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Scream in my ear and I’m gonna grab you by your hair and drag you to whomever is responsible for your feral ass.

I had some smart ass tweener some years ago talk some shit at the gym over the flat bench and I told him to fuck off. He said he’s gonna go get his dad and I said good I’ll beat your dads ass in front of you.

Never heard back..

I love cute kids but detest little fucks. I’m happy to embarrass asshole parents
Hahaha this is awesome! I was thinking this at the beginning of the thread. "Hey, where's your dad? Tell him I'll whoop his ass if I get hit with another toy, candy, whatever."

We're not having kids but Dave's story makes me thing it's not that hard... when you just let them do whatever they want and don't really spend the time raising them :rolleyes:
 

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my mom was / is a fucking ninja with a wooden spoon.
Funny you should mention that. I got this shirt recently. I've never worn a shirt where I get so many comments, mostly "me too". 🤣 Sometimes I forget I'm wearing it and people will walk up to me and say "you as well eh?" and I'm like wtf?🤣
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Where is this daycare? I have an 8 year old that could REALLY benefit from that. lol! Doesn't help that shes an angel around other people and too damn smart for her own good (in 3rd grade, testing at a 5th grade level).

Any GOOD martial arts studio can fix that for you.

And benefit your child as well.

I Never worry about someone messing with my daughter. I'm more worried about someone who tries to pull something on her! She hits Fucking hard, and knows exactly Where to hit.

There are zero downsides to martial arts.
 

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Any GOOD martial arts studio can fix that for you.

And benefit your child as well.

I Never worry about someone messing with my daughter. I'm more worried about someone who tries to pull something on her! She hits Fucking hard, and knows exactly Where to hit.

There are zero downsides to martial arts.
100%

Both our kids spent years in a traditional karate program. The discipline they learned I see in their every day lives as adults. From preteen through high school it was part of their programming. Puts them in a circle of over achievers. I can't say enough positive things about the experience.
 

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This is what happens when parents are afraid of their kids.

Not Directly afraid mind you...

But afraid of taking the belt to then, and the kid telling his teacher at school.

Next thing you know...

CPS is knocking on the parents front door, and the child Abuse allegations begin, and of course, have to be defended against.

How did it get to this point? Who fucking Really knows. But you can bet the liberal fucktards are behind it, and the teachers at school re-enforce it.

No way I'd put my kids in public school today. No way.

I'm sorry, but unruly kids like this cannot be blamed on teachers.

Actually, I'm not really sorry, but you knew that, LOL.

There are ways to get your kids to behave if you don't want to use corporal punishment. I just found that swatting my daughter's butt was the quickest way to get her to behave how I wanted. I recall one time at the grocery store she was about 4 or 5 and went over to climb on the cripple cart. I asked her to come back and stand by me in line. The lady behind me asked how I was able to get her to get off the cart the first time I asked. I didn't hesitate and replied, "because she knows I won't ask a second time." I never played the 1-2-3 bullshit counting game. Now my son? As someone else stated, I just had to speak sternly to him about something and he would punish himself.

But, back to the punishment, somehow, my daughter and SIL have figured out how to make our granddaughter behave in public without spankings or threat of them. As far as I know, little girl has only been spanked once and I was there. Before you start to think that she's just a naturally docile child, I will assure you that she is NOT. She is extremely strong-willed and has thrown her share of temper-tantrums. But they take the time to explain things to her that I would have never bothered with. I thought it was kind of silly at first thinking, "she's way too young to understand," but it seemed to work. They are better parents than I was, for sure. Our granddaughter's behavior is a reflection of that time and effort they put in. She has no iPad and very limited TV time (like 30 min a day). Parents are not on their phones when she is with them.
 

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I'm sorry, but unruly kids like this cannot be blamed on teachers.

Actually, I'm not really sorry, but you knew that, LOL.

There are ways to get your kids to behave if you don't want to use corporal punishment. I just found that swatting my daughter's butt was the quickest way to get her to behave how I wanted. I recall one time at the grocery store she was about 4 or 5 and went over to climb on the cripple cart. I asked her to come back and stand by me in line. The lady behind me asked how I was able to get her to get off the cart the first time I asked. I didn't hesitate and replied, "because she knows I won't ask a second time." I never played the 1-2-3 bullshit counting game. Now my son? As someone else stated, I just had to speak sternly to him about something and he would punish himself.

But, back to the punishment, somehow, my daughter and SIL have figured out how to make our granddaughter behave in public without spankings or threat of them. As far as I know, little girl has only been spanked once and I was there. Before you start to think that she's just a naturally docile child, I will assure you that she is NOT. She is extremely strong-willed and has thrown her share of temper-tantrums. But they take the time to explain things to her that I would have never bothered with. I thought it was kind of silly at first thinking, "she's way too young to understand," but it seemed to work. They are better parents than I was, for sure. Our granddaughter's behavior is a reflection of that time and effort they put in. She has no iPad and very limited TV time (like 30 min a day). Parents are not on their phones when she is with them.

Settle down turbo...

I didn't say it was the teachers fault, now did I??? 🤣

It's the fear of CPS, that this liberal society has pushed on Everyone.

The teachers just reinforce it, by making Sure the kid knows they can come to them with anything.

Including, but not limited to, having their gender changed or altered!!!

WTF kinna society approves of teachers keeping secrets, of minor children, from the parents???

A SERIOUSLY fucked up society I would say.

I highly doubt Any teacher would have asked to be put in that position.

Sucks azz for them too. 🤬
 

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Both our kids spent years in a traditional karate program. The discipline they learned I see in their every day lives as adults. From preteen through high school it was part of their programming. Puts them in a circle of over achievers. I can't say enough positive things about the experience.

I put my son in a traditional karate class...when he was around 9....it wasnt his thing, and he was really bad at it....but his sensi would always tell me how great he is and how well he was advancing....I was like, is this dude watching the same kid????....then came the, I think hes ready for the next belt, and that came with like a $20 testing/belt fee or something like that, I dont remember the exact cost...I was getting really skeptical of this place at that point....then one day I get there and sign in, and the girl at front was like OHHH Sensi wanted me to let him know when you are here so he can talk to you, so she goes grabs him, and he comes over and starts telling me how he wants to put my son in his blackbelt training class, because hes so great and all this, but it comes at an additional month cost to what I was already paying....my son sucked, I knew it, he knew it....I said no thank you...that day I sat near the entrance to watch the class, and every single kid that came in was the same story, the girl in front would say the same thing, the dude would come and say the same thing, almost word for word about how great their kid is....I pulled my son out of that shit that day, never went back....lol
 

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WTF kinna society approves of teachers keeping secrets, of minor children, from the parents???

A SERIOUSLY fucked up society I would say.

I highly doubt Any teacher would have asked to be put in that position.

Sucks azz for them too. 🤬

You should venture out of your bubble to get a real view of the world.

Every person representing you in government is a radical leftist, top to bottom.

Society does not approve of teachers keeping secrets from parents, but California does. All the people you vote for, your neighbors vote for, approve of it. They keep voting for the same people.

Did any of the governor recalls go through? How many state senators and representatives were voted out in CA this cycle? Who is in your school board positions elected and appointed?

What unions control your state government?
 

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Utah Mormon kids are the worst, no supervision whatsoever from the blank stare parents. Colt driven zombies. The first day we moved into our house, I hear the dog squeeling outside front yard, I walk around the corner and the two kids from across the street have her pinned on the ground pulling her tale. I kicked that kid so hard in the ass he flew a few feet. Since day one, I own this street. The kids across the street are still a mess and have no future.
 

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I remember the blow up when a family at the Islander was kicked out and not allow to renew their summer spot rental. Parents were all pissed.

But their 3 kids were always causing issues and the parents would go out on the boat and leave the kids alone on property. Multiple times I saw the office pull the kids inside and call the parents.

Office finally leaked that the kids had over 100 calls on them in the summer of 2020 and the office was over it.
 

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This thread is pretty interesting...Support for California, Kids need karate or whatever, it's the teachers fault, on and on. I'm thinking that half the people reading this spank their kids and the kids show respect. The other half, have shit head kids because the parents think their little jerks are God's gift to the world.

I can tell you one thing....Fortnite makes kids pricks.

Now comes the support from the gamer crowd....
 

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As I'm nearing retirement (29 days!!!!)

Want to possibly go on some cruises.

WITH NO FUCKING CHILDREN!!!!!!
 

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Wow. How times have changed. We lived in Carlsbad in the 80‘s, 2820 Cedarwood Way, up in Hosp Grove. Just down the hill, literally less than 5 minutes away, was our go to for pizza. It was simply called, ‘That Pizza Place’, in a strip mall on N El Camino. Just looked it up. Damn! That Pizza Place is still there and open! Good pizza, cold beer and the owner was an active supporter of local kid‘s sports and programs. It was always full of kids and their parents. I can honestly say, I don’t recall ever seeing any kid screw up in there. And that included young boy football teams celebrating a victory. Kids and their parents just having a good time, without any BS. Have no idea what it is like these days.
Been there 100 times
 

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My Mom was a single Mom after my Dad passed when I was 9. Two boys, one girl, and she didn't take shit from us. When my brother and I were bad, she'd get out the Hot Wheel tracks, hell, we learned, she would just pick them up and we'd stop what we were doing. Love my Mom, just celebrated her 90th!!!!!!
 

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My son has his own personal spoon.

Just need to go pick it up. Problems usually melt away.
 

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There are "those kids" everywhere. I see it more in "cities", more densely populated that is. There may be a correlation between a more herd mentality, or maybe out in the sticks neighbors don't report you to cps because houses are further apart?
It's really obvious at my son's school, which kids live in "town", and which kids live out a ways.

You're on to something here.


Settle down turbo...

I didn't say it was the teachers fault, now did I??? 🤣

It's the fear of CPS, that this liberal society has pushed on Everyone.

The teachers just reinforce it, by making Sure the kid knows they can come to them with anything.

Including, but not limited to, having their gender changed or altered!!!

WTF kinna society approves of teachers keeping secrets, of minor children, from the parents???

A SERIOUSLY fucked up society I would say.

I highly doubt Any teacher would have asked to be put in that position.

Sucks azz for them too. 🤬

I knew what you were getting at, and don't disagree. Just being contradictory for the fun of it.
 

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You should venture out of your bubble to get a real view of the world.

Every person representing you in government is a radical leftist, top to bottom.

Society does not approve of teachers keeping secrets from parents, but California does. All the people you vote for, your neighbors vote for, approve of it. They keep voting for the same people.

Did any of the governor recalls go through? How many state senators and representatives were voted out in CA this cycle? Who is in your school board positions elected and appointed?

What unions control your state government?

Is this supposed to be sarcasm? Everyone knows how much I hate CA and even I know most of this isn't true.
 

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Utah Mormon kids are the worst, no supervision whatsoever from the blank stare parents. Colt driven zombies. The first day we moved into our house, I hear the dog squeeling outside front yard, I walk around the corner and the two kids from across the street have her pinned on the ground pulling her tale. I kicked that kid so hard in the ass he flew a few feet. Since day one, I own this street. The kids across the street are still a mess and have no future.
That’s interesting, I was wondering if the reason the kids were so well behaved around me in AZ was because of the big Mormon population in the south east valley.

My neighborhood has a ton of them, we have a Mormon church in the center. All of them I have met so far are extremely well behaved.
 
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I put my son in a traditional karate class...when he was around 9....it wasnt his thing, and he was really bad at it....but his sensi would always tell me how great he is and how well he was advancing....I was like, is this dude watching the same kid????....then came the, I think hes ready for the next belt, and that came with like a $20 testing/belt fee or something like that, I dont remember the exact cost...I was getting really skeptical of this place at that point....then one day I get there and sign in, and the girl at front was like OHHH Sensi wanted me to let him know when you are here so he can talk to you, so she goes grabs him, and he comes over and starts telling me how he wants to put my son in his blackbelt training class, because hes so great and all this, but it comes at an additional month cost to what I was already paying....my son sucked, I knew it, he knew it....I said no thank you...that day I sat near the entrance to watch the class, and every single kid that came in was the same story, the girl in front would say the same thing, the dude would come and say the same thing, almost word for word about how great their kid is....I pulled my son out of that shit that day, never went back....lol
I think @rivermobster said a "good" martial arts class. There are plenty of bad ones.

Our Dojo became an extension of the family and we are still close with the kids Sensi. He does not have the Dojo anymore but he is teaching in Tennessee now after he retired, because he missed working with the kids.

I have a lot of stories, but this one is worth sharing.
Our daughter did not want to participate, we put our son in because he had no balance at 8 years old. Our daughter quickly changed her tune and quickly surpassed our son. By the time she left for college she was on top of her game with both traditional Karate and weapons.

After she graduated university, she took a job teaching in a small rural community in Montana called Hot Springs. It is so small she was the entire math department for grades 7-12. She started teaching basic self defense classes for students after school. One afternoon a female student was accosted, and the training she received may have saved her life. She was able to fight off her attacker using the skills she learned in the self defense class. That story validated all the monthly fees, the commitment to taking the kids to class and the time we all invested in the kids learning the art. If for nothing else it might have saved a life.

In rural areas women go missing regularly. I'm an advocate of training our youth these skills. My kids where not going through the motions, they were committed to the program. It was not the kind of place where you got promoted for a quick buck. The program was under https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tadashi_Yamashita
 

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My buddy pulled the raddest ‘Dad Move’ ever … I was visiting him in Alaska … we all went out for a killer seafood dinner. Not a fancy place…. Just killer food. Casual comfortable atmos phere. His 3 boys were ‘on one’ … boys being boys playing grab ass. He warned them a couple times … we ordered … they kept after it. He never got pissed….. just pushed his chair back & said , ‘grab your shit we’re out of here’. One of the boys said, ‘but we already ordered’… Pops reply, ‘No shit, but I’m not gonna make everyone in this place put up with you 3 honyocks, there’s top ramen at home’. He peeled off a wad of cash, handed it to our waitress & said ‘we’ll be back’.
We drove the boys home, boys didn’t say 2 words the whole way…we pull in the driveway and Scott says, ‘GET OUT’. 🤣
We drove back and had a killer meal in peace!
I swear he never raised his voice the whole time. Epic.
 

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At 4 years old I had my grandson smashing my beer cans, ziptieing the patio lights, scrubbing the bathroom doors and falling into a chocolate comma when all said and done. He's 10 now and a very respectful kid to all...It's all about the guidance from family.

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Little Pizza story when I was 12, we had just won the little league championship and the whole team went to straw hat pizza to celebrate, I was carrying a pizza above my shoulder on my palm like you see in the movies and the pizza slid off and fell to the floor cheese down, my pops was behind me and the next thing I felt was my dad's work boot so far up my ass I was lifted off the ground, not sure what is looked like but bad enough the straw hat guy gave us like 3 free pizzas. I've seen him knock out 3 younger guys in there 20's at the super bowl of motocross way back when that had thrown beer on us coming down escalator, so I guess I got off easy lol.
 
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I put my son in a traditional karate class...when he was around 9....it wasnt his thing, and he was really bad at it....but his sensi would always tell me how great he is and how well he was advancing....I was like, is this dude watching the same kid????....then came the, I think hes ready for the next belt, and that came with like a $20 testing/belt fee or something like that, I dont remember the exact cost...I was getting really skeptical of this place at that point....then one day I get there and sign in, and the girl at front was like OHHH Sensi wanted me to let him know when you are here so he can talk to you, so she goes grabs him, and he comes over and starts telling me how he wants to put my son in his blackbelt training class, because hes so great and all this, but it comes at an additional month cost to what I was already paying....my son sucked, I knew it, he knew it....I said no thank you...that day I sat near the entrance to watch the class, and every single kid that came in was the same story, the girl in front would say the same thing, the dude would come and say the same thing, almost word for word about how great their kid is....I pulled my son out of that shit that day, never went back....lol

Lemme guess...

Red Dragon?

That's the only place I know of that makes you pay for your next belt.

Both my kids did Kajukennbo. There was no Paying for anything, you had Earn it. Took my son two YEARS to advance past his white belt. He was proud as fuck when he earned that thing. Ended up two belts away from his black belt. Same with my daughter. I should have started them sooner, but trust me, you don't wanna fuck with either of them. I sure don't!

😜
 

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Any GOOD martial arts studio can fix that for you.

And benefit your child as well.

I Never worry about someone messing with my daughter. I'm more worried about someone who tries to pull something on her! She hits Fucking hard, and knows exactly Where to hit.

There are zero downsides to martial arts.
I thought all that stuff was a sort of role playing voodoo kinda thing?😜
 

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My 5 year old twin boys are bastards, I don’t know to that degree, but they’re pretty close.

the difference between them and the kids you encountered is I’ll put my foot on their ass when they do act that way
 

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I was hard on my kids at a very early age. Push ups, time outs, yelling, face in the corner. Never had to lay a hand on them.

I never had empty threats. I mean what I say and I say what I mean.

Wife has my back and I have hers when it comes to discipline the kids. We can disagree behind closed doors.

Our friends enjoy the company of our kids.

Funny thing is sometimes our kids are the only kids allowed in other peoples trailers when we are out camping.

Parents need to be present and correct as things happen.
 

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These are the little shits that have been raised by iPads.

I’ve been to prob over 100 “team” dinners during baseball tournaments. I’ve never see any of those kid act like that, ever.
 
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