zhandfull
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Sounds like you are going into this situation with a very positive and realistic attitude. IMO that is half the battle right there.
Having dealt with this, one thought, “burn bag!”We all want you to recover and thrive. I was thinking about your post last night. It is lovely how many thoughts and prayers posts you receive, but I am a realist and know things need to be ready for whoever takes over my duties when I go.
As a pragmatist I would strongly suggest that you make sure you get all your stuff in order. The will, the trust, the accounts. Keep a listing in a book along with instructions on who needs to handle what. Find the life insurance info. They need to know where to put your remains, if you care. If you have specific things you want to go to a particular person, put it in writing.
Write letters to those you love, make a video or a recording if you wish. Be sure to delete the porn from your hard drive and erase the bad things from your search history. LOL
We have an "If I Die" notebook here with all that stuff in it. It is a bit of a relief not to worry about the things you can't control. I know my wife will be well enough off to stay in the house and have no debts. With the insurance she can pay off all the mortgages and live on the rental income. If we go together the kids will get a great leg up on life.
It's shitty to think about, but shittier to leave it to your grieving family as a mystery they have to unravel.
thanks for the update, Bob!After several hours in the Hospital here's a little update --
Hang in there...easier said than done but one step at a time.After several hours in the Hospital here's a little update -- left handed hunt and peck style! -- cuz I can't use my right hand/arm yet. Anyway, I had my angiogram and was sure hoping for a couple stents to solve a problem. Well that didn't happen, I do have a couple blockages and will find out on the 1st and how serious they are and likely what it's gonna take to repair. Whatever the outcome, I'll have my affairs in order before anymore procedures -- Have the number and reference's of a person that is top notch.
Well it can't be as bad as my angio. They checked me stopped put in a room and told me I couldn't go home until they did open heart after the weekend. So hang in there it can be fixed.After several hours in the Hospital here's a little update -- left handed hunt and peck style! -- cuz I can't use my right hand/arm yet. Anyway, I had my angiogram and was sure hoping for a couple stents to solve a problem. Well that didn't happen, I do have a couple blockages and will find out on the 1st and how serious they are and likely what it's gonna take to repair. Whatever the outcome, I'll have my affairs in order before anymore procedures -- Have the number and reference's of a person that is top notch.
Been there...sucks for sure!Well it can't be as bad as my angio. They checked me stopped put in a room and told me I couldn't go home until they did open heart after the weekend. So hang in there it can be fixed!.
They are doing the procedure, so it looks good!Well! Here's my latest update..... I get a call from the Heart Surgeon to set up an appointment! ..... Tomorrow!! I see the Dr. that did the Angiogram for the results.....
Keep fighting the good fight, that was the first step to a new journey that will have you feeling better than ever. Thoughts are with you and your family!I Just want to thank y'all for all your prayers and well wishes! ... I got me 1st results today ... Multi-blockages with open heart is in me near future. Not giving up yet, but it is a bit to wrap my head around atm!
I Just want to thank y'all for all your prayers and well wishes! ... I got me 1st results today ... Multi-blockages with open heart is in me near future. Not giving up yet, but it is a bit to wrap my head around atm!
Open heart is a piece of cake now days. It is so common you wouldn't believe it. I felt so much better after I had mine. PM me if you want to talk about it.I Just want to thank y'all for all your prayers and well wishes! ... I got me 1st results today ... Multi-blockages with open heart is in me near future. Not giving up yet, but it is a bit to wrap my head around atm!
At the age of 75, my grandfather had emergency quadruple bypass heart surgery.I Just want to thank y'all for all your prayers and well wishes! ... I got me 1st results today ... Multi-blockages with open heart is in me near future. Not giving up yet, but it is a bit to wrap my head around atm!
I'll find out Friday or Monday after both heart Doc's bump heads to take the best course and pick a day. Either Bypass or pumping heart repair and maybe a stint er 2. But the plan is still a cracked chest. He's more worried about the after! Stitches, plates & screws, wire, staples, glue and shit to keep me together, and infection. Maybe a week in the Hospital and a couple in rehab! --- Guess I'll be missing the Storm and the rest of Aprils events!
I'll find out Friday or Monday after both heart Doc's bump heads to take the best course and pick a day. Either Bypass or pumping heart repair and maybe a stint er 2. But the plan is still a cracked chest. He's more worried about the after! Stitches, plates & screws, wire, staples, glue and shit to keep me together, and infection. Maybe a week in the Hospital and a couple in rehab! --- Guess I'll be missing the Storm and the rest of Aprils events!
I'll find out Friday or Monday after both heart Doc's bump heads to take the best course and pick a day. Either Bypass or pumping heart repair and maybe a stint er 2. But the plan is still a cracked chest. He's more worried about the after! Stitches, plates & screws, wire, staples, glue and shit to keep me together, and infection. Maybe a week in the Hospital and a couple in rehab! --- Guess I'll be missing the Storm and the rest of Aprils events!
I like the way you talk!Fuck the events get better.
Well inmates! I'm headed to the ER. Just wanted to thank you all again for your Well wishes and prayers!
I think the blockage are getting worse. A few steps brings chest pains and more.
You'll be fine. Keep a positive outlook.Well inmates! I'm headed to the ER. Just wanted to thank you all again for your Well wishes and prayers!
Well inmates! I'm headed to the ER. Just wanted to thank you all again for your Well wishes and prayers!
events come and go, they aren't important. Our thoughts are with you, and we hope the best for your recovery. You've got this.Well inmates! I'm headed to the ER. Just wanted to thank you all again for your Well wishes and prayers!