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[atomickitn]

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Hometown: Huntington Beach
Location: Huntington Beach, CA us

Introduction:
"Sounds like some crazy off the wall fun"

If you were half human and half animal, what would be the animal?
"puppy"

Your favorite drink is?
"Atomickitten...my own creation."

What is your "Favorite Bar Story"?
"Hooking up with my "Battle Buddy" " Stats:

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Hi Windy. It was nice meeting you last night. See you soon...

Claudia It was nice meeting you last night Windy. We didn't get much of a chance to talk but maybe next time we can.

Denise Was good to see you last night. hope you and your friend had good time...see you soon

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[atomickitn]

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Members › windy

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Hometown: Huntington Beach

Location: Huntington Beach, CA us

Introduction:
"HI. We hope to meet some fun people here. "

What do you hope to get from joining this group?
"Meeting fun outgoing people like ourselves"

What are your favorite things to do for fun. Name 3 things
"Anything outdoors."

How long have you been married or together as a couple?
"Less than a year. We met in Virgina deploying to Kuwait for OIF."
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Member of Meetup since March 19, 2008
Member of this Meetup since March 29, 2008
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SoCal Country Connection
windy's Line Dancing profile

Drinking with Strangers
windy's Night Life profile

OC&LA Social Life
windy's Night Life profile

Dive Bar Adventures Inc.
windy's Night Life profile

The Orange County Night Life Meetup Group
windy's Night Life profile

The Orange County Couples Meetup Group
windy's Couples profile

San Diego's Mile High Drinking Syndicate
windy's Night Life profile

Fun Female Friends of Orange County
windy's Women's Social profile

The San Diego Women's Friends Group
windy's Women's Social profile

Group 986
windy's Singles profile

Girls Night Out Social Meetup Group
windy's Women's Social profile

Girly Girls Thst love To Have Fun
windy's Women's Social profile

Wine, Dine, Coffee & More - WDC&M - OC
windy's Night Life profile

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[RitcheyRch]

Dont stalk her man. Remember, there are stalking laws here in CA. This is going to piss her off.

I know is tough but let her go and have her freedom.

 

[atomickitn]

:thumbsdown

 

[Jyruiz]

Let it go bro, it is just going to hurt more and I don't think any of your friends want to see you in pain, I know I don't.

 

[atomickitn]

http://couples.meetup.com/210/members/6769140/........:skull

 

[atomickitn]

 

[atomickitn]

:hmm

 

[atomickitn]

humm the rest of the pics wont upload..but I have some great ones

 

[knuckle head]

Let it go bro, it is just going to hurt more and I don't think any of your friends want to see you in pain, I know I don't.

I agree I don't want to see him in pain but maybe this is his release. At least now he doesn’t think he is crazy :hmm JMHO

 

[atomickitn]

nope I am as crazy as they come.... but i really wish that she would have just told me the truth... but I am now on my way to greener pastures.. I only hope that her brown pastures are as green as they once were.

 

[Jyruiz]

I agree I don't want to see him in pain but maybe this is his release. At least now he doesn’t think he is crazy :hmm JMHO

Good point.

 

[No Butt No Putt]

Someone take this man to a strip club in Mexico.
:beer:drool

 

[atomickitn]

I already had one of thouse ,and they always seem to turn out the same..

 

[Topless]

Bobby, this just looks like a myspace deal and just because someone has a picture taken with someone else means only that they had their picture taken together. Don't read more into it.

 

[Riverbound]

Bobby,

Just look forward to DS this weekend, I will see what I can scrounge up for you to "rebound" on I have been in your shoes and she has checked out a long time ago. All thats going to happen now is you will begin to find more and more truth and it will just dig a deeper hole in your heart. Best thing to do is walk away (I know how hard it is) and move on. Eventually you will find someone who will treat you right.

"the grass is always greener on the other side until you step into a pile of shit"

 

[musicFunsun]

Bobby,

Just look forward to DS this weekend, I will see what I can scrounge up for you to "rebound" on I have been in your shoes and she has checked out a long time ago. All thats going to happen now is you will begin to find more and more truth and it will just dig a deeper hole in your heart. Best thing to do is walk away (I know how hard it is) and move on. Eventually you will find someone who will treat you right.

"the grass is always greener on the other side until you step into a pile of shit"

Oh man, that last line is so absofreekinlutly true :thumbsup:thumbsup

 

[jordy]

Bobby,

Just look forward to DS this weekend, I will see what I can scrounge up for you to "rebound" on I have been in your shoes and she has checked out a long time ago. All thats going to happen now is you will begin to find more and more truth and it will just dig a deeper hole in your heart. Best thing to do is walk away (I know how hard it is) and move on. Eventually you will find someone who will treat you right.

"the grass is always greener on the other side until you step into a pile of shit"

Look at the big brain on Billdo... :hmm

It sucks to go through this Bobby, and as much as I hate to agree with Bill, he does make a great point... the more you know about it, the more it will hurt you. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. :beer

Keep your chin up buddy and we'll see ya this weekend.

 

[knuckle head]

Bobby, this just looks like a myspace deal and just because someone has a picture taken with someone else means only that they had their picture taken together. Don't read more into it.

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Introduction:
"HI. We hope to meet some fun people here. "

What do you hope to get from joining this group?
"Meeting fun outgoing people like ourselves"

What are your favorite things to do for fun. Name 3 things
"Anything outdoors."

How long have you been married or together as a couple?
"Less than a year. We met in Virgina deploying to Kuwait for OIF."

Looks & Reads to be a little more then a pic.:hmm

 

[Tom Brown]

I feel bad for you, Bobby.

There is a lot of life left in you. I have no doubt, most of your future will be better than this particular day.

Hang in there.

 

[Riverbound]

Look at the big brain on Billdo... :hmm

It sucks to go through this Bobby, and as much as I hate to agree with Bill, he does make a great point... the more you know about it, the more it will hurt you. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. :beer

Keep your chin up buddy and we'll see ya this weekend.

Its not big brain Billdo...its "lots of experrience in the same circumstance Billdo"

 

[Topless]

Looks & Reads to be a little more then a pic.:hmm

Didn't read that but I still don't think anything is going on besides friendship there.

 

[knuckle head]

Its not big brain Billdo...its "lots of experrience in the same circumstance Billdo"

Yea Jordy: Nothing on Billdo is "BIG"

 

[Riverbound]

Looks & Reads to be a little more then a pic.:hmm

We discussed this the weekend of my B-day (one of the few things I remember) one of the downsides of Posting stuff like this on the boards, is you will occasionaly get poeple Who dont know the facts giving their $.02. but for the most part people will give good advice.

 

[Riverbound]

Didn't read that but I still don't think anything is going on besides friendship there.

LOL.

 

[Riverbound]

Yea Jordy: Nothing on Billdo is "BIG"

Not what your wife said

 

[Tom Brown]

... you will occasionaly get poeple Who dont know the facts giving their $.02. but for the most part people will give good advice.

My advice to you is to drink less.

 

[djunkie]

Hang in there Bobby. Keep in mind we're all here for you. Your a great guy and you'll get through this. Keep your head up bud.

 

[knuckle head]

Not what your wife said

Set myself up for that :smackhead

 

[HBCraig]

That sucks man. I would take the advice of RB here.

 

[Riverbound]

My advice to you is to drink less.

Advice taken....I cant drink like I used to.

 

[Tom Brown]

I cant drink like I used to.

Nobody can.

 

[knuckle head]

My advice to you is to drink less.

You need all the facts Tom!!!!

He did drink less after he passed out @ 4pm

 

[jordy]

Not what your wife said

Girls lie. :beer

 

[Guest]

Bobby, this just looks like a myspace deal and just because someone has a picture taken with someone else means only that they had their picture taken together. Don't read more into it.

 

[Tom Brown]

Topless seems to be using the Norco variant of the term 'friendship'.

 

[mrs. bordsmnj]

Booby, hang in there. You have lots of friends who love you and are here for you.

See you this weekend!

xoxoxo

 

[Riverbound]

Topless seems to be using the Norco variant of the term 'friendship'.

LOL...it must be in the water out there....my ex also lives out there and had someone that was "just a friend".

 

[knuckle head]

Topless seems to be using the Norco variant of the term 'friendship'.

LMAO

 

[BarryMac]

That sucks man. I would take the advice of RB here.

Damn, the world is becoming a better place, a lot of people are suggesting that the advice of RB is taken, WOW, I never would've thought I would see the day... :beer

 

[knuckle head]

LOL...it must be in the water out there....my ex also lives out there and had someone that was "just a friend".

Is he the same "FRIEND" that she is about to marry?

 

[Riverbound]

Damn, the world is becoming a better place, a lot of people are suggesting that the advice of RB is taken, WOW, I never would've thought I would see the day... :beer

The sun even shines on a dogs ass every once in a while

 

[Riverbound]

Is he the same "FRIEND" that she is about to marry?

No..that was the "Friend" that moved in after I left. The guy she is about to marry is a nnnneeeeeewwww "friend".

funny thing is she talked to me about it once and straight out told me. she regretted everyhting, but realizes its probably something she will deal with the rest of her life (basically said "once a cheat always a cheat"). I know she has cheated on her fiance. not sure exactly how their relaitonship is structued and its none of my business. I pretty much told her "All the best".

After some agonizing times (which Bobby is going through right now) I moved on and in all reality couldnt be happier than I am now. I love my life and eventually will find someone to share it with.

 

[atomickitn]

if I could only get the rest of the pics to up load on this site.. toppless don't let her bullshit you.. she was soo F. ing mad that you did not return her calls and show up for her going away party... and that you never wrote her while in Kuwait, she had said a lot of thing about you .. but I will leave that stuff out for you to decide.. I know I am going to catch hell for this, but AT this point I don't really care.. I know IN my heart and from her own words she has written, that she fucked up ,lied, and cheated. I never did that ,, I did NOT GIVE UP ON MY MARRIAGE, OR BREAK MY PROMISE.. to HER. she has done all this on her own. and Allie, she told me she had no intention of filling for divorce, but two days later she asked me to sign papers.. humm do you really want to know the facts and not the bullshit lies. I am over this and now looking forward to the future... MY future.. for the record.. riverbound is 100% correct.

 

[jordy]

Is he the same "FRIEND" that she is about to marry?

Been there and done that... only mine was just out with a customer and I didn't see that coming. Yeah, they got married on Saturday. :hmm :smackhead

Live and learn. :beer

for the record.. riverbound is 100% correct.

Oh shit, Billdo won't be able to fit his head through the door if stuff like this continues. :fsakes

 

[Riverbound]

if I could only get the rest of the pics to up load on this site.. toppless don't let her bullshit you.. she was soo F. ing mad that you did not return her calls and show up for her going away party... and that you never wrote her while in Kuwait, she had said a lot of thing about you .. but I will leave that stuff out for you to decide.. I know I am going to catch hell for this, but AT this point I don't really care.. I know IN my heart and from her own words she has written, that she fucked up ,lied, and cheated. I never did that ,, I did NOT GIVE UP ON MY MARRIAGE, OR BREAK MY PROMISE.. to HER. she has done all this on her own. and Allie, she told me she had no intention of filling for divorce, but two days later she asked me to sign papers.. humm do you really want to know the facts and not the bullshit lies. I am over this and now looking forward to the future... MY future.. for the record.. riverbound is 100% correct.

I feel for you and you know you have the support of your friends. and after the dust settles on all of this, you will realize who your real friends actually are

Good thing you didnt take the mount for the stripper pole out of the boat :lmao

 

[Cole Trickle]

RB about summed it up

You can either keep beating yourself up over something that was not your fault or you can let it be and move on........

Your a great guy and deserve to be happy.

 

[Riverbound]

Been there and done that... only mine was just out with a customer and I didn't see that coming. Yeah, they got married on Saturday. :hmm :smackhead

Live and learn. :beer

funny how that works. :hmm

Oh shit, Billdo won't be able to fit his head through the door if stuff like this continues. :fsakes

Actually, I wish this was a subject I knew NOTHING about.

 

[musicFunsun]

I see pain in those words. Give yourself time to greive. It a loss same as if someone passes. It takes time. You obviousley have many friends here. Hope they do not judge but stand by your side. It will get better and you will find that special woman when you are ready. I know, I had a very similar situation. It took 3 years but have finally met someone very nice (help me talk him into a boat THIS SUMMER, not next year, please) and things are going great. I'm sure at your age it won't take so long

PS I say keep posting or doing whatever you need to do...........thats what we are here for

 

[Topless]

Is he the same "FRIEND" that she is about to marry?

I don't know where the hell that information is coming from because the only place I see it where you post it. The link Bobby posted is dead.