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My thoughts are with Raegan's family and friends every time I see there has been a new post in this thread.
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It is harsh, no matter who you are, or your belief system. No two people handle loss the same. If I lost a child, I have no idea the grief I'd feel. Knowing roughly where their body rests, but not able to recover it, probably worse than not knowing at all. I guess it's a sliding scale, but it all sucks. The only person who knows is the one feeling it.I continue to hope and pray she is soon returned to her family. I can't even imagine how much they need that. She is with them in spirit. They know that.
Exactly.I finally got the nerve to ask the neighbor about this and the first recovered was connected to his wife . This is especially tragic to them as they lost their son in a drowning accident a little more than a year ago.
It is harsh, no matter who you are, or your belief system. No two people handle loss the same. If I lost a child, I have no idea the grief I'd feel. Knowing roughly where their body rests, but not able to recover it, probably worse than not knowing at all. I guess it's a sliding scale, but it all sucks. The only person who knows is the one feeling it.
Please, I hope it’s something positive. If there is such a thing at this point. Hoping and praying for some closure for her loved ones.View attachment 690460 5 police boats
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Really? Let's pretend it's your daughter that's missing. These posts were all made in the last week.
These aren't disrespectful to the family?
Posts like those below contribute nothing to the conversation. I'm not thin skinned, and I don't seek censorship, it's compassion.
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From what I have read about Bruce's Legacy, they will find possible targets. Depending on situations with governing bodies, such as law enforcement, they may do locating, but not retrieval. The police boats may have been investigating one of said targets. I think in some scenarios, as with Tahoe, they may be better equipped with an ROV for depths, and worked with sheriffs up there. As a whole, it gets to be difficult with private parties working alongside government. Just different rules, not attitudes. I would think all want the same for the families involved.
As for "Thinned Skinned" or whatnot, I am with rrrr on this one. I am in the small group that can say, with honesty, "Been there, Done that". I've seen the before, during and after of some horrid things. We, as a whole I think, just want this to come to an end. If you are a person who has spent time on the river with both your parents, and your kids, the river is a different place. If you only go to the river to hang out and drink, it's a different place than the river I go to these days. Both groups want this over. The parental types for the closure and a chance for several broken families to move on. The other group won't launch again until spring, and this will be ancient history. Some will show respect, and some won't even be aware of any disrespect. Different people, different thoughts... just my 2 cents.
People mad about talking about the stages of decomposition.
I'm in agreement with whichever mod was awake at 12:30am.Thank you for adding moderator comments to my post.
If you look at my join date, it too was after this wreck. I was one those who looked here for info. I had been hesitant to join RDP until recently. I am not a social media person. I was afraid this place was populated by baller wannabes, bragging about dollars spent and booze consumed. After reading the thread, I decided to join. I read through, and saw what was written, and a genuine concern. I was looking for info because I didn't know who and what...I was happy it wasn't groups I knew, then a bit sad when I realized relief for me, in no way changes the pain another feels.I am one of the bunch who have joined RDP to follow this very thread. It is the best source of good info I have found for most anything river related. I visit Topoc 2-3 times each river trip and was there just the weekend before. I was also aircrew for the US Coast Guard helicopter search and rescue years ago, hence my concerns for finding closure for the families.
I find myself drawn to the lounge now at least once per day because I enjoy the interactions and topics you all cover. Bottom line is I came here for the intell and I'm staying for the lounge talk.
Rest in peace to all souls lost in the drink, and peace be with their families.
Lots of amazing people on here. It blows me away sometimes. Belated Welcome to RDP, you sound like a good guy yourself sir. Hope she is found and the family can get closure as soon as possibleIf you look at my join date, it too was after this wreck. I was one those who looked here for info. I had been hesitant to join RDP until recently. I am not a social media person. I was afraid this place was populated by baller wannabes, bragging about dollars spent and booze consumed. After reading the thread, I decided to join. I read through, and saw what was written, and a genuine concern. I was looking for info because I didn't know who and what...I was happy it wasn't groups I knew, then a bit sad when I realized relief for me, in no way changes the pain another feels.
This girl I never met is in my thoughts, as is a family I do not know. The season is over for some, but my family and I go throughout the year. We will probably be on the water this weekend...Pirate's north. I hope Bruce's Legacy can find her. I'm glad there are people with the drive and the talent to do jobs most could not.
I will say this.If you look at my join date, it too was after this wreck. I was one those who looked here for info. I had been hesitant to join RDP until recently. I am not a social media person. I was afraid this place was populated by baller wannabes, bragging about dollars spent and booze consumed. After reading the thread, I decided to join. I read through, and saw what was written, and a genuine concern. I was looking for info because I didn't know who and what...I was happy it wasn't groups I knew, then a bit sad when I realized relief for me, in no way changes the pain another feels.
This girl I never met is in my thoughts, as is a family I do not know. The season is over for some, but my family and I go throughout the year. We will probably be on the water this weekend...Pirate's north. I hope Bruce's Legacy can find her. I'm glad there are people with the drive and the talent to do jobs most could not.
I don't know if I consider myself a good guy. I'm better than I was, but not as good as I want to be...a work in progress.Lots of amazing people on here. It blows me away sometimes. Belated Welcome to RDP, you sound like a good guy yourself sir. Hope she is found and the family can get closure as soon as possible
I will say this.
I was a bit reluctant to join because if you take a deep dive it gets ugly. If you just stay on the surface, communicate nicely, and ask intelligent questions, you will gain tremendous information. Stay away from the P&G section. That place ruins people!
I have made several friends from here, I rent houses from people here, I have dinner with people here, I have bought and sold stuff with people here, it really is a great resource and site. BUT I will say without question, the members here are more generous when someone is in need than any other place I have been a part of! RDP members just seem to get it!
I was afraid this place was populated by baller wannabes, bragging about dollars spent and booze consumed.
This girl I never met is in my thoughts, as is a family I do not know. The season is over for some, but my family and I go throughout the year. We will probably be on the water this weekend...Pirate's north. I hope Bruce's Legacy can find her. I'm glad there are people with the drive and the talent to do jobs most could not.
And if you ever need to borrow a car trailer just ask RD...I will say this.
I was a bit reluctant to join because if you take a deep dive it gets ugly. If you just stay on the surface, communicate nicely, and ask intelligent questions, you will gain tremendous information. Stay away from the P&G section. That place ruins people!
I have made several friends from here, I rent houses from people here, I have dinner with people here, I have bought and sold stuff with people here, it really is a great resource and site. BUT I will say without question, the members here are more generous when someone is in need than any other place I have been a part of! RDP members just seem to get it!