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Been following @River Runnin thread and got me thinking about other members of RDP and their struggles in life. I'm humble to be in fairly good health at age 65.

This one had me in tears...

 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
I have no words other that you are a stronge man...God bless you and your family...
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
Good luck and god bless you. Fight like hell.
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
Dayum bud, that's so hard to read without tears welling up. Tears of admiration, and of sadness at the same time. If the same fate is ever bestowed upon me, your words will help keep it in perspective. My MIL is on her 4th 3-6 month prognosis, but sadly her sickness is coupled with age, and soon, she will leave us. But you are still young, so give it hell. Either way, wishing you the best and praying for a miracle.

Thanks for posting your story. It does help :)
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily

They told Nick Barron something like this, and then he went to City of Hope.

He lived 2 more years.

Fuck cancer. Don't give up!!! 🙏
 

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V3nomous/Jason's post is a story I will always remember for the rest of my life. In fact, I mention it from time to time to other peeps. Every couple of years I will post on his FB to let his family know that his RDP friends have not forgotten about him. https://www.facebook.com/jason.schwartz.104

Outnumbered/John was another one, we laughed about sharing the same wedding anniversary dates. I remember his friends were trying to raise money for his family, and at the time I was shit ass broke. But I had a new MSD ignition system that I sold on here so I could send his wifey the money.

Badblown572/Danny, just a cool kid. No sickness, but yet another life lesson that tomorrow may never happen; so live life today.
 

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I feel like I have to fight, so the grandkids will know I wasn't a quitter. My youngest grandson is named after me, and I cry for hours after I see him - 10 years old. He thinks I walk on water. I'm going to do it until the enivitable time comes, and then I'm going to beg god and my best friend to end it for me. They both promised they would
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
Torn between the sad and the love emoji. Chose the sad because it saddens me so much to hear the news. I hope that you are able to kick cancer‘s ass with chemo. It also saddens me to hear 67 and 2 years retired. Never apologize for your “rambling”. I am sure that the many things that you have posted has hit deep for someone. It brings tears and certainly will make a difference in our family. Sounds like you have things dialed in but I wish that continues on your path head.

And a member that I do think of often is Titties&Beers. :(
 

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I didn't necessarily realize it at first, but unfornately there are many. I ran the Catalina Ski Race one year with Bob Tully. 1000% class act and solid man.

VENOMOUS/Jason hits hard because his issues stemmed from an innocent accident and then snowballed unfortunately


Badblown522/Danny. Another rock solid man gone too soon

Bobbaloo. I briefly met him once in person, but was really impacted by his passing. He just seemed so positive when I met him



For me the biggest is shockwavebd. A true friend of mine who I think about often. My avatar is a photo of me and Barry at an epic raft up in Newport harbor. Miss that guy every day.

I know there are many others and unfortunately more to come.
 

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June 5 will be three years since I lost my good friend George AKA AzGeo. RIP
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I feel like I have to fight, so the grandkids will know I wasn't a quitter. My youngest grandson is named after me, and I cry for hours after I see him - 10 years old. He thinks I walk on water. I'm going to do it until the enivitable time comes, and then I'm going to beg god and my best friend to end it for me. They both promised they would
Courage to you.
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
That’s deep god bless you sir and thank you for the words of wisdom. Wishing you the best and prayers for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏
 
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I feel like I have to fight, so the grandkids will know I wasn't a quitter. My youngest grandson is named after me, and I cry for hours after I see him - 10 years old. He thinks I walk on water. I'm going to do it until the enivitable time comes, and then I'm going to beg god and my best friend to end it for me. They both promised they would

When that time comes...and it does for us all....just know you have a legacy that will follow. Thats what it all boils down to anyhow...at least in my mind. You will live on thru your namesake and grandkids.

Go in peace sir
 

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I hope all who have passed are RIP

When you see their names again it makes you realize that nobody has any guarantees of tomorrow. Kind of had to take a step back a bit in realization on how many I have met personally and knew.

We are all here for a shorter time then we all realize. The distractions of life sometimes cause life to pass us by until we realize time is precious and then poof its gone.

Live life and appreciate every day is the message I have received.
 

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I feel like I have to fight, so the grandkids will know I wasn't a quitter. My youngest grandson is named after me, and I cry for hours after I see him - 10 years old. He thinks I walk on water. I'm going to do it until the enivitable time comes, and then I'm going to beg god and my best friend to end it for me. They both promised they would
This sounds a lot like my dad's story. he fought his cancer until his quality of life was no more.

His best friend from college set up a nitrogen rig for him. he used it when he couldn't stand to suffer anymore.

It's funny what I remember about my grandfathers. Playing golf and eating hot dogs at baseball games. Catching him cleaning my windshield before I drive home after a visit.

It's always just about time spent.

So spend that quality time and get lots of hugs.
 

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JBB, not someone you should have on speaker phone if anyone else was around 😂

We all have a date on a calendar that we won’t see past, knowing that date has to really suck. My pal Mark passed of cancer a few years back, we chatted about time close to the end, he was really bummed that there just wasn’t anymore time left on his clock, there wasn’t anything I could say or do to change that other than just continue to be his pal right then with the time he chose to spend talking with me. I always have felt very fortunate that he chose to spend some of that time with me chatting about real stuff.

Today I feel very lucky to not have a known expiration date, even though the reality is that date could be today.

I’ve experienced what hospice care can and should be when my sister passed from cancer at age 39, those folks are truly professionals and the experience of that was something our whole family was able to share in together which really helped during that unnatural sequence of parents outliving a child.

Best wishes for those with known dates, and best of luck to the rest of us as we take on the day we have in front of us.
 

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This is a “priority perspective thread” because it will reset your priorities if you take someone else’s perspective and empathize with them.

RIP to those gone before
Godspeed to those walking through the fire
Get your shit straight to those who are oblivious to the realities of life.

I have performed a few funerals and comforted many going through the death of a loved one.
One thing I have noted is that the closer a person lives to reality, the easier it is for them to adjust and accept and prepare.
Have those talks
Fulfill those plans
Make those provisions
 

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Scrolling through an old thread on RDP, kind of reminds me of scrolling through the contacts on my phone. So many names that are no longer with us.

I guess I can’t bring myself to delete those phone numbers. It would be like deleting memories or their existence.😕
 

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It is a bit shocking to see all these names I recognize, and how many I had met over the years. Then I remember it has been 20+ years of trading posts with this group. Still humbling.
 

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I don't know all of you, but still hope to meet so many more. Years ago I lost 2 close friends in a needless hit and run accident....they have still never caught the other driver. I learned my lesson then. Every trip to the river, first drink is always a toast "to those who have come before and are not here to enjoy this day."

Courage my friend, never leave this world without a good fight!
 

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Keith Sayre...I'd always stop&visit him at Boat Brokers&then Conquest.
He'd come walk the Channel daily at lunch to visit all his friends. Guy was a riot.
Michelle(John&Michelle) all her physical problems & we'd show up after driving 7 hrs.&she'd be waiting w/jello shots.
BB572...smart kid who'd have done big things in the boating industry. Learned a lot talking to him at RD'S old Parker pad.
Babaloo, met him once at OP6...just a super cool guy.Couldn't believe how he passed.
 

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Been following @River Runnin thread and got me thinking about other members of RDP and their struggles in life. I'm humble to be in fairly good health at age 65.

This one had me in tears...


This one is about as bad and sad as it gets.
I am reminded of Dignity and Grace whenever I think of or am reminded of Jason's story.... and thanks for this reminder.
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily
… if there is a hereafter, you will be just fine…Your spirit and your soul are very much intact…. Hang in there for what you’ve got left… I thought I was done last year… But I’m still here🤷🏽‍♀️👍
 

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We all touch each other. I got told on March 28th, 10:13am, that I won't see Christmas. Rectal cancer metastasized to liver and lungs, inoperable. Chimo is my only prayer. 67 years old, been working since I was 8, retired 2 years ago. I'm not really sure how I feel about knowing, but I can definitely tell you stuff doesn't mean anything to me anymore. Wife, kids, grandkids, real friends are the only thing, and they're taking the brunt of the disease. Its great to be able to say " I love you" to those that I care about, but its beyond imagination what's coming soon. II don't know if its harder to fight or give up, but I only regret the things I haven't done. Wife will be set $$$$ wise, but believe me when I tell you she doesn't really care. 45 years of marriage today, and suddenly nothing matters but being able to keep breathing. Don't listen to the planners- do what you want and need to NOW. I've had plenty of fun, but after worrying for 67 years about having enough to live to 92 this resets the priorities. I know I'm rambling, but I'm trying not to wake my wife with my sobs and tears so its a little harder to focus. If this helps 1 of you, I feel like I did something good today. No pitty, or sorrow. I want everyone to enjoy to the fullest, as I'm going to try and do with the time left. Ill leave you with the 3 things I've tried to do daily with my life. They've really short thoughts, simple in nature, and almost impossible to do, but I keep try:
Don't judge, you don't know
Be grateful, you have it better than most
Do a RANDOM act of kindness daily

I am so sorry to hear that.. :(. Stacy and I have one of our super close friends going through something similar in the fact that there is just nothing that can be done anymore. It is absolutely heartbreaking, and I wish there was more I could for her / them.

RD
 

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Titties and Beer (Mark) was a great guy. A few years ago my fire station was doing a collection at Christmas(Angel Tree) for the local needy, toys and food. He and his wife came by. He sat in my office for a while, reached in his pocket and handed me a wad of cash.....sorta took me by surprised. We talked a bit more. When he left I walked out with him to his truck, he opened the center counsel, grabbed more cash and gave it to me. Anyone remember what his last name was?
 

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boatdoc55 - not sure if I spelled his screen name right and I couldn’t find it? He was from the northwest, Oregon I believe, and had retired to Havasu.

 

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Boatdoc - not sure if I spelled his screen name right and I couldn’t find it? He was from the northwest, Oregon I believe, and had retired to Havasu.
He seemed like a really nice guy, always helpful.
 

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Dam sorry to hear . Shouldn’t have opened this thread. Going to have a hard time reading the plans I’m supposed to looking at.
 

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@Mcob25rg , After reading your post ,I walked out to the garage and uncover the Cole and just looked at it I felt deep sadness for what you are experiencing. l know at one time in the boat history that you had much pride of ownership of her and the fun you must had as a owner and that it was special part of your family. Just wanted say to you every time use the Cole even I don‘t know you Personally I will think of you . I definitely have the pride of ownership as you did of the boat and it’s in good hands .
 

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Damn didn't know Boatdoc passed as well, always learned something when I talked to him and to AzGeo.

the shittiest one that hasn't been mentioned yet is Roy's passing in 2021, was incredible to see the RDP network rally to try to get him the help he needed, just was too little too late.
 

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I’ve said it here before but… In twenty years you’ll be more disappointed in the things you didn’t do than the things you did, so what are you waiting for?

Prayers are with you @Mcob25rg ans know that you have an entire community at RDP pulling for you. Keep fighting!!
 

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Hung out with T&B at havasu a few times. Awesome dude
Met Bobaloo at an OP6C. Another awesome guy
Talked to BB572 a few times. He was busy at the boat show but took a lot of time to BS with me and my young son at the time. A wealth of knowledge, especially for a young man.
 

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Titties and Beer (Mark) was a great guy. A few years ago my fire station was doing a collection at Christmas(Angel Tree) for the local needy, toys and food. He and his wife came by. He sat in my office for a while, reached in his pocket and handed me a wad of cash.....sorta took me by surprised. We talked a bit more. When he left I walked out with him to his truck, he opened the center counsel, grabbed more cash and gave it to me. Anyone remember what his last name was?
I never met Mark, but was really impressed with the story of him driving quite a distance to help someone's family that had broken down in a motorhome, I believe. Can't remember what he did, but he got them going.
 

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Titties and Beer (Mark) was a great guy. A few years ago my fire station was doing a collection at Christmas(Angel Tree) for the local needy, toys and food. He and his wife came by. He sat in my office for a while, reached in his pocket and handed me a wad of cash.....sorta took me by surprised. We talked a bit more. When he left I walked out with him to his truck, he opened the center counsel, grabbed more cash and gave it to me. Anyone remember what his last name was?
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To all of you, THANK YOU FOR THE KIND THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I don't want this to be a downer, but a call to action and awareness. Live right now, love right now, laugh right now, help others right now. I've messaged several, I'm going to fight as long as its reasonable. I'm not a quitter, and I don't want friends and family to think I didn't care or love them, but when the juice doesn't equal the squeeze, and I can no longer do the basics in life on my own, I'm going to want out. I'm not going to take others down with me, especially those that are showing so much love to me right now! Again, your concern, time invested, and kind thoughts mean more than you can imagine!!!!!!
 
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