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RiverDave

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joe rogan had dr phil on recently and they discussed online behavior and other things. was very interesting and pretty spot on. some of the things they discussed i see happening here daily. My experience currently is the combativeness, hate and posturing on RDP has surpassed my facebook feed. the desire by some people posting on here to prove their opinion is right and the only opinion that matters is staggering.

your Facebook feed? Or your Facebook groups..

I've been on a lot of community pages and the behavior and comments is disturbing. The absolute idiotic things some of the people say is disturbing as well..

RDP isn't nearly like sites of the "next-door" or fb / ig type comments..

I will say the comments on our YouTube channel are inherently positive though? Those fuckers are just happy to see boats. LOL

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You are 100% right..

I have to deal with the “association” of it all the time.. hotboat was a cesspool.. god damn good shit talkin time back in the day but all it was is arguing and negativity. A big part of the reason I started the subsequent forums and eventually rdp was to get away from that shit.

I hear from people all the time about the negativity.. if you think rdp is negative go on Facebook or IG.. the thing that is so bizarre about Fb is there it is with your whole
Life right there.. pic, name, city etc and people are absolute assholes and ruthless..

Even with the veil of protection of a screen name rdp is 100x better than fb or IG..

I was actually at adrenaline trailers a month or so ago and Wayne jr told me.. “at least on your fb group you are pretty on top of it.. if someone says something stupid you try and educate them and if they are assholes they are gone.”

Made me feel good that at least someone is noticing..

I do try to keep this place positive. I actually spend a lot more time doing shit most wouldn’t even know about to keep it that way.

In some cases it isn’t always positive but the overall vibe of the joint is pretty good I think
It is an overall Good Vibe Dave.... only so much you can do on such a wide open forum and I think thats where the appeal derives from. Its real simple for me.... if a thread is negative or non constructive I just move onto a different thread. Easy.
 

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Steve,

I hope you end up reading this. When I first stopped lurking on RDP you and I had many discussions about the "R" word down in the dungeon and I defended the facts about how it's a medical term bla bla ad nauseum.... In the end I finally got it.

I honestly have done my best to remove that word from my vocabulary to this day. I know it's just one part of why you are leaving RDP, I just wanted you to know our discussions changed my outlook on the way words can still affect anyone, even "it's not directed at you, why are you upset?" is not an acceptable answer to me anymore.

Please stick around. Your input and adventures are a wanted variable that makes this place special, as a whole even the smallest loss still diminishes RDP overall.
Hence the rise of LibTURD in the common vernacular...😁
 

River Runnin

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If some are so Affluent, Champion a group to a bitter end knowing there are a lot of bad eggs, Get Butt hurt over certain words, and so thin skinned to run off! ....

 

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Recently I've discovered that not adding fuel to a dumpster fire of a post is actually pretty liberating.

Negativity feeds on itself, no reason to allow it to feed on me.
Learning the same.
Easier said then done.
 

RiverDave

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Anyone else find it Ironic around the same time this is posted the biggest pot stirring useless poster Vlads aka Grads is let back on the site after being banned how many times ?

Well with the end of our politics in the lounge we will also be making some other changes round here lol
 

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Well with the end of our politics in the lounge we will also be making some other changes round here lol
I hope the changes don't take affect until after all the counting is done. I love to see the friendly winner/loser banter, regardless of which team I voted for.
 

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I am pretty much the same dude on here as I am real life lol, I treat people with respect and hope for the same in return. I am not going to get into a pissing match with anyone on the internet lol. Nothing on the internet is anonymous, so I would not say anything on here that I would not say in real life.

I also come on here because its interesting, some great people, great content and good conversations. I dont have any other social media so this is the only thing I have to kill time lol.
 

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I am pretty much the same dude on here as I am real life lol, I treat people with respect and hope for the same in return. I am not going to get into a pissing match with anyone on the internet lol. Nothing on the internet is anonymous, so I would not say anything on here that I would not say in real life.

I also come on here because its interesting, some great people, great content and good conversations. I dont have any other social media so this is the only thing I have to kill time lol.

Truth
 
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