she is the one person who I look up to and cherish the most in this world, so to hate and not forgive would not compliment her for teaching me how to be the way I am.
Every one I have come in contact with over the years I have impacted, or helped or was just there for what ever support. You now know why I am the way I am.. and nobody ever will change the way I treat, act, love .. another person that means the most to me... My FRIENDS are how I have survived in this world.. I would not trade you for anything..
Thanks .. Bobby

You know we are here for you. and if the OLD Windy came back she would be welcome also.

 

[atomickitn]

I would like this to be that last post.....
sorry for hurt!
sorry for the pain!
Its time to move forward...
see you all on the river..

 

[HBjet]

Wow, windy, did everyone just not see any of this coming??

Not everyone

For helping raise her daughter from age 8-14, same deal happened and I was the bad guy...

 

[Nord]

Wow!!!

Bobby......... Move on. You know the truth now. Give yourself some time. Remove her from your life and move on. No phone, texts, emails, nothing. I know its hard as I've been through this before and I didn't feel even close to being normal for about a month and a half. Seperate yourself and let the moving on process begin. Disappear from her life and she will disappear from yours.

See you this Saturday on the water. I have twins and their single friend going with me so you will have plenty of attention

Just my .02

~NORD~

 

[RiverDave]

In conclusion some my say or think that I may or may not be a pussy..So as it be.

Nobody thinks your a pussy Bobby.

I am a man who was taught how to love a long time ago, and how to give wholeheartedly and not expect anything in return.

The only thing i'm going to say on this issue, is that there's some girls in the deep south that still appreciate a "gentlemen." For the most part though, Cali girls are conditioned to it. Broken homes, mom's working.. and listening to music all their lives with lyrics like "From the windows to the walls, the sweat drips off my balls, makes all these bitches crawl" etc..

It just kinda is what it is out here.. Girls don't appreciate the nice guy anymore. If your too nice they take it as weekness or something. I used to have a lot of problems with that, becuase I was the perpetual nice guy.. Then my buddy Too Short taught me a lesson abuot a five finger hand print.

I say this because my grand mother taught me this and she is the one person who I look up to and cherish the most in this world, so to hate and not forgive would not compliment her for teaching me how to be the way I am.

All I can say is your a better man then most.. Your future is bright, and there's more fish in the sea. Hook em deep, and reel em in as they say.

That being said, I don't foresee this thread going anywhere but down hill.. So if it's all good with you, I'd like to close it.

RD