When a hooker steals. in your home..... and then the Response options

[Taboma]

I picked up on the Sir thing also in my first career working on Ambulances. On the radio and in person, we just called each other Sirs and when working with Fire and Police.

Never realized some people look weird at it. Got me more concious of it now.

If anybody misconstrues being referred with respect as "Sir", the problem lies with them, not with you at all.

 

[beerrun]

I still call people sir

 

[bonesfab]

It wasn’t that long ago (3-4 years?) that I was living a very similar life as Hubba. Granted it was in the US but it was extremely impressive what an old fat white guy could pull with a few dollars a decent house and a bag of blow…Add a couple boats in the mix and at times it seemed like work to keep the whole program straight……

Do you offer consulting services about this program? Asking for a friend of coarse

 

[lbhsbz]

Do you offer consulting services about this program? Asking for a friend of coarse

its called a "workshop" event

where is the next one?

 

[samsah33]

Why 16.00? Why not 15.00 or 17?

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

My Dad was military and I was raised that way. Apologies as it is just a habit.

Oh I understand how "Sir" is supposed to be used however I am of the belief that some of our younger folks tend to use the term in a somewhat condescending way. I could be wrong of course....

 

[Willie B]

Oh I understand how "Sir" is supposed to be used however I am of the belief that some of our younger folks tend to use the term in a somewhat condescending way. I could be wrong of course....

… no, you are not wrong…

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

… no, you are not wrong…

Ha.... agreed.... I still use it when speaking respectfully with an elder. And as southern guy use " Ma'am often regardless of a gals age.

 

[RiverDave]

It wasn’t that long ago (3-4 years?) that I was living a very similar life as Hubba. Granted it was in the US but it was extremely impressive what an old fat white guy could pull with a few dollars a decent house and a bag of blow…Add a couple boats in the mix and at times it seemed like work to keep the whole program straight……

Honestly I have friends from all over the world, and this whole thread is kind of a way of life for a lot of people I know.. From Belize and other parts around Honduras, all the way through Mexico..

If you think about it, it is approached a little differently and what some would call "classier" but it isn't really all that different than the Meat Market that was Orange County when I lived there. You just didn't call them hookers, and it took a lot more talking to get down to biz..

I never fucked around in the drug game, but I know plenty of people that did, and their stories were told less bluntly, but same outcome just with California girls.

I'm not sure I get all the "judgmental" attitude by a lot of the people in this thread. Doesn't really matter how ya word it, whether it's a one night stand, a paid arrangement, or even a marriage.. End of the day it takes 2 to seal the deal. Just depends on what the dude and the chick are looking for out of the arrangement.

RD

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Honestly I have friends from all over the world, and this whole thread is kind of a way of life for a lot of people I know.. From Belize and other parts around Honduras, all the way through Mexico..

If you think about it, it is approached a little differently and what some would call "classier" but it isn't really all that different than the Meat Market that was Orange County when I lived there. You just didn't call them hookers, and it took a lot more talking to get down to biz..

I never fucked around in the drug game, but I know plenty of people that did, and their stories were told less bluntly, but same outcome just with California girls.

I'm not sure I get all the "judgmental" attitude by a lot of the people in this thread. Doesn't really matter how ya word it, whether it's a one night stand, a paid arrangement, or even a marriage.. End of the day it takes 2 to seal the deal. Just depends on what the dude and the chick are looking for out of the arrangement.

RD

Well said Captain

 

[BHC Vic]

Honestly I have friends from all over the world, and this whole thread is kind of a way of life for a lot of people I know.. From Belize and other parts around Honduras, all the way through Mexico..

If you think about it, it is approached a little differently and what some would call "classier" but it isn't really all that different than the Meat Market that was Orange County when I lived there. You just didn't call them hookers, and it took a lot more talking to get down to biz..

I never fucked around in the drug game, but I know plenty of people that did, and their stories were told less bluntly, but same outcome just with California girls.

I'm not sure I get all the "judgmental" attitude by a lot of the people in this thread. Doesn't really matter how ya word it, whether it's a one night stand, a paid arrangement, or even a marriage.. End of the day it takes 2 to seal the deal. Just depends on what the dude and the chick are looking for out of the arrangement.

RD

What does @RiverDiva think about this thread? Now I’m very curious

 

[17 10 Flat]

Many years ago met 4 guys at a VFW they would winter in Costa Rica, a house maid at that time was $600 a month. She took care of Everything. Periodically would get a new one. Seemed to work for them. No doubt inflation has had an effect.

 

[bonesfab]

Honestly I have friends from all over the world, and this whole thread is kind of a way of life for a lot of people I know.. From Belize and other parts around Honduras, all the way through Mexico..

If you think about it, it is approached a little differently and what some would call "classier" but it isn't really all that different than the Meat Market that was Orange County when I lived there. You just didn't call them hookers, and it took a lot more talking to get down to biz..

I never fucked around in the drug game, but I know plenty of people that did, and their stories were told less bluntly, but same outcome just with California girls.

I'm not sure I get all the "judgmental" attitude by a lot of the people in this thread. Doesn't really matter how ya word it, whether it's a one night stand, a paid arrangement, or even a marriage.. End of the day it takes 2 to seal the deal. Just depends on what the dude and the chick are looking for out of the arrangement.

RD

No matter what you are paying for it in one form or another. Hookers are just more upfront about it unlike girlfriends.

 

[Lunatic Fringe]

Honestly I have friends from all over the world, and this whole thread is kind of a way of life for a lot of people I know.. From Belize and other parts around Honduras, all the way through Mexico..

If you think about it, it is approached a little differently and what some would call "classier" but it isn't really all that different than the Meat Market that was Orange County when I lived there. You just didn't call them hookers, and it took a lot more talking to get down to biz..

I never fucked around in the drug game, but I know plenty of people that did, and their stories were told less bluntly, but same outcome just with California girls.

I'm not sure I get all the "judgmental" attitude by a lot of the people in this thread. Doesn't really matter how ya word it, whether it's a one night stand, a paid arrangement, or even a marriage.. End of the day it takes 2 to seal the deal. Just depends on what the dude and the chick are looking for out of the arrangement.

RD

You can't normalize what the majority would consider abhorrent behavior by shrugging your shoulders and saying "Well, some other people are doing it too".

There's a reason the friends you cite in your post are conducting themselves in Honduras, Belize, Mexico.

While it certainly takes two to tango, if you think for a hot minute there's any commonality between drugs, prostitution and theft and the marriages of your members here, I have a strong sense you'd get a collective as a response.

As for the judgement you're seeing here, what did you expect?

When Hubbahubbahumpahooker puts his laundry out on the front lawn for all to examine, not everyone is going to agree with his choices.

 

[was thatguy]

Honestly I have friends from all over the world, and this whole thread is kind of a way of life for a lot of people I know.. From Belize and other parts around Honduras, all the way through Mexico..

If you think about it, it is approached a little differently and what some would call "classier" but it isn't really all that different than the Meat Market that was Orange County when I lived there. You just didn't call them hookers, and it took a lot more talking to get down to biz..

I never fucked around in the drug game, but I know plenty of people that did, and their stories were told less bluntly, but same outcome just with California girls.

I'm not sure I get all the "judgmental" attitude by a lot of the people in this thread. Doesn't really matter how ya word it, whether it's a one night stand, a paid arrangement, or even a marriage.. End of the day it takes 2 to seal the deal. Just depends on what the dude and the chick are looking for out of the arrangement.

RD

Well, for me the judgment mostly came when he posted in this thread about celebrating his live in girlfriends miscarriage about 7 years ago or so. Bought himself a boat as his prize.
She was about 25 yo and he was about 58 back then. Then he mocked her for being naive about her body.
As a dad that has 3 daughters and grandkids by all of them, I’ve seen 2 daughters suffer miscarriages. One was later term. She had a name, there was a funeral.
Losing a child is not something you celebrate unless you are a self absorbed whore mongering predator.
If that was any one of your daughters you’d be calling for his head…not celebrating his so called lifestyle.
Or I guess we can blame her parents for raising her wrong?

And call me weird if you want to, but in my mind there is a big difference between a wife and a whore, a husband and an up skirt videotaping whore monger, and a paid arrangement vs a marriage?

That’s just me though.

 

[was thatguy]

You can't normalize what the majority would consider abhorrent behavior by shrugging your shoulders and saying "Well, some other people are doing it too".

There's a reason the friends you cite in your post are conducting themselves in Honduras, Belize, Mexico.

While it certainly takes two to tango, if you think for a hot minute there's any commonality between drugs, prostitution and theft and the marriages of your members here, I have a strong sense you'd get a collective as a response.

Yep
Publicly comparing wives to whores is generally a bad idea…

 

[clarence]

As for the judgement you're seeing here, what did you expect?

On a boating/lifestyle site? I'm expecting entertainment.

 

[17 10 Flat]

Guess I can understand some folks not enjoying all of Hubbas posts, but ya all read them. Just put the thread on ignore or don't open the thread. Reading something you find offensive and then complaining about...why??? At this point it's no surprise where it's going.
If I was in his shoes would I give as much detail as Hubba does...not a chance. I just read it, sometimes I reply most times I don't.

 

[Lunatic Fringe]

Guess I can understand some folks not enjoying all of Hubbas posts, but ya all read them. Just put the thread on ignore or don't open the thread. Reading something you find offensive and then complaining about...why??? At this point it's no surprise where it's going.
If I was in his shoes would I give as much detail as Hubba does...not a chance. I just read it, sometimes I reply most times I don't.

Hubba billed this entire thread and his activities as a social experiment.

I have my doubts about that but taking him at his word, would it not serve his "experiment" better if he were to see comments by both sides?

 

[Angler]

Bring on the whores. It's great entertainment.

I don't understand why some people take this entertainment so personally.

 

[Flying_Lavey]

Hubba billed this entire thread and his activities as a social experiment.

I have my doubts about that but taking him at his word, would it not serve his "experiment" better if he were to see comments by both sides?

Really seems like any comments here have no real bearing on his experiments. He is sharing his experiments for others to interpret, but I really dont think other's opinions are influencing his actions or how he is conducting his experiments at all.

 

[ChiliPepperGarage]

When Hubbahubbahumpahooker puts his laundry out on the front lawn for all to examine, not everyone is going to agree with his choices.

I think HubbaHubba needs to change his screen name!

 

[was thatguy]

Bring on the whores. It's great entertainment.

I don't understand why some people take this entertainment so personally.

I just never thought that RDP would become the back page of a bottom shelf jerk mag…quickly headed to an 18 and over log in site.

 

[Angler]

I just never thought that RDP would become the back page of a bottom shelf jerk mag…quickly headed to an 18 and over log in site.

It hasn't.

 

[Lunatic Fringe]

Bring on the whores. It's great entertainment.

I don't understand why some people take this entertainment so personally.

I think your 2nd sentence sums it up.
You don't understand.

But none of us completely understand why an individuals moral compass points a certain direction.
Was it religion? Lack of religion?
Past experiences, good or bad?
Maybe it's just a Holier than thou attitude.

Either way, a social media site should be a place to read varying opinions even if you don't like them. Otherwise we might as well just sit in a dark room and talk to ourselves.

 

[Angler]

I think your 2nd sentence sums it up.
You don't understand.

But none of us completely understand why an individuals moral compass points a certain direction.
Was it religion? Lack of religion?
Past experiences, good or bad?
Maybe it's just a Holier than thou attitude.

Either way, a social media site should be a place to read varying opinions even if you don't like them. Otherwise we might as well just sit in a dark room and talk to ourselves.

Who are you to judge anyone? Please step away from your glass house.

 

[Lunatic Fringe]

Who are you to judge anyone? Please step away from your glass house.

If you only knew...

I don't try to come off as judgemental (most of the time) but I also will share an opinion on occasion.

 

[Lunatic Fringe]

Really seems like any comments here have no real bearing on his experiments. He is sharing his experiments for others to interpret, but I really dont think other's opinions are influencing his actions or how he is conducting his experiments at all.

Possibly, but does that mean others shouldn't share their thinking?

True scientists publish their experiments for peer review and in a sense, that's what Hubba is doing.

And I might disagree on the "no influence" part.
Hubba is well written and I believe well read so even if the influence isn't overt, it's still there.

 

[Bowtiepower00]

While Hubba might be leading a lifestyle that the majority of us living in the US do not, I appreciate him giving RDP an insight on how a lot of men (particularly expats) choose to live.

I grew up abroad, and a significant amount of men that I know lead a similar way of life to what Hubba is showing us in this thread. Some do it a few weeks or months a year while on vacation, and some do it fulltime. Some are younger and never married, but most are bachelor for life types or older divorced guys with adult kids in the states or elsewhere.

I know lots of guys who are on their second, third, or fourth families, and trade in their spouse every 5-10 years. There are a ton of Vietnam Vets/ retired military who didn’t want to return to the states living this same way in SE Asia.

The levels of degeneracy vary, but the bulk of this thread is pretty tame, normal stuff for a lot of the world.

I can’t speak to the girls in this particular instance, and won’t get into discussions of trafficking, etc, but they are usually willing participants- and are likely treated better partying with guys like Hubba than a lot of the alternatives. He is not forcing them to be there. The world is not all sunshine and fairytales. If I had a daughter, would I want her to live like the girls in this thread? Of course not, but this is pretty common in a lot of the world. This thread is another reminder to be grateful you (and your families) are able to live in America and be successful.

Personally, I never stepped foot into this type of lifestyle, because I’ve seen how it makes returning to a “normal” life impossible for those who have experienced it. After being surrounded by younger (usually submissive) women, most guys aren’t going to go back to dealing with a ball and chain who wants to nag and complain.

Disclaimer: I’m not saying all women/ marriages are like that, I’m just showing another point of view.

This doesn’t appear to be Hubbas first rodeo, and he appears to be aware of the risks involved. Thanks for the entertainment.

 

[RichardMango]

Hey atleast Hubbas not fucking dudes

 

[fishing fool]

Hubba, Charlie Sheen and Britney Speers it's all good entertainment..... Even being a Dallas Cowboys fan... It's not for everyone but enjoyment to read from time to time.....

 

[was thatguy]

Hey atleast Hubbas not fucking dudes

Those dudes were chicks??

 

[rivrrts429]

Hubba, Charlie Sheen and Britney Speers it's all good entertainment..... Even being a Dallas Cowboys fan... It's not for everyone but enjoyment to read from time to time.....

Tiger blood

 

[17 10 Flat]

I just never thought that RDP would become the back page of a bottom shelf jerk mag…quickly headed to an 18 and over log in site.

Only read it when I'm all alone. Don't want anyone else to catch me..

But I can see where you are coming from. Stories are getting more and more out there.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Many years ago met 4 guys at a VFW they would winter in Costa Rica, a house maid at that time was $600 a month. She took care of Everything. Periodically would get a new one. Seemed to work for them. No doubt inflation has had an effect.

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[HubbaHubbaLife]

Hubba billed this entire thread and his activities as a social experiment.

I have my doubts about that but taking him at his word, would it not serve his "experiment" better if he were to see comments by both sides?

Fair point

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

While Hubba might be leading a lifestyle that the majority of us living in the US do not, I appreciate him giving RDP an insight on how a lot of men (particularly expats) choose to live.

I grew up abroad, and a significant amount of men that I know lead a similar way of life to what Hubba is showing us in this thread. Some do it a few weeks or months a year while on vacation, and some do it fulltime. Some are younger and never married, but most are bachelor for life types or older divorced guys with adult kids in the states or elsewhere.

I know lots of guys who are on their second, third, or fourth families, and trade in their spouse every 5-10 years. There are a ton of Vietnam Vets/ retired military who didn’t want to return to the states living this same way in SE Asia.

The levels of degeneracy vary, but the bulk of this thread is pretty tame, normal stuff for a lot of the world.

I can’t speak to the girls in this particular instance, and won’t get into discussions of trafficking, etc, but they are usually willing participants- and are likely treated better partying with guys like Hubba than a lot of the alternatives. He is not forcing them to be there. The world is not all sunshine and fairytales. If I had a daughter, would I want her to live like the girls in this thread? Of course not, but this is pretty common in a lot of the world. This thread is another reminder to be grateful you (and your families) are able to live in America and be successful.

Personally, I never stepped foot into this type of lifestyle, because I’ve seen how it makes returning to a “normal” life impossible for those who have experienced it. After being surrounded by younger (usually submissive) women, most guys aren’t going to go back to dealing with a ball and chain who wants to nag and complain.

Disclaimer: I’m not saying all women/ marriages are like that, I’m just showing another point of view.

This doesn’t appear to be Hubbas first rodeo, and he appears to be aware of the risks involved. Thanks for the entertainment.

Great post.... "Levels of degeneracy" My RDP phrase of the week! Thank you

 

[lbhsbz]

Half the posts on the internet replying to what to do tonight (jokingly)…”hookers and blow”

What would you do if you had a million dollars?

Hubba does both and everyone loses their shit…lol.

Not saying I’d make the same choices, but just sayin’

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Hubba, Charlie Sheen and Britney Speers it's all good entertainment..... Even being a Dallas Cowboys fan... It's not for everyone but enjoyment to read from time to time.....

Did I mention Sheen just bought a home here? Well thats the rumor anyway.... and for me it makes total sense. I'm sure we'll all accept him with open arms....Funny thing though; these Ex Pats down here can be very judgy just as they were in states so he'll have to pick his spots finding his peeps.

 

[was thatguy]

It hasn't.

Ultimately it won’t be you or I that decides that.
It’ll be an actual judge acting on complaints from PACs and mad mothers…all based on minor child internet access statutes.
It won’t be Hubba being judged though, it’ll be this site…that some members seem intent on making into an 18 and over designation?
Oh well, no skin off my ass.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Might be a good time to drop this on our thread: Little Deepak Chopra saying for what its worth.....​

Free yourself from the burden of judgment. By judging you impose right and wrong on situations that simply are. Everything can be understood and forgiven, but when you judge you move away from understanding and nullify the process of learning to love. By judging others you reflect your lack of self-acceptance. Remember that each person you forgive increases your love for yourself.​

A non-judgmental mindset is closely related to well-being.

 

[Rayson1971]

Might be a good time to drop this on our thread: Little Deepak Chopra saying for what its worth.....​

Free yourself from the burden of judgment. By judging you impose right and wrong on situations that simply are. Everything can be understood and forgiven, but when you judge you move away from understanding and nullify the process of learning to love. By judging others you reflect your lack of self-acceptance. Remember that each person you forgive increases your love for yourself.​

A non-judgmental mindset is closely related to well-being.

 

[Rayson1971]

Mathew 7 paraphrase. " brother, remove the plank from your own eye so you can see clear to remove the splinter from your brethren. "

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Hooker update.... those last 4 that are up from lower parts of Mexico are apparently staying in a hotel near all the strip clubs in TJ and depart 9/30. Its been around a week since they all came through and two of em send me texts and pics as they get around and I figure at some point those two will find their way back here to escape the madness of the profession and recharge. For me I've been enjoying the Saging. I had a Russian massage gal for many years and she'd do this saging thing burning some weird smelling brush and passing it in her hand around her space to remove negative energies or so the thinking goes. These gals bring a ton of energy and its often not positive for me anyway....

As an example; The lead hooker [pictured with me in bright green shirt earlier in thread] her names Vanessa. She's definitely more experienced than the other 3 ... Eddy my Consigliere' has been staying closer to the gals this past week and he tells me she 's latched on to a cartel related dude up in TJ doing the fancier restaurants and shopping stuff. Well ole Vanessa in her infinite wisdom fucked one of the cartel dudes security detail and word got to him and he had the dude beaten badly with two by fours in front of her. Oh boy.... I can't wait for her to come through here [if she does] before departure... she's got two full weeks left if her dates are real. Girls like these simply disappear here as well. They are typically very savvy types having learned their cultures survival lessons early but sounds like my friend Vanessa still has challenges keeping her vagina in her pants as they say. Lets all say a prayer for Vanessa.

 

[Javajoe]

Blows my mind people are offended by this thread. Prostitution has been around forever and this thread has no child sex trafficking, graphic sex or drug language. Just a guy who has strip club workers frequent his pad. That’s about it. Why they read this thread and comment on it is pretty funny really. I guess they call it a Guilty Pleasure. Some may call it hypocritical. I just find it entertaining but I am also the type that does not trust clowns, mall Santa Clauses or priests around young kids.

 

[BHC Vic]

Hooker update.... those last 4 that are up from lower parts of Mexico are apparently staying in a hotel near all the strip clubs in TJ and depart 9/30. Its been around a week since they all came through and two of em send me texts and pics as they get around and I figure at some point those two will find their way back here to escape the madness of the profession and recharge. For me I've been enjoying the Saging. I had a Russian massage gal for many years and she'd do this saging thing burning some weird smelling brush and passing it in her hand around her space to remove negative energies or so the thinking goes. These gals bring a ton of energy and its often not positive for me anyway....

As an example; The lead hooker [pictured with me in bright green shirt earlier in thread] her names Vanessa. She's definitely more experienced than the other 3 ... Eddy my Consigliere' has been staying closer to the gals this past week and he tells me she 's latched on to a cartel related dude up in TJ doing the fancier restaurants and shopping stuff. Well ole Vanessa in her infinite wisdom fucked one of the cartel dudes security detail and word got to him and he had the dude beaten badly with two by fours in front of her. Oh boy.... I can't wait for her to come through here [if she does] before departure... she's got two full weeks left if her dates are real. Girls like these simply disappear here as well. They are typically very savvy types having learned their cultures survival lessons early but sounds like my friend Vanessa still has challenges keeping her vagina in her pants as they say. Lets all say a prayer for Vanessa.

A 2x4 is better than a machete I guess

 

[BHC Vic]

Blows my mind people are offended by this thread. Prostitution has been around forever and this thread has no child sex trafficking, graphic sex or drug language. Just a guy who has strip club workers frequent his pad. That’s about it. Why they read this thread and comment on it is pretty funny really. I guess they call it a Guilty Pleasure. Some may call it hypocritical. I just find it entertaining but I am also the type that does not trust clowns, mall Santa Clauses or priests around young kids.

I watch a lot of game of thrones it’s been around since forever

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Blows my mind people are offended by this thread. Prostitution has been around forever and this thread has no child sex trafficking, graphic sex or drug language. Just a guy who has strip club workers frequent his pad. That’s about it. Why they read this thread and comment on it is pretty funny really. I guess they call it a Guilty Pleasure. Some may call it hypocritical. I just find it entertaining but I am also the type that does not trust clowns, mall Santa Clauses or priests around young kids.

Clowns ha! I have three friends who are terrified of fucking clowns... that is hilarious my man. Love it.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Blows my mind people are offended by this thread. Prostitution has been around forever and this thread has no child sex trafficking, graphic sex or drug language. Just a guy who has strip club workers frequent his pad. That’s about it. Why they read this thread and comment on it is pretty funny really. I guess they call it a Guilty Pleasure. Some may call it hypocritical. I just find it entertaining but I am also the type that does not trust clowns, mall Santa Clauses or priests around young kids.

Psychologists would say that when we react in such a manner it reflects more on ourselves inwardly than the topic that we are reacting to in that moment..... they just dont have the filter and thats why I think its important to allow folks their say... In a public forum such as this there are filters everywhere.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

A 2x4 is better than a machete I guess

Yup, live to get beaten another day right. Dang Vanessa's a special one for sure but I aint taking no beating for it. We had a session on my massage table where I administered some extra attention to one area in particular as she was very receptive... she's super cool but my guess is the guys will kick her to curb at some point and I'll get the call.....