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you know she has said that she does not want to bash me and wishes me the best yet is sending me text messages bashing me and threatening me ... windy I know you are reading this thread, even though you say that you do not want to ... yet in my text messages you keep referring to some of the messages.. on here.. and spouting off about MY ANGER ISSUES... humm I know you don't want me to really make you look bad.. and start posting some of the BS emails that you have sent me from the past few weeks... even after I had said nice things to you and just asking how you were doing .. and if you were ok .. and that I am sorry... so now I will say this shut the fuck up.. you lied and cheated ... then you went and changed your profile from your meet up page to say different things , and you deleted some of the profile and changed your screen mane.. humm why are you covering your tracks..??? are you guilty of something? you say on thing in public but then something different to me ... I do hope that you continue seeing your physcotheripist and taking your meds.. soo that you don't end up like your mom... remember windy you did this not me.. I never quit. I never stopped loving you not even after you made me sign the divorce papers in order to get the money that belonged to me.. and now you want to trade me my ID for my ring.. you only want it so that I will not be able to go on base and spy on you and you fuck buddy.... if this was not the case then why would you tell me that you have changed your room... humm when you had a private suite.. why? .. you are only fooling your self windy.. just like your dad told me he wishes you would grow up... make all the excuses you want.. I do hope that some day we might be able to talk like adults and there not be any bitterness like there is now... especially from you... I put this out on the table because I had to find out the truth on my own... and I shared it with our friends, to let them see the truth as well I did not tell them what to say or how to feel.. that you did on your own.. these people here were your friends. and they have been here for you... when you came home you were writing your team members asking them to stay in touch with you.... and now that they are on there way home you once again are asking them to not forget you and to continue to stay in touch... you have soo desperately done everything to keep a hold of nothing! and threw away everything... be well windy and I wish you the best .

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Bobby, whenever you'd like for me to close this thread just say the word..

RD
 

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For some reason, I'm thinking my idea of wishing someone the best is maybe a touch different than somebody else's.
 

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Ok I am devastated I/we (Shelli also) have been removed from her myspace account.:(







NOT:D
 

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Ok I am devastated I/we (Shelli also) have been removed from her myspace account.:(







NOT:D

That explains my missing "friend"... Oh well, am sure I'll sleep just fine tonight...

~all the best

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Dont stalk her man. Remember, there are stalking laws here in CA. This is going to piss her off.

I know is tough but let her go and have her freedom.

that's no bullshit. a real good friend of mine got pinched for stalking, what a mess. He didn't she put a restraining order on him. She kept calling him and leaving messages and whatnot. He finally called back a few times and agreeed to meet her, and there were the police to see it. Needless to say, he got phucked.
 

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so why doN'T all you goody goodyS just tie her to the cross and lighT her on fire!!! damm, she doesn't love the guy or she wouldn't been foc'n
around. maybe she isn't the ty'd down type. she felt feeling for some one else, so she told him it's over. I'm sure this was hard as hell for her, torn between two lovers. I 've allways said if you cage two together, they'll
either foc or fight.she not com'n back say'n I'm sorry I made a mistake,
she say'n it's over nuff said, move on!!! I love the hell out of my wife, I'd lay down my life for her, but I also love myself, and the gift god gave me,
LIFE!!!! we share love, I give and I get!!! God fills your heart, not a women

The reason many of us are upset is not because we are goody goodies, it's because she had told us how much she missed everyone, how "lonely" she was and how all she got were letters and calls from Bobby to get her through her day. Dia came on to ask us to send her Christmas cards. So we started sending cards, letters, emails, care packages (I made Christmas cookies and candy for her) magazines, prayers, thoughts, worries, etc. It was all bull. She was never lonely.

As far as telling him it's over, she didn't do that until she was back. She couldn't . . . who would take care of her stuff? She was "hooking up" with her "battle buddy" for months and acted like nothing was wrong. She used Bobby and she used many of us. I wonder how much of the care packages were shared with this loser? :thumbsdown

That's why many are upset. We thought we were sending cards, letters, prayers, and packages to someone we knew. We were wrong.
 

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I just hope she doesnt do this to him.


that's no bullshit. a real good friend of mine got pinched for stalking, what a mess. He didn't she put a restraining order on him. She kept calling him and leaving messages and whatnot. He finally called back a few times and agreeed to meet her, and there were the police to see it. Needless to say, he got phucked.
 

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The reason many of us are upset is not because we are goody goodies, it's because she had told us how much she missed everyone, how "lonely" she was and how all she got were letters and calls from Bobby to get her through her day. Dia came on to ask us to send her Christmas cards. So we started sending cards, letters, emails, care packages (I made Christmas cookies and candy for her) magazines, prayers, thoughts, worries, etc. It was all bull. She was never lonely.

As far as telling him it's over, she didn't do that until she was back. She couldn't . . . who would take care of her stuff? She was "hooking up" with her "battle buddy" for months and acted like nothing was wrong. She used Bobby and she used many of us. I wonder how much of the care packages were shared with this loser? :thumbsdown

That's why many are upset. We thought we were sending cards, letters, prayers, and packages to someone we knew. We were wrong.


well, send me some cookies then, I'm not cheat'n or ly'n,!
 

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I just hope she doesnt do this to him.

She's done about all to him she can, if he will just walk away... permanently. She's nothing but a piece of ass, and judging by what I've seen, heard, or read... I doubt he'll have a problem with finding that.
 

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Good point. Just hope she doesnt get the police involved by saying he stalking her. Thankfully he has some ammunition with this thread.


She's done about all to him she can, if he will just walk away... permanently. She's nothing but a piece of ass, and judging by what I've seen, heard, or read... I doubt he'll have a problem with finding that.
 

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you know she has said that she does not want to bash me and wishes me the best yet is sending me text messages bashing me and threatening me ... windy I know you are reading this thread, even though you say that you do not want to ... yet in my text messages you keep referring to some of the messages.. on here.. and spouting off about MY ANGER ISSUES... humm I know you don't want me to really make you look bad.. and start posting some of the BS emails that you have sent me from the past few weeks... even after I had said nice things to you and just asking how you were doing .. and if you were ok .. and that I am sorry... so now I will say this shut the fuck up.. you lied and cheated ... then you went and changed your profile from your meet up page to say different things , and you deleted some of the profile and changed your screen mane.. humm why are you covering your tracks..??? are you guilty of something? you say on thing in public but then something different to me ... I do hope that you continue seeing your physcotheripist and taking your meds.. soo that you don't end up like your mom... remember windy you did this not me.. I never quit. I never stopped loving you not even after you made me sign the divorce papers in order to get the money that belonged to me.. and now you want to trade me my ID for my ring.. you only want it so that I will not be able to go on base and spy on you and you fuck buddy.... if this was not the case then why would you tell me that you have changed your room... humm when you had a private suite.. why? .. you are only fooling your self windy.. just like your dad told me he wishes you would grow up... make all the excuses you want.. I do hope that some day we might be able to talk like adults and there not be any bitterness like there is now... especially from you... I put this out on the table because I had to find out the truth on my own... and I shared it with our friends, to let them see the truth as well I did not tell them what to say or how to feel.. that you did on your own.. these people here were your friends. and they have been here for you... when you came home you were writing your team members asking them to stay in touch with you.... and now that they are on there way home you once again are asking them to not forget you and to continue to stay in touch... you have soo desperately done everything to keep a hold of nothing! and threw away everything... be well windy and I wish you the best .

Stay strong, you've probably heard this many times already, but time does heal all wounds.:thumbsup
 

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Good point. Just hope she doesnt get the police involved by saying he stalking her. Thankfully he has some ammunition with this thread.

I really hate it, the way things went down. I watched this relationship evolve on the boards. I remember taking the trip to OP6 one year, back when she was still with HBJet, and met them briefly, as in saying "Hi" in passing... and their breakup. This one then kicked off, and as bitter or whatever the word is toward relationships and marriage... you think damn, this is one of those that might work. I might rain on a few parades or take a few shots in a joking way when there is talk of marriage, but even I still have hope... I saw how Bobby was nuts about her and she seemed to be the same way. I just really hate it for him, and as far as she goes, Fuck her for turning what seemed to be a fairy tale into yet another fuckin' statistic. Sometimes I really hate being right.:mad:
 

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wind·y (wnd)
adj. wind·i·er, wind·i·est
1. Characterized by or abounding in wind: a windy night.
2. Open to the wind; unsheltered: a windy terrace.
3. Resembling the wind in speed, force, or variability: a windy dash homeward.
4.
a. Lacking substance; empty: windy promises.
b. Given to or characterized by wearisome verbosity: a windy speaker.
5. Flatulent.

I'll go with 4a, 4b &5
 

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Sucks for all parties involved.

I really hate it, the way things went down. I watched this relationship evolve on the boards. I remember taking the trip to OP6 one year, back when she was still with HBJet, and met them briefly, as in saying "Hi" in passing... and their breakup. This one then kicked off, and as bitter or whatever the word is toward relationships and marriage... you think damn, this is one of those that might work. I might rain on a few parades or take a few shots in a joking way when there is talk of marriage, but even I still have hope... I saw how Bobby was nuts about her and she seemed to be the same way. I just really hate it for him, and as far as she goes, Fuck her for turning what seemed to be a fairy tale into yet another fuckin' statistic. Sometimes I really hate being right.:mad:
 

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The reason many of us are upset is not because we are goody goodies, it's because she had told us how much she missed everyone, how "lonely" she was and how all she got were letters and calls from Bobby to get her through her day. Dia came on to ask us to send her Christmas cards. So we started sending cards, letters, emails, care packages (I made Christmas cookies and candy for her) magazines, prayers, thoughts, worries, etc. It was all bull. She was never lonely.

As far as telling him it's over, she didn't do that until she was back. She couldn't . . . who would take care of her stuff? She was "hooking up" with her "battle buddy" for months and acted like nothing was wrong. She used Bobby and she used many of us. I wonder how much of the care packages were shared with this loser? :thumbsdown

That's why many are upset. We thought we were sending cards, letters, prayers, and packages to someone we knew. We were wrong.

I agree with you, I hate people who stay in a relationship for the convenience, act like everything is ok, then leave as soon as someone
new comes along,those kind usally wanna come back, say they made a mistake only to do it again. I think most of us have been through simular
situations and have moved on, I look at it this way, he put her on a pedistil
thought she was gods gift, guess he was wrong, I still say she was confused, and was think'n it over real hard, the worst thing to add to a bad marriage is another person!! just makes it worse.
 

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I agree with you, I hate people who stay in a relationship for the convenience, act like everything is ok, then leave as soon as someone
new comes along,those kind usally wanna come back, say they made a mistake only to do it again. I think most of us have been through simular
situations and have moved on, I look at it this way, he put her on a pedistil
thought she was gods gift, guess he was wrong, I still say she was confused, and was think'n it over real hard, the worst thing to add to a bad marriage is another person!! just makes it worse.

You're right with regards to adding another person who is supposedly there to comfort you, but it goes a little further than comfort. You see the new friend as someone who listens and shows alot of affection in order to make your companion look like shit. But in all reality, you are the one who is treating your companion like shit. It's a vicious cycle that never ends because the new gent is now treating you better than his wife which will put her in your position of looking for someone better, when in all reality, you never had it that bad to begin with.
 

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Every time I saw you two, you guys seemed like a couple very much in love. Such a shame it turned out like this.
You can take the Stripper outta the club but you can't take the club outta the Stripper.

Looks like she's working here...
Some of those few pics could be represented as "friendly", perhaps.
But this one here is well beyond and closed the deal from my perspective.
Nibbling and tongue in the ear is not just friends, not even best friends.
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If they met awaiting to deploy........She came home early....Whats he doing back already. Is the time line correct
 

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What? A stripper that takes meds and need psycho therapy? Say it isnt so!
 

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If they met awaiting to deploy........She came home early....Whats he doing back already. Is the time line correct

their deployment just finished, and her buddy's are in VA demobilizing, waiting to go home...
 

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You can take the Stripper outta the club but you can't take the club outta the Stripper.

Looks like she's working here...

Yup, trying to get a big "tip".:D

battle buddy:smackhead:fsakes
 

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...and I wish everyone would stop calling him Soldier Boy. He's a focking Squid. A bottom feeding form of a sea creature. Guess ya can't blame HIM then, huh?
 

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One thing for sure that comes across in this Thread.
The women on this site are awsome.All of
you.
 

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One thing for sure that comes across in this Thread.
The women on this site are awsome.All of
you.

I wouldn't say all of them, there is still one registered whos name starts with the letter "W" and that one is the opposite of awesome.
 

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Hey Bobby I have never meet you, but keep your head high.......This type of shit happend to me also a few years back.......she will be crawling back to you and feed you all kinds of bullshit, how she fucked up........kick-her-ass-to-the-curb........Things will get better with time.......more fish in the sea bro, ............"BRO'S BEFORE HO'S"...........:beer:beer:beer
 

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Hey Bobby I have never meet you, but keep your head high.......This type of shit happend to me also a few years back.......she will be crawling back to you and feed you all kinds of bullshit, how she fucked up........kick-her-ass-to-the-curb........Things will get better with time.......more fish in the sea bro, ............"BRO'S BEFORE HO'S"...........:beer:beer:beer

You forgot at least three other really popular cliches. What about "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger?"
 

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you know she has said that she does not want to bash me and wishes me the best yet is sending me text messages bashing me and threatening me ... windy I know you are reading this thread, even though you say that you do not want to ... yet in my text messages you keep referring to some of the messages.. on here.. and spouting off about MY ANGER ISSUES... humm I know you don't want me to really make you look bad.. and start posting some of the BS emails that you have sent me from the past few weeks... even after I had said nice things to you and just asking how you were doing .. and if you were ok .. and that I am sorry... so now I will say this shut the fuck up.. you lied and cheated ... then you went and changed your profile from your meet up page to say different things , and you deleted some of the profile and changed your screen mane.. humm why are you covering your tracks..??? are you guilty of something? you say on thing in public but then something different to me ... I do hope that you continue seeing your physcotheripist and taking your meds.. soo that you don't end up like your mom... remember windy you did this not me.. I never quit. I never stopped loving you not even after you made me sign the divorce papers in order to get the money that belonged to me.. and now you want to trade me my ID for my ring.. you only want it so that I will not be able to go on base and spy on you and you fuck buddy.... if this was not the case then why would you tell me that you have changed your room... humm when you had a private suite.. why? .. you are only fooling your self windy.. just like your dad told me he wishes you would grow up... make all the excuses you want.. I do hope that some day we might be able to talk like adults and there not be any bitterness like there is now... especially from you... I put this out on the table because I had to find out the truth on my own... and I shared it with our friends, to let them see the truth as well I did not tell them what to say or how to feel.. that you did on your own.. these people here were your friends. and they have been here for you... when you came home you were writing your team members asking them to stay in touch with you.... and now that they are on there way home you once again are asking them to not forget you and to continue to stay in touch... you have soo desperately done everything to keep a hold of nothing! and threw away everything... be well windy and I wish you the best .

you forgot to tell her "see you next time" :hmm:skull
 

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Bobby, did you have her daughter with you full time during the time of the deployment? I feel terribly for you, but just can't get over the fact the emotions a kid has to go through during one of these break ups....mom's gone, kid bond's with new dad....mommy gets back and moves on and the kid is left thinking WTF did I do to deserve this..

Too sad!
 

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Bobby, did you have her daughter with you full time during the time of the deployment? I feel terribly for you, but just can't get over the fact the emotions a kid has to go through during one of these break ups....mom's gone, kid bond's with new dad....mommy gets back and moves on and the kid is left thinking WTF did I do to deserve this..

Too sad!


I know Bobbys is not the maternal father, but just knowing how nice Bobby is, I am sure he treated her as his own. So three lives have been ruined thru this ordeal, only two are probably heart broken though and wondering what they did to deserve this.
 

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Bobby, did you have her daughter with you full time during the time of the deployment? I feel terribly for you, but just can't get over the fact the emotions a kid has to go through during one of these break ups....mom's gone, kid bond's with new dad....mommy gets back and moves on and the kid is left thinking WTF did I do to deserve this..

Too sad!

well said...
 

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Easykiller needs to get Rickroll'ed! :D

Just because it's funny! ;)
 

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Bobby, did you have her daughter with you full time during the time of the deployment? I feel terribly for you, but just can't get over the fact the emotions a kid has to go through during one of these break ups....mom's gone, kid bond's with new dad....mommy gets back and moves on and the kid is left thinking WTF did I do to deserve this..

Too sad!

Tough to read buy very true.
 
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