pronstar
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I suppose that in a perfect world, your postulation would be true, but this is not a perfect world. As I stated, humans make mistakes and contraception and the ability to control the moment are the points of imperfection that we want to make judgements about when we talk about the behavior of women who need to decide.a pathetic excuse
I am afraid that you misunderstand. I argue for liberty. Reread and try again.in favor of abortion
Mr Monkey.Lucero
I suppose that in a perfect world, your postulation would be true, but this is not a perfect world. As I stated, humans make mistakes and contraception and the ability to control the moment are the points of imperfection that we want to make judgements about when we talk about the behavior of women who need to decide.
Now, don't get me wrong. I understand your desire to make the world better. I definitely feel the same.
BUT - I don't believe I have agency in some matters of family formation where it appears you believe that you do. I would not step in if you were telling me about how you were raising your family or even deciding upon having one...that is YOUR thing and I have no right to oppose any part of your decision.
I know you have your own moral thesis and it guides your life in how you behave, and no matter my feeling about it, I try to respect your personal dignity to run your life as you choose.
Two things I consider to be pertinent in qualifying for agency/influence/decision in this regard are;
1) do you have a uterus?
2) do you believe that you should be able to guide your familial future according to your own moral thesis?
I could be wrong, but I think you are disqualified by (1)
To supercede the woman's moral thesis with your own would require agency which you do not possess. At best, you MAY have some standing/agency IF you are the father of the zygote/embryo/fetus AND she has told you about it.
valid point.me paying
valid point.
I agreed with @monkeyswrench about that earlier.
however, that is something I cannot help you with.
Maybe a congressperson or mayor or governor...
oh, wait. those fux can't be trusted.
damn. yer screwed
It should.
FWIW, I believe god is merciful. god would not punish a man whose life evidences as pure a pursuit as a man can muster.surely pay for my life's previous transgressions
I am afraid that you misunderstand. I argue for liberty. Reread and try again.
Chris, I used one of your reasons which millions other do as an example of a "pathetic excuse" because it is. How many couples struggle or cannot as easily have children without major medical expenses feel about other people terminating pregnancies like it's not big deal? To treat an abortion which over 90% do as birth control is just another example of lack of accountability in today's society. Again, is there exceptions to it, sure there is.I suppose that in a perfect world, your postulation would be true, but this is not a perfect world. As I stated, humans make mistakes and contraception and the ability to control the moment are the points of imperfection that we want to make judgements about when we talk about the behavior of women who need to decide.
Now, don't get me wrong. I understand your desire to make the world better. I definitely feel the same.
BUT - I don't believe I have agency in some matters of family formation where it appears you believe that you do. I would not step in if you were telling me about how you were raising your family or even deciding upon having one...that is YOUR thing and I have no right to oppose any part of your decision.
I know you have your own moral thesis and it guides your life in how you behave, and no matter my feeling about it, I try to respect your personal dignity to run your life as you choose.
Two things I consider to be pertinent in qualifying for agency/influence/decision in this regard are;
1) do you have a uterus?
2) do you believe that you should be able to guide your familial future according to your own moral thesis?
I could be wrong, but I think you are disqualified by (1)
To supercede the woman's moral thesis with your own would require agency which you do not possess. At best, you MAY have some standing/agency IF you are the father of the zygote/embryo/fetus AND she has told you about it.
Merciful in terms of what?
What punishment, is there a purity standard, what is man in pursuit of, is "try" on a sliding scale?
well, the liberty I was speaking of was relative to family formation. I hope to lever the decision about family formation to the best outcome based upon the trust I have in other humans. I have no inclination to judge how other people behave.Nice dodge.
Let me pin you down a little more.
So if a woman wants to abort a baby at 8 or 9 months and kill it, you support her liberty to do it?
I tried to express that I respect your dignity, and I do understand your opinion.Chris, I used one of your reasons which millions other do as an example of a "pathetic excuse" because it is. How many couples struggle or cannot as easily have children without major medical expenses feel about other people terminating pregnancies like it's not big deal? To treat an abortion which over 90% do as birth control is just another example of lack of accountability in today's society. Again, is there exceptions to it, sure there is.
In regards to qualifying I don't need a uterus to state my opinion. As a man, I am the other 50% of the reason why a female can create life. That being said I am not entitled to an opinion? Example, my wife or gf ends up getting pregnant, I have no problem with it and am looking forward to bringing a child into this world right? Well let's say she comes home a week later and says sorry I chose to get an abortion because I didn't want a child or another one let's say. So she is qualifying person because it's her body and I have no say in the matter? What do you say in that example.
Lastly, I am not superseding anyone, if you read my last post I stated I don't really care at this point and just stating an opinion. I do question though when people take a stance about "a woman's moral thesis" but when it came to vaccines morals go out the window real quick. So again I'll take the middle ground and say this, I don't want to pay for anyone's abortions or tell you what to do but don't make me pay for something that a.) has nothing to do with me b.) then force me to take something I don't want to. Planned parent hood is nothing more then a Democratic, money laundering, population control evil entity imho.
well, the liberty I was speaking of was relative to family formation. I hope to lever the decision about family formation to the best outcome based upon the trust I have in other humans. I have no inclination to judge how other people behave.
To do so in the matter of family formation would violate my own principle of noninterference with sensitive matters that every human must decide for themselves.
If they fall afoul of gods rules or rules made by men, they will have to answer to god or the law of man for their actions.
A typical libturd who has no problem with his country going down the drain due to the immorality and filth being allowed to occur.
You really should consider San Francisco if you're not already there Lucy, it would fit you perfectly.![]()
Chris as I respect yours and everyone else's opinion in here even if I don't align with them.I tried to express that I respect your dignity, and I do understand your opinion.
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my position and the way I expressed it was meant for your consideration. if you do not like it, or find it uncompelling, I again respect the dignity of your personal moral thesis and the reasons you hold those opinions.
you could have argued about agency, but you did not.
I'm hopeful only to tip the scales in a slightly better direction for what remains of my time.Merciful in terms of what?
What punishment, is there a purity standard, what is man in pursuit of, is "try" on a sliding scale?
I suppose that in a perfect world, your postulation would be true, but this is not a perfect world. As I stated, humans make mistakes and contraception and the ability to control the moment are the points of imperfection that we want to make judgements about when we talk about the behavior of women who need to decide.
Now, don't get me wrong. I understand your desire to make the world better. I definitely feel the same.
BUT - I don't believe I have agency in some matters of family formation where it appears you believe that you do. I would not step in if you were telling me about how you were raising your family or even deciding upon having one...that is YOUR thing and I have no right to oppose any part of your decision.
I know you have your own moral thesis and it guides your life in how you behave, and no matter my feeling about it, I try to respect your personal dignity to run your life as you choose.
Two things I consider to be pertinent in qualifying for agency/influence/decision in this regard are;
1) do you have a uterus?
2) do you believe that you should be able to guide your familial future according to your own moral thesis?
I could be wrong, but I think you are disqualified by (1)
To supercede the woman's moral thesis with your own would require agency which you do not possess. At best, you MAY have some standing/agency IF you are the father of the zygote/embryo/fetus AND she has told you about it.
country going down the drain
preserving the right to family formation of your own choosing, and not some opinion or belief of someone outside your family or persons directly involved (father and mother) is my concern.stage presence
preserving the right to family formation of your own choosing, and not some opinion or belief of someone outside your family or persons directly involved (father and mother) is my concern.
allowing some outside individual's opinion to rule and deliver punitive long term consequences when a family is formed is a violation of basic liberty topped off with a punishment for exercising basic liberty... that approach is authoritarian BS
I am very glad that I have you guys to bounce ideas off of. Your opinions are valuable and provide perspective that is useful. I hope you always know I have respect for your opinions and try to assimilate them.
preserving the right to family formation of your own choosing, and not some opinion or belief of someone outside your family or persons directly involved (father and mother) is my concern.
allowing some outside individual's opinion to rule and deliver punitive long term consequences when a family is formed is a violation of basic liberty topped off with a punishment for exercising basic liberty... that approach is authoritarian BS
I am very glad that I have you guys to bounce ideas off of. Your opinions are valuable and provide perspective that is useful. I hope you always know I have respect for your opinions and try to assimilate them.
First of all, thanks again for engaging with me. I really do appreciate the opportunity to discuss.I am supposed to carry that financial burden via abortions
I am taking a stand that support family formation decisions, no matter when they occur, onto those directly involved (mother and father). Pregnant and cant afford a fifth kid, or other unplanned events like BC ineffectiveness or raw human errors of commission or omission need coverage. To rescind the individual ability to choose to have a fifth kid, or reverse the 1% failure rate (when BC does not work), or a wild night with someone whom you find out later is unsuitable or unwilling to become a parent would deny healthful family formation.accountability before the fact
What's is your position? I find it hard to rationalize a father 'forcing' a woman to bear a child for him. That would, as I said before (msg #390 above), reduce her to chattel.female who wants to terminate but a father who doesn't
Ok, I understand. So you are in agreement with me then that nobody should be telling anybody else what to do when they form a family? I sense that we do not agree, but it seems that we have some common ground in this aspect. SO let's see where the agreement about personal liberty is not correspondent.What was there to argue about agency, you mistakenly take MY opinion as I am trying to tell someone else what do to maybe?
I won't venture into that just yet, because it is a distraction. I don;t know if you try this tactic on purpose or by habit. I defer that conversation until we can thresh out the differences and agreements about family formation.I also asked twice why is this different then vaccines and you haven't commented on that.
I understand that, but I'll ask you again, up to what point of a pregnancy do you support an abortion?
That blanket statement of family formation liberty is lacking morality limits, unless you support my liberal depopulation liberty via hangings.
That is well considered. Thank you for sharing it.Rights and liberty end when they infringe on the rights and liberty of another.
When those with no voice, and the weakest among us, are steamrolled by those with the loudest screeching that is not the preservation of liberty.
It’s mob rules.
There has to be a line in a civilized society.
In fact, it’s arguable that is what DEFINES a civilized society.
To take your posted viewpoint to the extreme means we can shape our family however we want.
Well, 2 less kids seems cheaper, I’ll just kill 2 of them because that’s what I want.
It isn’t MY rules or wishes being imposed. It’s the rules of a civilized society. We also have rules and procedures about how we determine those rules and boundaries.
Some seem to think we should dispose of both rules and boundaries and moreover, the process of determining those rules and boundaries.
up to what point of a pregnancy do you support an abortion?
Basically, but it’s a dangerous path to start legislating morality.
A society has to determine whether it’s civilized or not. Where rights begin and where they end.
Personally…I’m good either way.
I’ve got my list if shit breaks bad!
I am agnostic on that topic. my moral hypothesis is that the people who perform the procedure and who have the procedure performed on them should be the only ones involved. it is a private medical decision.
I'd rather see people given liberty, but the nature of government and society are confounding to full freedom.
we accept (or live unhappy with) the liberty we are granted.
sucks, huh?
I believe I stated elsewhere that - should the legal rollout actually result in a state's rights determination - it will be up to each state to determine a somewhat random asignemnt of when the procedure will be allowed, or perhaps not at all. that only reflects some gubberment administrators institutionalized form of liberty, not necessarily every citizen nor every person's exact opinion.
Still not hearing from any women.
People are a disappointment, but all we got here is each other, so if we get over the disappointment quickly, all of our lives will probably be better in the fastest way possible.Why is it that there are people that believe freedom and liberty must be protected by disgraceful protests to uphold the right to take life?
That is well considered. Thank you for sharing it.
I had hoped there would be less imagery of the sad consequences of the reality of our errors, and leave people alone to deal with those sad consequences in whatever way they can or do.
In this case, can you please explain the rights of another being infringed by someone's family formation decisions? From where does such right of some uninvolved individual supersede the other individual's right to autonomy in decisions on their family composition?
c'mon man. (LOL)face the wrath of the pack
c'mon man. (LOL)
Hey, I understand you are more edgy than me, and the 'animal' rules your worldview more than mine.
Still, if such 'animal' tendencies were to become more prevalent, do you think we'd be more, or less, civilized?
There seemed to be a moral argument ongoing to protect the unborn, which is a very highly civilized sentiment, but this new 'animal' sense might shed light on the argument in a different way.
Believe me, I can and do enjoy wildness and animal thrills, but there is a cost to it that may be greater than the tolerance of the errors of others.
OH WAIT! DO YOU MEAN THIS PACK? vvvvvvv
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Jesus Christ Lucy, stay on point here.
Damned straight.but your argument isn’t about abortion…it’s about implementation of societal rules
Damned straight.
I cannot count how many places this nation mentions libetry.
Pledge of allegiance
The Constitution
The Bill of Rights
we parade liberty around like it is some old forgotten hag we drag out on holidays then drink beer and marvel at her
then the next day in a hangover our reality sets in once again.
until we all become principled americans once again, we will suffer and have views that we are somehow at odds, when all along we all were promised the same things and then took actions or held opinions that were against granting liberty to others
no. I don't embrace anything in the extreme. just keeping it boring, trying to be good and craft a good world for as many people as possibleYou seem to want to live in a anarchist existence disguised as personal liberty?
preserving the right to family formation of your own choosing, and not some opinion or belief of someone outside your family or persons directly involved (father and mother) is my concern.
allowing some outside individual's opinion to rule and deliver punitive long term consequences when a family is formed is a violation of basic liberty topped off with a punishment for exercising basic liberty... that approach is authoritarian BS
I am very glad that I have you guys to bounce ideas off of. Your opinions are valuable and provide perspective that is useful. I hope you always know I have respect for your opinions and try to assimilate them.
Um there is a third person involved that can't speak and therefore express their desire for liberty.I am agnostic on that topic. my moral hypothesis is that the people who perform the procedure and who have the procedure performed on them should be the only ones involved. it is a private medical decision.
I'd rather see people given liberty, but the nature of government and society are confounding to full freedom.
we accept (or live unhappy with) the liberty we are granted.
sucks, huh?
I believe I stated elsewhere that - should the legal rollout actually result in a state's rights determination - it will be up to each state to determine a somewhat random asignemnt of when the procedure will be allowed, or perhaps not at all. that only reflects some gubberment administrators institutionalized form of liberty, not necessarily every citizen nor every person's exact opinion.
Still not hearing from any women.
People aren't a disappointment as a whole. They are individuals, some capable of phenomenal things, others a waste of resources. The problems we have stem from only focusing on helping those that won't help themselves, or idolizing those that are a success. The middle 90% are still worth saving, or giving a chance. Some of them may even be born to the lower 5% that drain humanity.People are a disappointment, but all we got here is each other, so if we get over the disappointment quickly, all of our lives will probably be better in the fastest way possible.
Personally, I feel there isn't much that separates murder from killing in general. So, that being the case, yes, yes I am. The difference I see being the reasoning. If someone's existence would make my life more difficult, force me to work harder, no. Life is full of tests. That "person" deserves no death sentence. Come at my loved ones with intent to do harm...then yes, that same death sentence is indeed an option.So your a proponent for murder?
Lucy has yet to say when a fetus is a person in his mind.
This is 90% of the abortion debate.
He dances around the question to force us to make assumptions that he can then dispute.
People aren't a disappointment as a whole. They are individuals, some capable of phenomenal things, others a waste of resources. The problems we have stem from only focusing on helping those that won't help themselves, or idolizing those that are a success. The middle 90% are still worth saving, or giving a chance. Some of them may even be born to the lower 5% that drain humanity.
Personally, I feel there isn't much that separates murder from killing in general. So, that being the case, yes, yes I am. The difference I see being the reasoning. If someone's existence would make my life more difficult, force me to work harder, no. Life is full of tests. That "person" deserves no death sentence. Come at my loved ones with intent to do harm...then yes, that same death sentence is indeed an option.
I know, different people, different views. I'm sure Lucy is not alone. I disagree with his view, but at least he has the gumption to try and explain his logic...whereas the protesters and common lib will just revert to name calling and shouting.Monkey, you need a valid reason for it. Somebody fucking with your family. A baby ain't fucking with anyone. It's part of what makes a family. It was aimed at Lucy. And he apparently does support murder
no. it is unethical to commit ethical breaches. 1st breach is the invasion of privacy in the decision about family formation, 2nd is the breach in guaranteed liberty of self and soul (more important than the first breach). I think you capitulated when you said that "Want to get an abortion then go right ahead, in fact get multiple ones if you so feel the need to, not my business and don't care." My own personal approach results in the same conclusion, except I have faith in the other human that they are doing what's best for them and theirs. Parents have every right of hegemony over their children after they are born and until they are 18. To intervene in their family decisions is reprehensible.morally ethical to let people kill babies
Um. You better look up 'chattel'.Aren't we then reducing the unborn child to chattel because we know the baby doesn't have a say in this?
Yes, thank you. it is valuable to me to hear your perspective. I am glad we can discuss this honorably and deeply. I assume most people understand law and our existing statutory law and terms like 'agency'. It is becoming apparent that I must explain much at length.stating my opinion simple as that so please keep that in mind.
Within the law, you are A-OK by me. Granting liberty is a habit. Tell me: do you believe we in USA have too much liberty?Now that being said you cannot tell me I cannot own a gun. You cannot force me to take a vaccine. You cannot infringe upon my liberties just like I cannot and will not yours. See, all done, easy!
YES!Um there is a third person involved that can't speak and therefore express their desire for liberty.
YES! as stated above, the debate over the medical procedure is a distraction.Lucy has yet to say when a fetus is a person in his mind.
This is 90% of the abortion debate.
He dances around the question to force us to make assumptions that he can then dispute.