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Years behind on what? Owning, equity? Pay off?

The whole deal. Owning, retiring all that. Most don't have careers. Some are just finishing college and hopefully they can do something w that degree. Unfortunately they are in debt w no actual job so buying a house is still years away.i wouldn't buy toys if I didn't have a house so I just feel like I'm a few years ahead.
 

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I bought when I was 23. Makes me feel really good as most my friends are years behind [emoji4]

Just because someone hasn't bought a house doesn't mean they are "years behind"..........people do things with their money for different reasons. Buying a house at 23 doesn't make you better than any of your friends. I didn't buy my first house until I was 30 so does that make you better than me or years ahead of me, no. Life isn't a pissing contest.
 

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Just because someone hasn't bought a house doesn't mean they are "years behind"..........people do things with their money for different reasons. Buying a house at 23 doesn't make you better than any of your friends. I didn't buy my first house until I was 30 so does that make you better than me or years ahead of me, no. Life isn't a pissing contest.

Did I say I was better than anyone?
 

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The whole deal. Owning, retiring all that. Most don't have careers. Some are just finishing college and hopefully they can do something w that degree. Unfortunately they are in debt w no actual job so buying a house is still years away.i wouldn't buy toys if I didn't have a house so I just feel like I'm a few years ahead.

It sounds like your family is fairly dialed in, but I shudder a bit when I think of your run rate :)

Edit: I don't mean that as negative, just an observation.
 

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Just because someone hasn't bought a house doesn't mean they are "years behind"..........people do things with their money for different reasons. Buying a house at 23 doesn't make you better than any of your friends. I didn't buy my first house until I was 30 so does that make you better than me or years ahead of me, no. Life isn't a pissing contest.

LOSER! :)
 

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Did I say I was better than anyone?

That is the way it comes off.

Some are just finishing college hopefully they can do something w that degree. Unfortunately they are in debt w no actual job so buying a house is still years away


^^^^This, be happy for them and hope that they do well. Everyone has different plans for their life.
 

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It sounds like your family is fairly dialed in, but I shudder a bit when I think of your run rate :)

Edit: I don't mean that as negative, just an observation.

It's not as bad as you would think. We could get into details but why [emoji4]
 

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This thread has gotten to the point where if someone said the sky is blue, someone else would tell them they are a cocksucker and it's light blue..

At some point I'm going to either remove all the posts out of this thread that aren't relevant, and put them in another and lock it.. Or just delete them all. I haven't decided yet.

RDP for the most part is a happy go lucky place and this thread reminds me of the old hotboat. I'll admit it's as much my fault as anybodies for not handling the situation a little more professionally earlier. In retrospect I probably should have, because it's bad for the board, and that's not acceptable to me.

RD
 

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That is the way it comes off.




^^^^This, be happy for them and hope that they do well. Everyone has different plans for their life.

I'm very happy for them and wish them nothing but the best. But I do think they are off to a late start. When can they retire? When will their house be paid off? When will they be able to buy toys and start living it up. I'm not better than anyone. Just a hard worker trying to do good fort family
 

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This thread has gotten to the point where if someone said the sky is blue, someone else would tell them they are a cocksucker and it's light blue..

At some point I'm going to either remove all the posts out of this thread that aren't relevant, and put them in another and lock it.. Or just delete them all. I haven't decided yet.

RDP for the most part is a happy go lucky place and this thread reminds me of the old hotboat. I'll admit it's as much my fault as anybodies for not handling the situation a little more professionally earlier. In retrospect I probably should have, because it's bad for the board, and that's not acceptable to me.

RD

Vote to delete! Too many swinging dicks...
OP had a good thread
 

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I vote for a new thread since the house didn't sell. We can start fresh and I'll make sure the thread stays on track.
 

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I'm very happy for them and wish them nothing but the best. But I do think they are off to a late start. When can they retire? When will their house be paid off? When will they be able to buy toys and start living it up. I'm not better than anyone. Just a hard worker trying to do good fort family

So at what age do you believe is a "late start?"
 

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I'm not as cool as you Vic, Owned my own business at 26. Owned land at 30.
I'm 46 now, and still own my own business. I owe 2K for supplies.
In 8 years My house is mine.
RD Sux
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Why aren't these guys Brokers if there soooo good?
Mrs. is a broker, too.
I own a jet bote, Maybe 4.
I need a beer.

Dan'l
 

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This thread has gotten to the point where if someone said the sky is blue, someone else would tell them they are a cocksucker and it's light blue..

At some point I'm going to either remove all the posts out of this thread that aren't relevant, and put them in another and lock it.. Or just delete them all. I haven't decided yet.

RDP for the most part is a happy go lucky place and this thread reminds me of the old hotboat. I'll admit it's as much my fault as anybodies for not handling the situation a little more professionally earlier. In retrospect I probably should have, because it's bad for the board, and that's not acceptable to me.

RD

I'm just a quiet reader here. . . but this thread has been entertaining!
 

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This thread is so entertaining, it's being talked about on other web sites :D:D
 

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I'm not as cool as you Vic, Owned my own business at 26. Owned land at 30.
I'm 46 now, and still own my own business. I owe 2K for supplies.
In 8 years My house is mine.
RD Sux
Wife is a R.E. Agent, 1.5%
Why aren't these guys Brokers if there soooo good?
Mrs. is a broker, too.
I own a jet bote, Maybe 4.
I need a beer.

Dan'l

Are you saying you're better than me [emoji12] I just got done working and now I get to sit in 3 hours of traffic from Beverly Hills to chino
 

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I'm very happy for them and wish them nothing but the best. But I do think they are off to a late start. When can they retire? When will their house be paid off? When will they be able to buy toys and start living it up. I'm not better than anyone. Just a hard worker trying to do good fort family

This is a whole other conversation. The question becomes when or if they will "surpass" you... Is that sometime in their 30s? 40s? 50s? It really depends on them, how much debt they have now, and how soon they can pay that off.

Poeple that go get a degree just to get a degree and then go work in retail, Starbucks, foodservice, or some data entry job probably wasted their time and money on the degree vs. 4 years of work experience in a relevant field.

People that get a degree and go make 200K in a few years will have you covered by mid 30s.
 

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Are you saying you're better than me [emoji12] I just got done working and now I get to sit in 3 hours of traffic from Beverly Hills to chino

I get paid to do that.. but I'm non union. :eek
 

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So at what age do you believe is a "late start?"

An example would be my little brother. He's 24 lives w my parents and just joined the trade. He won't journey out till he's 27. Hopefully by third stage he can afford a house. But he won't be able to retire till 60 our later and prob still have a mortgage
 

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This is a whole other conversation. The question becomes when or if they will "surpass" you... Is that sometime in their 30s? 40s? 50s? It really depends on them, how much debt they have now, and how soon they can pay that off.

Poeple that go get a degree just to get a degree and then go work in retail, Starbucks, foodservice, or some data entry job probably wasted their time and money on the degree vs. 4 years of work experience in a relevant field.

People that get a degree and go make 200K plus will have you covered by mid 30s.

Nail on head. But for now they are behind [emoji12]
 

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I bought my first house at 25 so while I'm not as cool as Vic I'm a hell of a lot cooler than OldSchoolBoats. :D
 

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I bought my first house at 25 so while I'm not as cool as Vic I'm a hell of a lot cooler than OldSchoolBoats. :D

Anyone (other than u and I) could have said what I did and it would b a non issue [emoji12]
 

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It's been "entertaining", but definitely got off track...

So, here's hoping that Joe sells his house and gets that house that he was so looking forward to...

Here's hoping that Vic doesn't actually spend 3 hours in traffic, maybe 2 1/2?...

And, here's hoping that this thread goes 60 pages...I did my part...
 

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With that, I am just going to go ahead and exit this conversation.

It's obvious you think you're better than me and that's fine . or maybe you just like to criticize me that's ok too [emoji4]
 

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It's been "entertaining", but definitely got off track...

So, here's hoping that Joe sells his house and gets that house that he was so looking forward to...

Here's hoping that Vic doesn't actually spend 3 hours in traffic, maybe 2 1/2?...

And, here's hoping that this thread goes 60 pages...I did my part...

No where near the freeway yet. If I make 630 I'll be stoked [emoji41]
 

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My thoughts...
[video=youtube;2GQSwMCHJNU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GQSwMCHJNU[/video]
 

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I get what Vic is trying to say. I owned a house before most of my friends because I had a decent job and was able to buy one. I'm sure if my buddies were able to they would of done the same thing. With that being said, I owned my first house and 25 and basically had $50 to my name by the time I turned 40. So I don't think for a second it really matters at what age you buy.
 

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I get what Vic is trying to say. I owned a house before most of my friends because I had a decent job and was able to buy one. I'm sure if my buddies were able to they would of done the same thing. With that being said, I owned my first house and 25 and basically had $50 to my name by the time I turned 40. So I don't think for a second it really matters at what age you buy.

I understand Vic's point, but this is pretty much why it does not matter. He who acrues the most debt is not the winner.
 

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I vote for a new thread since the house didn't sell. We can start fresh and I'll make sure the thread stays on track.

You didn't keep this thread on track. Why would we think you could keep another thread going. :skull
 

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I understand Vic's point, but this is pretty much why it does not matter. He who acrues the most debt is not the winner.

Not sure if that was towards me but like I said, I think the debt is a lot less than you think. [emoji4]
 

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Hey Vic.....most people don't have two duis by your age too......do you consider yourself ahead compared to the rest of your friends? :D And don't get butthurt focker.....just messing with you. :D
 

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Not sure if that was towards me but like I said, I think the debt is a lot less than you think. [emoji4]

I'm not saying you, I am saying in general. If you don't have an emergency fund/cash reserves, etc. and are dependent on your entire income stream to survive, things can change quick in a economic downturn. All the shit you pay for goes from a "luxury" to a liability.
 

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Hey Vic.....most people don't have two duis by your age too......do you consider yourself ahead compared to the rest of your friends? :D And don't get butthurt focker.....just messing with you. :D

BNAG!! Sorry Vic :D
 

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Hey Vic.....most people don't have two duis by your age too......do you consider yourself ahead compared to the rest of your friends? :D And don't get butthurt focker.....just messing with you. :D

Actually yes. [emoji12] I don't drink anymore and I learned it wasn't for me pretty young. I think the number my wife gave me for not drinking and smoking anymore was $400 a month
 

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Hey Vic.....most people don't have two duis by your age too......do you consider yourself ahead compared to the rest of your friends? :D And don't get butthurt focker.....just messing with you. :D
ZING!! lol
 

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There's no confusion Dave. I Honestly thought offering what I did was a favor. Nothing more. I'm sure you can't grasp the concept of actually helping someone besides yourself. You should try it sometime! It feels really good to do something unselfish. It's not all about who can get me this or that for free. And you jumped my shit over offering to list someone's home for 1%. Period, You have NO idea of the level of service I provide for my clients. None. I started selling homes because the agents I ran into were just terrible. Couldn't get a call back on homes we'd inquired about. The lack of service in most business these is just terrible sometimes. The deals that didn't envolve you, which I can only assume who it could be were on loans right? If so I haven't done mortgage loans in over 6 years. Ifs it's either of the two whom would make sense, I assure you and everyone else their were major issues. Shit one of the two, the guy lost his job right before funding. Still got it done. The other, i should have passed when I spoke to his foul mouth rude obnoxious wife, with their over encumbered land. Was a complete mess. But it was my fault. LoL. I'm sure dave you know all the details right???? But are the first to post how terrible the service was. When you had nothing it to with it. LoL.

You on the other hand have shown me and many others how you treat people on here. Think you need to look at how you treat people in general, AND EVEN MORE SO the ones that support you and your business. You have shown me that your truly a classless person. Posting I need to remove the Pub's from so and so from my teeth. Real classy way to talk about a site sponsor. Shit if you post these types of things, I can only imagine the shit you say away from the keyboard. Anyone that posts what you did about someone they've never actually done business with is unfair and reckless. Sobber up, loose some weight, quit smoking. be nice, be here for a few more years for your family. Your headed the wrong way in life dude.


It is what is is dave. You really aren't worth a second annoyance to me anymore. We aren't going to agree on this in any way. You are never wrong, and think you know everything anyway. Right? ;)

So waddle into your huge garage, spark up another Ciggy and talk some more shit. It's what you do when you have nothing to feel good about, and are a unhappy person.

Me..... Gonna go have dinner with my beautiful wife and two cool ass girls. You my X Friend can go Fuck yourself :)
 

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Oh and majority of my friends have at least one [emoji15][emoji16][emoji85]
 

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Are you saying you're better than me [emoji12] I just got done working and now I get to sit in 3 hours of traffic from Beverly Hills to chino

Absolutely not. I turned in my 91 fwy parking permit 20 years ago.
Professional driver for a living.
Not in debt, but 2K
20 minutes to the river.
I need a beer.

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