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My Dad had a black belt in ass kicking

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GRADS

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My dad had a razor belt being a barber. That thing was a double whammy.
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I didn’t say anything or even complain after being hit three times by hard objects thrown at me as hard as they could.. I didn’t complain when the kid screamed in my ear etc..

It actually (amazingly) got worse after all that!!

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Lets go...eat pizza somewhere else less miserable. 😁
 

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My brother used to own a big Pizza place in OC with an arcade. The parents could give a crap as long as they are drunk and not bothered by the kids. Reminds me of people who don't care about their cats that go out and crap in everyone else's yard.

I miss the 70's !

Plenty of parents my block that would spank someone else's kid and parents would thank them : )
 

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Throwing shit at me and yelling in my ears....ahhhh no.....that ain't happening. No way am I putting up with that shit. Then again.....I don't think they would have done that to me in the first place anyhow. The feral comment by CDOG made me laugh :)
 

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my mom was / is a fucking ninja with a wooden spoon.
The last time my mom used the wooden spoon on me, I was about 14 and grabbed it out of her hand and threw it on the ground. I said what now, she started laughing her ass off, it worked real good right up until then. She was bad ass up until then though.
 

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The last time my mom used the wooden spoon on me, I was about 14 and grabbed it out of her hand and threw it on the ground. I said what now, she started laughing her ass off, it worked real good right up until then. She was bad ass up until then though.
Lol

If I did that I guarantee that one of my 5 brothers would have side punched me in the head.
 

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I didn't live with my dad (except weekends) but he would have belted the shit out of us right there in the pizza joint.

I can remember him pulling the car over on the side of the road and giving me a whippin - Cars driving by honking....

My little brother got it bad one night - We had season tickets to the local college basketball team - Brother had brought a friend. Game was over and people were walking out. I saw some guy turn around and walk back up the stairs and say something to them. I had no idea what happened as I was still in my seat. I guess one of them spit over the railing on someone. Quiet car ride home, out came the belt and my brother screaming from the other room while I played nintendo.

My mom would slap the shit out of me to if needed.

My kids both were pretty good and well mannered, they knew better......Never had to take the belt to them....All I had to do was yell a little and tell them I am disappointed to get the tears flowing.

Got a lot of feedback from others about how well behaved my kids were, including from family members that compared them to other family members kids behavior.
 

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My mom says parents know less and less about their kids because they aren’t paying attention at home anymore. She sees it getting worse every year at school. Kids also talk to their parents as if they are their friends so now this creates a situation that kids see all adults as equals. It’s a bad cycle.
 
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I will first say that you most likely did the Right thing by taking the high road, now my crafty mind would have went up ordered a large drink filled it with soda and ice and no lid and accidently tripped on one of the little Karens kids and dumped my entire soda all over them to ice bucket challenge the little crap eaters. I'm sure it would have not looked great but being very apologetic and maybe trying to get him some napkins may have made it look more sincere, but I am sure at the request of either staff or Karens it would have stopped.
 

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Frustrating. Nothing you can really do about it without getting yourself in trouble because the kids learned it from the parents.

Id just tell the manager to keep his pizza if this is who he'd rather have as customers and walk out.
 

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This is what happens when parents are afraid of their kids.

Not Directly afraid mind you...

But afraid of taking the belt to then, and the kid telling his teacher at school.

Next thing you know...

CPS is knocking on the parents front door, and the child Abuse allegations begin, and of course, have to be defended against.

How did it get to this point? Who fucking Really knows. But you can bet the liberal fucktards are behind it, and the teachers at school re-enforce it.

No way I'd put my kids in public school today. No way.
 

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This is what happens when parents are afraid of their kids.

Not Directly afraid mind you...

But afraid of taking the belt to then, and the kid telling his teacher at school.

Next thing you know...

CPS is knocking on the parents front door, and the child Abuse allegations begin, and of course, have to be defended against.

How did it get to this point? Who fucking Really knows. But you can bet the liberal fucktards are behind it, and the teachers at school re-enforce it.

No way I'd put my kids in public school today. No way.


I had to regulate my kid at Disneyland and the amount of parents gave me the dirty look was funny.
 

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I had to regulate my kid at Disneyland and the amount of parents gave me the dirty look was funny.

Yep. The masses have been programmed/indoctrinated now.

Funny...

My daughter and her boyfriend asked me just this past weekend...

Would you ever spank your kids?

My answer was...

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

Note: I only gave her one spanking when she was a child. My son? My hand ached from spanking him when he was a child! But as they both got older, "the look" took care of most anything they got up to.

Once I trained em to say "yes sir" and "yes mam", there was no more discipline required.
 

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And yet everyone can't understand why the other States hate Californians? It's not just your politics.
 

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I don’t remember the last time I’ve seen a kid eat toffee. Are you sure it’s wasn’t some old person throwing a werthers original at you?
Reminds me of church....grandma always snuck us a werthers when we got wiggly.
 

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No way in hell my kids or our friends kids would have acted like that in public. When the kids were younger, all of them are adults now, there was a local pizza place we would all hang out. They had an arcade and small fenced in patio with no tables. The kids would win something in from a machine and make up games to play on the patio. Yes they were running and playing but nothing even close to this.
 

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I don’t remember the last time I’ve seen a kid eat toffee. Are you sure it’s wasn’t some old person throwing a werthers original at you?

It was like a white hard square thing.. some kinda candy
 

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Doubt it. I see the same shit in Wisconsin. There’s shitty kids all over.
There are "those kids" everywhere. I see it more in "cities", more densely populated that is. There may be a correlation between a more herd mentality, or maybe out in the sticks neighbors don't report you to cps because houses are further apart?
It's really obvious at my son's school, which kids live in "town", and which kids live out a ways.
 

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Yeah, that shit don't fly with me. Since the divorce initiation, I have taken my 4 little girls (10, 8, 6, and 4) out to dinner a couple of times by myself. I try to go to more low-key places so they don't stick out too bad, but either way, they are in their seats unless its to go to the bathroom and there is no yelling or crying at the table. Even by myself I can keep them in line
 

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That's California! I recently had an issue with a member on here though that doesn't intervene in his kids antics. It's a different world.
 
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Don’t think it’s parents drinking or doing drugs that is the problem. The new time out generation is insane. They really are free range. Invited a coworker to Havasu a couple years ago. He brought his 9yr old son. The dad asked the kid to put his iPad down every 10minutes and he’d whine and he’d get an extension. We sat down for dinner and his kid brought it with him. Father said to put it down and the kid said “that’s not going to happen buddy”. After negotiating for 5 mins my wife chimed in and reminded the father that he was bigger and could make him. 😂. The look in the kids eyes was priceless. I’m pretty sure my dad could have cured 50% of kids of ADHD. Nothing wrong with an attitude adjustment
 

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Wow. How times have changed. We lived in Carlsbad in the 80‘s, 2820 Cedarwood Way, up in Hosp Grove. Just down the hill, literally less than 5 minutes away, was our go to for pizza. It was simply called, ‘That Pizza Place’, in a strip mall on N El Camino. Just looked it up. Damn! That Pizza Place is still there and open! Good pizza, cold beer and the owner was an active supporter of local kid‘s sports and programs. It was always full of kids and their parents. I can honestly say, I don’t recall ever seeing any kid screw up in there. And that included young boy football teams celebrating a victory. Kids and their parents just having a good time, without any BS. Have no idea what it is like these days.
 
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That's California! I recently had an issue with a member on here though that doesn't intervene in his kids antics. It's a different world.
No. That issue is not exclusive to California.

When we lived in Tucson I would see that kind of behavior as much or more so over there and race of the kids didnt matter. It just changed what they were doing poorly.

It comes down to parents too enveloped in their phones and social media to watch their own kids like they should. I have seen it first hand with my ex-wife and plenty of friends.
 

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Dune group we were in a couple would lock their son out of their RV and they'd crawl into a bottle of Vodka.

He had a pellet gun one trip, throwing rocks at vehicles windows another,, endless out of control mayhem for hours on end.

I was the first to go toe to toe with the problem kids parents and I was too early. Those in the group that weren't yet affected by this kid thought me an asshole and like a cult religious group I was shunned.

Then over a SHORT period of time each and every group family had a blowout, face to face confrontation with the problem kids parents. They were as bad as the kid.

Then the couple that invited the problem parents into the group hated anyone that didn't get along with them,, until they realized it was everyone.

The group disbanded.
We often camp alone now. It’s bliss.
 
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Most of you have never lived in the hood. My first house the neighbor next door was a local gang member. The kids were crazy. The older ones friends at 5-6 years old I came home and I caught them on my roof. It was a fixer upper house and I left the ladder up. They blamed it on the one kid.

About 10 years later living a few blocks away I asked about that kid. He was in jail for murder. 2 years later I run into my old neighbor. He drags me over to Harbor general to see his kid. His oldest was at a party and got shot in the head. I convinced him to let them donate his organs to save others in need. He was shot in the head. Craziest shit I have seen up close. Not sure how his other 2 kids turned out. He got a divorce and remarried and had 5 more. Still see him often.
 

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My local Round Table is always empty. Probably because an XL King Arthur Supreme is like 45$ bucks now….

LOL typical RDP turning this into a CA thing, you old fucks never fail to deliver…
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At Emerald Cove one summer there was one of those parents of pairs or mothers of multiples clubs there for the weekend.

Around the pool one evening two of the older boys pushed and threw all the little kids in the pool, if they could swim or not, life jacket on or not.
Chaos of getting the kids safe, screaming and tears and furious parents.

Boys Dad made an appearance beat the hell out of those boys with a black leather belt. Fucking whaled on them.

My daughter screamed sooo loud at the mayhem I think RDs dog Neva could hear it across the river and howled back.
Daughters never saw physical punishment.

I think once she got her high top sneakers taken away for 24 hours and the pain and agony was so loud I was certain the neighbors were going to come over.

There was a day care that Maynard got dropped off at when he pushed the wife over the edge. It was Mrs Lopez camp hell. Maynard went in a 7 year old mouthy kid, came out 24 hours later a defeated 50 year old man.
 

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Even worse is my Mom would grab a bar of Dial soap and rake it across our teeth lol
The green Lifebuoy was her goto for me. That shit was nasty, but after several treatments it was more palatable. 😁 Never did stop me from cussing though. I showed her, well until pop's got home.😫
 

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Back when we were fully into wake boarding we brought a kid along that everyone loved. Helpful with everything, taught the kids tricks on the wakeboard, a pleasure to have along.

His parents lived in Northridge on one of the last of the 2 acre truck farms.
Surrounded by spit rail and wooden fencing.

We rolled up one day to take him to Parker with us and there he was, he had a wagon with 2 five gallon paint cans and painting the fencing.

"I can't go, I raised my voice to my mom."
 

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Since when are bad kids an anomaly only found in California? There’s plenty little brats everywhere.

Oh stop...

I'm SURE Everyone on this here website, was an absolute Angel growing up.

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At Emerald Cove one summer there was one of those parents of pairs or mothers of multiples clubs there for the weekend.

Around the pool one evening two of the older boys pushed and threw all the little kids in the pool, if they could swim or not, life jacket on or not.
Chaos of getting the kids safe, screaming and tears and furious parents.

Boys Dad made an appearance beat the hell out of those boys with a black leather belt. Fucking whaled on them.

My daughter screamed sooo loud at the mayhem I think RDs dog Neva could hear it across the river and howled back.
Daughters never saw physical punishment.

I think once she got her high top sneakers taken away for 24 hours and the pain and agony was so loud I was certain the neighbors were going to come over.

There was a day care that Maynard got dropped off at when he pushed the wife over the edge. It was Mrs Lopez camp hell. Maynard went in a 7 year old mouthy kid, came out 24 hours later a defeated 50 year old man.
Where is this daycare? I have an 8 year old that could REALLY benefit from that. lol! Doesn't help that shes an angel around other people and too damn smart for her own good (in 3rd grade, testing at a 5th grade level).
 
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