When a hooker steals. in your home..... and then the Response options

[HubbaHubbaLife]

This has been an interesting ride - an attempt to slowly domesticate a free-range stripper thru passive means.
The thread started as a call-out thread, if it had followed the usual format the thread would culminate with the stripper joining RDP and blowing this thread up......

Free Range Stripper.... Like that

 

[was thatguy]

After so many years, I still don’t understand how grown ass men, can DM you on thread… and or the bigger Dick Move, those that take the thread outside of RDP.

You should out them out so we know who they are… total bitch move.

Outside of RDP?
8 billion people can read this, except N Koreans and infants I suppose?
The second anything’s posted its “outside of RDP”…

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

I'm not sure it was an attempt to domesticate so much as it was a social experiment with feral. Honestly there is a lot of unpack out of the thread itself, from the Hubba Hubba's very methodical thinking about the experience (which most older cocksman of any value take that approach), to his ability to articulate it.. What I found more fascinating was some of the reactions that came out of the thread... From the usual dickbags that have never actually lived life outside of a cubicle and are the first to pipe up.. But more so the behind the scenes PM's I got from a couple different members that were absolutely horrified by it. The mindset that some stripper in Mexico is to be treated like a lady is completely lost on me.. But then I tend to imagine one of those people driving around in a Tesla who's batteries were produced from Child labor over in Africa and china, somehow having moral high ground on this gent spending some time with a complete of age girl in another country.. LOL. Absolutely bizarre.

RD

Thanks Dave. Appreciate that you saw value in the thread.... and for sure we got some clowns running round. At least they had the civility to PM you directly.... most of the idiots dropped out pretty early and we got on with business. I was never going to change my course unless too many haters chirped up and felt for me the thread was cathartic. [providing psychological relief through the open expression of strong emotions; causing catharsis]

 

[Member: 71]

Outside of RDP?
8 billion people can read this, except N Koreans and infants I suppose?
The second anything’s posted its “outside of RDP”…

Come on, man….you know what I’m talking about….I’m talking about the “members” here that have taken the threads and called employers and tried to rat them out.
They are at the same level of a grown ass men, DMing Dave over some bitch ass thread about a hooker….LOL - that same hooker they are trying to save would rob them blind.

 

[was thatguy]

Come on, man….you know what I’m talking about….I’m talking about the “members” here that have taken the threads and called employers and tried to rat them out.
They are at the same level of a grown ass men, DMing Dave over some bitch ass thread about a hooker….LOL - that same hooker they are trying to save would rob them blind.

Got it.
On a side note, to my point.
Just did a Google search…
This is what happens…everything we do matters.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

This has been an interesting ride......

thanks for taking all of us along. Not sure if this is the end of it or not but still paying attention. I would agree, thieves and lying are things I really struggle with. Still dealing with someone I was very close to lying to me over the course of several months . Not sure what direction that is going.


Got to have boundaries.

So what happens when she stops by with the envelope of cash and apologizes? Unlikely but possible.

Glad you came along.... if she were to apologies and admit then I absolutely would accept her back... mostly as a friend more than trying to save her or 'wife her up" as my Consigliere' says I did. She's an exceptional human in many respects but her choices are highly toxic obviously. I'm a forgiving type by nature and have many flawed people in my life as a result . I genuinely like people. As far as her ability to apologize if you were to go back in this lengthy tale there was a moment where I told her I am due an apology for something I felt strongly about.... I'm trying to recall what it was she did.... kinda minor but I tested her on it... like most men I've forgotten but the point is that it has been my experience that women in general aren't equipped to apologize... they just aren't... truth is most times they're right anyway and we men are the dumbasses making mistakes but every once in a while they fuck up.... but to admit and apologize is way off their psychology because they see that as a weakness and they are all innately trained and quite adapt in battle. Its their strength while men are physically powerful. To apologize is giving up power. I cant off hand think of one argument I've ever really won with a woman.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Dancers are mostly a hot mess, and overall it's a sad lifestyle. But that doesn't mean one can't engage in an arm's length relationship with one. Perhaps she benefited from discovering not every man wants to screw her, and in the future it'll help her navigate life a little more easily.

Smart guy onboard.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

"Savage"

Dontcha love it when RD gets a lick in.... he's good at sneaking em in on perfectly placed occasions.

 

[JayBreww]

Got it.
On a side note, to my point.
Just did a Google search…
This is what happens…everything we do matters.

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Google that same thing on some random persons phone whom never visited RDP. The results will not be the same.
It’s all based on the algorithm.

 

[Member: 71]

Got it.
On a side note, to my point.
Just did a Google search…
This is what happens…everything we do matters.

View attachment 1351504

That person who is googling stripper anal porn is going to be either disappointed or intrigued by Hubbas RDP thread.

P.S you might want to clear out that Google history. 🫡

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

When does the sequel start? New cast

Funny you should ask that.... The sequel is already in development.... I am told there exist a "Spa" downtown that offers $35/ Hr massages and if you inquire they will take you to a secondary room where the 'Kinks" like to go. Now don't get nervous guys I understand some of you puckered up right there.... fear not; your boy is pretty straight and boring however i have had a great deal of success in massage parlors where I will begin going regularly until I identify the one I like... once identified I request only her for a period of time.... then when I feel its right I tell them I own a massage table and live overlooking the ocean. Thats whats next.... stay tuned fellas... come along as you like and if ya wanna judge I'm sure theres plenty of "What are you listening to" threads to enjoy on the forum TaTa for now

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

TL;DR version of this thread: "convince me that thinking with the small head, and ignoring what is blatantly obvious to the big head is the correct decision"

Help a brutha out will ya..... what in the hell does TL; DR mean

 

[jetboatperformance]

I said it before it’s a fascinating story it should have the makings of a good novel anybody here ever seen the movie Klute ?

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Come on, man….you know what I’m talking about….I’m talking about the “members” here that have taken the threads and called employers and tried to rat them out.
They are at the same level of a grown ass men, DMing Dave over some bitch ass thread about a hooker….LOL - that same hooker they are trying to save would rob them blind.

Fuckers on this forum have actually done that call out crap to an employer..... awe man thats as low as you can be. I'll take a stealing stripper any day rather than have a friend doing that.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Got it.
On a side note, to my point.
Just did a Google search…
This is what happens…everything we do matters.

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Im so lost.... lets not bring too much fear based thinking into this particular thread if you please.... just fun light guys here.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

I said it before it’s a fascinating story it should have the makings of a good novel anybody here ever seen the movie Klute ?

My sweet ole mom says I missed my calling... shoulda been a writer. Mommas know.

 

[MPHSystems]

Are there any new pictures coming or is this thread completely worthless now?

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Are there any new pictures coming or is this thread completely worthless now?

Worthless.... nothing to see here.... move along

 

[Socalx09]

I will say this thread has me intrigued. The first time I read it, I was wondering what is going on around here and it is definitely winter. But then, I would randomly wonder what’s going on with the stripper and if she has stolen again.

This is like a guys version of 50 shades of grey lol.

 

[was thatguy]

Im so lost.... lets not bring too much fear based thinking into this particular thread if you please.... just fun light guys here.

Fear?
You got it twisted Holmes.
It ain’t my site, it ain’t my brand, it ain’t my dick, it ain't my daughter, and and ain't my apartment.

 

[17 10 Flat]

Well, I am a grown ass man and I have made mistakes a plenty and I have learned the value of an honest apology but if I'm being honest I can do a lot better and I don't like having anyone in my place I cant trust. I was really hopeful that her Klepto ways were behind her as far as directing them towards me. Maybe its uncontrollable but stealing money from a really nice respectful guy is hard core criminal shit in my book. Matter of fact my consigliere' Eddy from downstairs is up here now and I just told him the story. He told me he's been texting with 2 girls who work with Angel and they say she's known to steal girls weed pens at work, ha

Hope you didn't take my question as an accusation. I had a tool go missing from tool box, spare car key, yes some money. Seems week or so later they all turn up and when they do I go, OH shit now I remember. Now Im mad at myself for yelling at family member for losing my stuff.
That being said I have never had a stripper spending time in my home.

 

[RVR SWPR]

Fear?
You got it twisted Holmes.
It ain’t my site, it ain’t my brand, it ain’t my dick, it ain't my daughter, and and ain't my apartment.

After my 16 + years here this “Dickwad Fucktard” needs to post my opinion of this fucked up out of place thread. This thread and the subject of this thread is garbage and I’m shocked RD supports this crap on his site.

 

[wzuber]

Thanks for the ride Hubba. So many interesting and varied situations and perspectives. I'm really surprised at some of final posts in here. They way people take offense and demand of their rightous opinions is a bit mystifying to me. I heard Dr. Wayne Dyer say one time..." people look for things to take offense to".....seems that rings true here with some...
Anyway, good luck on future scenes. I look forward to your next experiment. Stay healthy out there.

 

[Mandelon]

Sociologists study human behavior, interaction, and organization.
They observe the activity of social, religious, political, and economic
groups, organizations, and institutions. They examine the effect of
social influences, including organizations and institutions, on different
individuals and groups.


See, what this thread here does is promote science. Its educational.

 

[RVR SWPR]

Thanks for the ride Hubba. So many interesting and varied situations and perspectives. I'm really surprised at some of final posts in here. They way people take offense and DEMAND of their rightous opinions is a bit mystifying to me. I heard Dr. Wayne Dyer say one time..." people look for things to take offense to".....seems that rings true here with some...
Anyway, good luck on future scenes. I look forward to your next experiment. Stay healthy out there.

I DEMAND nothing,i posted my opinion.

 

[was thatguy]

After my 16 + years here this “Dickwad Fucktard” needs to post my opinion of this fucked up out of place thread. This thread and the subject of this thread is garbage and I’m shocked RD supports this crap on his site.

And we’re just no count long time members.
Imagine being a paying advertiser and seeing your banner ad flying in this thread.
I guess societal decay is so advanced that it just doesn’t matter to anyone anymore? (Regardless of the usual chest pounding we see on RDP)
Oh well, like I said, it isn’t any skin off my ass. I can just go away.
If Dave wants to be an “18 and over only” site I guess that’s his business…probably pays more?
Might as well go over to yellow bullet…

 

[Racey]

Help a brutha out will ya..... what in the hell does TL; DR mean

TL;DR = Too Long; Didn't Read

 

[was thatguy]

I DEMAND nothing,i posted my opinion.

In this so called social experiment any apposing opinion is met not with factual debate, but rather with ridicule and accusation and name calling by the OP while he enlightens the masses with lessons most of us learned by the age of 19.

 

[was thatguy]

Sociologists study human behavior, interaction, and organization.
They observe the activity of social, religious, political, and economic
groups, organizations, and institutions. They examine the effect of
social influences, including organizations and institutions, on different
individuals and groups.


See, what this thread here does is promote science. Its educational.

Know who else studies such things?

 

[OLDRAAT]

"(which most older cocksman of any value take that approach),"

I may not be back.....

 

[RiverDave]

I’ll bite, maybe I’m one of those “dickbags that never have never actually lived outside of a cubicle and are the first to pipe up” Not! Actually, in another life, I worked the streets & have scene way more than my share of the dysfunction, criminal, shady shit that is infested in our communities.
The young lady you referred to as a “stripper in Mexico” has almost certainly experienced a life, prior to reaching adulthood, filled with violence, physical/sexual abuse, drugs & other dysfunction. There was a time when she was an innocent child. She is a sad product of her environment. She sells her body to survive. The OP mentions some of these girls having that blank type look in their eyes. Often referred to as the thousand yard stare.
Having daughters of your own, I’m certain you would not appreciate them being strippers, being exposed on a website with over 20,000 members, or being taken advantage by a 65 year old “cocksman” who takes his dick pill prior to.
You have a strict policy about no nudity on RDP but you allow & encourage this?
Stand for something or fall for everything.

There is so much to unpack here..

You assume that all exotic dancers strippers had some troubled life to end up that way. I believe you said sexual abuse drugs etc..
You assume that all of them are selling their bodies. Let alone “to survive”.

I don’t mean to sound offensive here but your blatant ignorance of the scenario is exactly what I’m talking about.

In the overwhelming amount of clubs across the western hemisphere these girls are the predators not the prey.

You are thinking you should feel sorry for them or that they are some kinda victim tells me instantly you haven’t spent a lot of time around them.

Society as a whole typically says “dancers are whores”. It is completely backwards.. it is far far easier to pull a chick out of a bar than ever pull one out of a club. They have heard it all, seen it all and routinely (literally) have dudes throwing money at them.

Their sole goal for the night is to depart the weak from their money and a lot of them are very fucking good at it.

The general theme here by the less informed is that they are woman and you should treat them with respect.. the problem is what society demes as respect and what is actually respect in the club is backwards.

I was in Miami a month or so ago.. and happened to end up in gold diggers with a couple other members that shall remain anonymous.. lol.

If you go in and have fun and slap the asses with a couple dollar bills, buy some drinks.. hell splurge and throw 10-12 bucks in the air and make it rain.. then you are in fact respecting the girls the profession and making it a good / fun night.

If you are the guy that sheepishly pushes your dollars out on the stage can barely look chick in the eye.. asks politely for that big titty girl over there for a lap dance.. then that’s making it creepy AF.. that’s disrespectful to the girls, the trade, and the other patrons. It's borderline "dirty."

A general rule to remember "If you are having fun then they are having fun.." Now go get yourself 5-10.00 in ones and practice that snap so ya don’t look like a creeper the next time you head to a titter.

(some of you might find that humorous.. but to be clear I am in no way joking here)

RD

 

[MPHSystems]

Help a brutha out will ya..... what in the hell does TL; DR mean

Let Me Google That

For all those people that find it more convenient to bother you with their question than to google it for themselves.

letmegooglethat.com

 

[ChiliPepperGarage]

I periodically check in to see the latest developments here. It is interesting from a sociological point of view. As far a photos of strippers, I imagine there are tons of free porn sites where you could see more.

I am an admitted old fuddy duddy these days as I no longer drink or party. I'm sure I'd up for banging a young stripper but where I live, the brothels would be the only place I'd have any remote chance of that happening and it would cost a lot more than $200.

What intrigues me more about this thread is the thought of living in a beach house with an ocean view in Mexico. When I retired several years ago I considered selling everything and living the Jimmy Buffett lifestyle. Buying a sailboat, going down to the Caribbean and doing the live aboard thing. I think it would be a blast but I'm afraid I'd get bored with it after a while.

I know there are a lot of Ex-Pats living in Mexico and other places down south. I never really looked into it as far as logistics (renting, can you buy a house, what is the best place, etc.) but continue to be interested in it. My problem is I have a bunch of cars and other toys that I don't really want to give up. I'm afraid if I tried to bring it all to a place in Mexico I'd be looked at as a pretty big target.

Hubba Hubba, I know you purposely bought an old truck just so you wouldn't stand out and you say you don't have a lot of stuff down there. Do you keep a place in the States for all your stuff or did you just get rid of it? I remember you talking about wanting to buy an off shore boat. Is that still in the plans? How long are you planning to stay in Mexico?

 

[RiverDave]

Got it.
On a side note, to my point.
Just did a Google search…
This is what happens…everything we do matters.

View attachment 1351504

you had to put "rdp" in the search to pull that.. LOL

RD

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Hope you didn't take my question as an accusation. I had a tool go missing from tool box, spare car key, yes some money. Seems week or so later they all turn up and when they do I go, OH shit now I remember. Now Im mad at myself for yelling at family member for losing my stuff.
That being said I have never had a stripper spending time in my home.

Naw buddy, I didn't take it as an accusation at all... matter of fact it was a spot on question.... I chose not to jump all over her ass when she was still here directly after searching my pockets and after I was certain she took envelope. I didn't want that envelope showing up magically a week later and me having accused her. Her overnite bag was in the bedroom during that period and you know I gave some thought to grabbing it and searching it right in front of her. But again, I chose to let it go, let the money go, and ultimately let her go. Its morning I open my eyes in that bedroom and look over at that really tall cabinetry and ask myself how in the hell did she get up there but I just got sloppy and seems to me I was lucky cause if she's gonna steal I'd rather know now than say 6 months down the road when maybe I've become really sloppy if ya get me. I'm satisfied with how this experiment shook out [RDs accurate reference to a Social Experiment]

 

[was thatguy]

you had to put "rdp" in the search to pull that.. LOL

RD

Yep
I googled “RDP anal” and booyaa!!…there you go!
There was actually more than one RDP hit on the first page, but that was the 2nd in line.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Thanks for the ride Hubba. So many interesting and varied situations and perspectives. I'm really surprised at some of final posts in here. They way people take offense and demand of their rightous opinions is a bit mystifying to me. I heard Dr. Wayne Dyer say one time..." people look for things to take offense to".....seems that rings true here with some...
Anyway, good luck on future scenes. I look forward to your next experiment. Stay healthy out there.

Thanks buddy. Yeah, I'm seeing the weirdos coming out now that threads winding down. What can we do. I'll be taking a break from the thread a while. Let the pitchfork folks do their thing and maybe they'll feel better.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

TL;DR = Too Long; Didn't Read

Ha, thanks... I'd never have figured that one out. RDP always a source of new knowledge for us older cats.

 

[RiverDave]

Thanks buddy. Yeah, I'm seeing the weirdos coming out now that threads winding down. What can we do. I'll be taking a break from the thread a while. Let the pitchfork folks do their thing and maybe they'll feel better.

Fuck that.. may the bridges you burn light your path..

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

There is so much to unpack here..

You assume that all exotic dancers strippers had some troubled life to end up that way. I believe you said sexual abuse drugs etc..
You assume that all of them are selling their bodies. Let alone “to survive”.

I don’t mean to sound offensive here but your blatant ignorance of the scenario is exactly what I’m talking about.

In the overwhelming amount of clubs across the western hemisphere these girls are the predators not the prey.

You are thinking you should feel sorry for them or that they are some kinda victim tells me instantly you haven’t spent a lot of time around them.

Society as a whole typically says “dancers are whores”. It is completely backwards.. it is far far easier to pull a chick out of a bar than ever pull one out of a club. They have heard it all, seen it all and routinely (literally) have dudes throwing money at them.

Their sole goal for the night is to depart the weak from their money and a lot of them are very fucking good at it.

The general theme here by the less informed is that they are woman and you should treat them with respect.. the problem is what society demes as respect and what is actually respect in the club is backwards.

I was in Miami a month or so ago.. and happened to end up in gold diggers with a couple other members that shall remain anonymous.. lol.

If you go in and have fun and slap the asses with a couple dollar bills, buy some drinks.. hell splurge and throw 10-12 bucks in the air and make it rain.. then you are in fact respecting the girls the profession and making it a good / fun night.

If you are the guy that sheepishly pushes your dollars out on the stage can barely look chick in the eye.. asks politely for that big titty girl over there for a lap dance.. then that’s making it creepy AF.. that’s disrespectful to the girls, the trade, and the other patrons. It's borderline "dirty."

A general rule to remember "If you are having fun then they are having fun.." Now go get yourself 5-10.00 in ones and practice that snap so ya don’t look like a creeper the next time you head to a titter.

(some of you might find that humorous.. but to be clear I am in no way joking here)

RD

Ha Dave man you are great.... I read that and had to go back checking on your post time... I was sure it would've been after midnight but look at you firing in the early morning hours. From my perspective this thread really only brought out a couple strange cats who just didn't grasp the spirit of the postings....overall I think things went very well and we saw some posters who I've never seen active come out from behind the curtains. And thats a good thing. Just shaking things up a bit.... its all online fun.... and the subject struck some nerves is all. Postings seem to reveal an awful lot about folks.

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

I periodically check in to see the latest developments here. It is interesting from a sociological point of view. As far a photos of strippers, I imagine there are tons of free porn sites where you could see more.

I am an admitted old fuddy duddy these days as I no longer drink or party. I'm sure I'd up for banging a young stripper but where I live, the brothels would be the only place I'd have any remote chance of that happening and it would cost a lot more than $200.

What intrigues me more about this thread is the thought of living in a beach house with an ocean view in Mexico. When I retired several years ago I considered selling everything and living the Jimmy Buffett lifestyle. Buying a sailboat, going down to the Caribbean and doing the live aboard thing. I think it would be a blast but I'm afraid I'd get bored with it after a while.

I know there are a lot of Ex-Pats living in Mexico and other places down south. I never really looked into it as far as logistics (renting, can you buy a house, what is the best place, etc.) but continue to be interested in it. My problem is I have a bunch of cars and other toys that I don't really want to give up. I'm afraid if I tried to bring it all to a place in Mexico I'd be looked at as a pretty big target.

Hubba Hubba, I know you purposely bought an old truck just so you wouldn't stand out and you say you don't have a lot of stuff down there. Do you keep a place in the States for all your stuff or did you just get rid of it? I remember you talking about wanting to buy an off shore boat. Is that still in the plans? How long are you planning to stay in Mexico?

Good post, welcome.... I inherited family realestate in Ca, Va & De. and manage those from afar using local property managers. As far as choosing this town it was very odd how it happened. I had brought friends/ clients down for golfing over many years so felt somewhat comfortable and knowledgeable. There were many years where I wouldn't go near it when cartels were battling too aggressively. That has for most part settled down near the coast however the interior of Mexico is VERY aggressive and I'd not go near it. cartels benefit from coastal tourism so safer. Last summer I got invited to a buds home on the sand and came back thinking why am I stuck in Corona del Mar. I watched over my years there as friends got older and passed on and thought at 65 I just want more and am able to do anything I want. I never did the European consideration yet cause Im a bit of a travel pussy after spending a great deal of time on airplanes as a business necessity. The smell of jet fuel exhaust still causes me discomfort... and I don't have a woman antsy to travel so Mexico near San Diego was just like putting a toe in the water to see how I would react. As for the toys you own and what to do should you relocate? Thats a personal decision of course... me, I was never really a car/ boat guy once out of my 40s. The pleasure they gave me simply went away though at that age they were great hobbies. Boating was really exhilarating for me. I've given some thought to grabbing something like a 42 Fountain or similar but frankly the marina closest to me isn't well kept and dredged so friends here say don't bother. This is mostly a fishermans paradise it seems and we split time growing up on gulf coast of Fla and the Chesapeake Bay, Va as my pops was a Floridian hooked on fishing so I've had enough guts under my nails. I'm simply enjoying being somewhat "Out to Pasture." I have a buddy whose single/ early 40s.... he's had +40' speedboats and has accumulated quite a nice portfolio of rental apartments in SoCal, Az & now Tx. He tends to like me live simply but does enjoy traveling the world and also has a beat up converted school bus he'll take his dogs up to Canada in and just stop in at Elks Lodges along his travels. He stayed with me recently asking me some questions along the lines of your question. He's sort of hovering now that his realestate holdings are established and somewhat secure. He enjoys cars and has a small collection of Corvettes with his pops. At his age I feel he still needs activity to feel comfortable... I told him in many ways he's at a disadvantage having built his wealth so young. He'll need to develop interest to keep his mind active now. Presently he appears mostly to self manage properties and fend off women though he still enjoys their company.

As for me... I have no plans.... my instinct after 6 months here is its too Americanized for me to experience the true Mexican culture I love. I will be taking Fernando south down the Peninsula this summer to investigate several coastal communities I'm researching presently. I am developing friendships with folks who have traveled from here deep into South America and I will be researching coastal areas much further south ultimately.

I don't know your age nor place in life but I will say after 60 if someone still has the burdens of material flashy stuff its just their choice and not one that appealed to me. Enjoy your search for the next stage.... and don't think staying at a hotel on vacation for 2 weeks gives you true insights into living anywhere full time. Two of my friends in Maui are currently asking me if its safe here ... they bought amazing properties 5 years ago. It could very well be that a blissful life is as much between the ears as where one is physically.

 

[RaceTec]

Awesome on every level, good for you! Keep posting your adventures!

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Awesome on every level, good for you! Keep posting your adventures!

Thank you and I enjoyed your comments. Thanks for joining in!

 

[RiverDave]

Awesome on every level, good for you! Keep posting your adventures!

I agree 100%...

In a weird way that is what rdp is all about. While some may not be thrilled with the content of the thread, I will say that at least he is sharing his adventures?

RD

 

[17 10 Flat]

Could not agree more. Have been reading this forum long before being a member. Even back when it was Hot Boat.
What is great here is it covers boats, cars, chicks, remodeling homes, RV's.......... Not to mention if someone needs the 411 parts, travel the responses are positive even if I need try a new prop.

 

[BHC Vic]

Good post, welcome.... I inherited family realestate in Ca, Va & De. and manage those from afar using local property managers. As far as choosing this town it was very odd how it happened. I had brought friends/ clients down for golfing over many years so felt somewhat comfortable and knowledgeable. There were many years where I wouldn't go near it when cartels were battling too aggressively. That has for most part settled down near the coast however the interior of Mexico is VERY aggressive and I'd not go near it. cartels benefit from coastal tourism so safer. Last summer I got invited to a buds home on the sand and came back thinking why am I stuck in Corona del Mar. I watched over my years there as friends got older and passed on and thought at 65 I just want more and am able to do anything I want. I never did the European consideration yet cause Im a bit of a travel pussy after spending a great deal of time on airplanes as a business necessity. The smell of jet fuel exhaust still causes me discomfort... and I don't have a woman antsy to travel so Mexico near San Diego was just like putting a toe in the water to see how I would react. As for the toys you own and what to do should you relocate? Thats a personal decision of course... me, I was never really a car/ boat guy once out of my 40s. The pleasure they gave me simply went away though at that age they were great hobbies. Boating was really exhilarating for me. I've given some thought to grabbing something like a 42 Fountain or similar but frankly the marina closest to me isn't well kept and dredged so friends here say don't bother. This is mostly a fishermans paradise it seems and we split time growing up on gulf coast of Fla and the Chesapeake Bay, Va as my pops was a Floridian hooked on fishing so I've had enough guts under my nails. I'm simply enjoying being somewhat "Out to Pasture." I have a buddy whose single/ early 40s.... he's had +40' speedboats and has accumulated quite a nice portfolio of rental apartments in SoCal, Az & now Tx. He tends to like me live simply but does enjoy traveling the world and also has a beat up converted school bus he'll take his dogs up to Canada in and just stop in at Elks Lodges along his travels. He stayed with me recently asking me some questions along the lines of your question. He's sort of hovering now that his realestate holdings are established and somewhat secure. He enjoys cars and has a small collection of Corvettes with his pops. At his age I feel he still needs activity to feel comfortable... I told him in many ways he's at a disadvantage having built his wealth so young. He'll need to develop interest to keep his mind active now. Presently he appears mostly to self manage properties and fend off women though he still enjoys their company.

As for me... I have no plans.... my instinct after 6 months here is its too Americanized for me to experience the true Mexican culture I love. I will be taking Fernando south down the Peninsula this summer to investigate several coastal communities I'm researching presently. I am developing friendships with folks who have traveled from here deep into South America and I will be researching coastal areas much further south ultimately.

I don't know your age nor place in life but I will say after 60 if someone still has the burdens of material flashy stuff it’s just their choice and not one that appealed to me. Enjoy your search for the next stage.... and don't think staying at a hotel on vacation for 2 weeks gives you true insights into living anywhere full time. Two of my friends in Maui are currently asking me if it’s safe here ... they bought amazing properties 5 years ago. It could very well be that a blissful life is as much between the ears as where one is physically.

Have you ever been to tronconnes? I really like that place.

 

[Javajoe]

This thread is about as PG as it gets. Good read. Didn’t know we had soo many Karen’s on here
Great post RD

 

[HubbaHubbaLife]

Have you ever been to tronconnes? I really like that place.

Ixtapa si.... actually currently looking into Venezuela as two buds digging its surfing lifestyle.

 

[Wizard29]

There is so much to unpack here..

You assume that all exotic dancers strippers had some troubled life to end up that way. I believe you said sexual abuse drugs etc..
You assume that all of them are selling their bodies. Let alone “to survive”.

I don’t mean to sound offensive here but your blatant ignorance of the scenario is exactly what I’m talking about.

In the overwhelming amount of clubs across the western hemisphere these girls are the predators not the prey.

You are thinking you should feel sorry for them or that they are some kinda victim tells me instantly you haven’t spent a lot of time around them.

Society as a whole typically says “dancers are whores”. It is completely backwards.. it is far far easier to pull a chick out of a bar than ever pull one out of a club. They have heard it all, seen it all and routinely (literally) have dudes throwing money at them.

Their sole goal for the night is to depart the weak from their money and a lot of them are very fucking good at it.

The general theme here by the less informed is that they are woman and you should treat them with respect.. the problem is what society demes as respect and what is actually respect in the club is backwards.

I was in Miami a month or so ago.. and happened to end up in gold diggers with a couple other members that shall remain anonymous.. lol.

If you go in and have fun and slap the asses with a couple dollar bills, buy some drinks.. hell splurge and throw 10-12 bucks in the air and make it rain.. then you are in fact respecting the girls the profession and making it a good / fun night.

If you are the guy that sheepishly pushes your dollars out on the stage can barely look chick in the eye.. asks politely for that big titty girl over there for a lap dance.. then that’s making it creepy AF.. that’s disrespectful to the girls, the trade, and the other patrons. It's borderline "dirty."

A general rule to remember "If you are having fun then they are having fun.." Now go get yourself 5-10.00 in ones and practice that snap so ya don’t look like a creeper the next time you head to a titter.

(some of you might find that humorous.. but to be clear I am in no way joking here)

RD

TL;DR

But yeah, strippers/dancers are every bit as motivated to separate people (even girls) from their money as guys are to take them one more step further away from sainthood.

These girls are not the "victims". They know exactly what they are doing and made choices in life that lead them to that place.

Trying to say that guys like Hubba are taking advantage of this poor innocent soul is kind of far fetched. He's said several times he would never pay for a woman's company, so what's the problem here? Sounds like she's been fucking him because she just wanted to fuck him and not because she was getting paid? Maybe she just enjoyed how he treated her and it was a welcome change to her regular environment? See, Hubba, you can be portrayed as quite the humanitarian here.

Even more far fetched is trying to say that by allowing this topic (which isn't even very graphic, by the way) is Dave advocating for taking advantage of the less fortunate or innocent.

Beware of the censorship you ask for.

 

[MPHSystems]

I periodically check in to see the latest developments here. It is interesting from a sociological point of view. As far a photos of strippers, I imagine there are tons of free porn sites where you could see more.

Sure, moar strippers and nakeder strippers abound on the internet.

But first person photos are wayyyyyy better + don’t discount the entertainment value of a dumpster fire.