Life kicks you in the teeth, Cancer.

[ONE-A-DAY]

Early last week we got the phone call that nobody wants to get, my wife has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Its been a gut wrenching process so far and now we are scared as hell. Later today is a big meeting with all of the doctors involved where we will learn next steps.

Life can turn in a second. We are enjoying are lives like never before, financially and emotionally we are all set, spending about half of our time at the lake, we eat well, exercise, do all the right things, but you still get kicked in the teeth.

My life without my wife doesnt exist.

Im not a fan of people who put personal stuff like this on Facebook so we didnt, but RDP is a bit different, more like family, and for some reason it just feels slightly better to type the words.

- Walt

 

[Joker]

Sorry to hear this Walt. I can't give you any advice as we've not had to deal with that, just stay strong and know you have each other to beat this thing.

 

[Wmc]

Terrible news ...Fuck cancer! Stay positive and win

 

[Q4mtxUS]

Sorry to hear of this sadness. All shall be good though as she'll battle & defeat this Walt.

Rob

 

[FreeBird236]

Very sorry to read this, praying all goes well.

 

[MSum661]

Walt,

Woman are some of the toughest living things on Earth. Incredibly resilient to just about anything and everything.
I know more than a few good Ladies that bounced back like it never happened.

Stay strong and keep the Spirits around you positive at all times.

I hope that helps any.

 

[Rotten deal]

Very sorry to hear. My mother went through it and survived . That was 25 years ago now. So it can be beat . Prayers sent.

 

[Why Not]

Sorry to hear this! Thoughts and prayers are with you!

 

[relaxalot]

The good news is that many people beat this.. hang in there. Attitude is everything...

 

[djunkie]

Sorry to hear. Try and stay positive and be there for anything your wife may need. Trust me it's nice to have someone next to you through every step of it. Breast cancer isn't the end. It may suck but it's totally beatable. Positive thoughts for you and your wife. And fuck cancer.

 

[riverroyal]

I briefly met you and your wife a few years back. She doesn't seem to be the type that would NOT kicks cancers ass. Let us know if you need anything, good chance you will get busy dealing with it. Im sure theres a bunch of guys here that can check on your stuff at the lake or assist in some way. This IS the place to ask, history here shows theres some great folks

 

[SJP]

Positive thoughts.

 

[28Eliminator]

Life sux sometimes.. Get informed, get educated, and above all else get her to CITY OF HOPE if at all possible.

My wife beat breast cancer 3 times... over 15 years. twice she was told she was going to die. She's still here 16 years later and Cancer free. We'll keep her in our prayers!

 

[JD D05]

I can't imagine how shitty that must feel. My wife and I have had 3 friends get breast cancer in the last year and all beat it.

 

[GRADS]

Sorry to hear that man. Just remember that there are many cancer SURVIVORS on this website. I say this because when you are first told you have cancer you will "what if" yourself to death. Try to stay positive! The advancements they have made in even the last few years are astonishing. Cancer these days is very beatable. I wish your wife and your family the best.

 

[boataholic]

One-a-day i was in your shoes last November when my wife was diagnosed as well. I can tell you the first few weeks was tough. But once you get your treatman plan it gets better. Fyi... I would highly recommend calling the cancer treatment centers of america. I called them after meeting with our doctors to get a second opinion. After speaking with them they scheduled flights for my family and I that night st no cost to me. If you need more information please reach out to me. They have been a blessing for me and my family.

 

[coolchange]

I've had that kick.
They do amazing things these days.
Try to stay out of your head.
Positive thoughts and prayers here.

 

[River Lynchmob]

Sorry to hear this. My mom got this call 12 years ago. She had all of her treatment at Norris at USC and celebrated 11 years cancer free in Oct. It can and has been beat. There is a great support system here...use it. Good luck to you guys and prayers sent.

 

[Havaduner]

Walt, my heart sank when I read the title of your thread. Like you said, this site is a little more like family, and you can see the support you have. Anything you need, someone on this board will get it done for you.
As others have said, positive attitude is a must and you will both get through her treatment. If she's been married to you, she can handle anything.
You will have all our positive thoughts and prayers helping you get through it. Don't hesitate to call out to us if you need anything at all.

 

[C-2]

Aww man, hang in there and stay positive.

 

[pronstar]

Gut-wrenching.
Thoughts and prayers with you guys during this difficult time.

Be positive that she will kick its ass.
Fight fight fight.
Be her rock.
And to the degree possible, we'll be yours.

 

[RitcheyRch]

So sorry to read this. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Sandlord]

Fuck,
Lauri will be in my prayers.
Walt, if there is anything I can do, or help you guys with, let me know.

 

[Bigbore500r]

I am so sorry, thats a big blow to get that phone and I can only imagine what you guys are going through. Lots of people on here with experience in this situation and lots of survivors. Dont let you mind beat you to death and jump to conclusions Get moving with treatment and get some opinions from seperate sources should you need to.
Best wishes - JH

 

[Enen]

We will keep you in our prayers. I hope they caught it early.

 

[shintoooo]

Sorry to read this. Praying for your wife. She will beat this.

 

[RCDave]

Please accept warmest thoughts and prayers. Stay tough

 

[Lunatic Fringe]

Such tough news to get.
Show her strength and a positive attitude. Cancer isn't always the ending it used to be.
Lorraine and I will have your family in our thoughts.

 

[OldSchoolBoats]

Thoughts and prayers Walt. Stay positive, I have faith that she will KICK CANCERS ASS!!!!

 

[Singleton]

Thoughts and prayers are with your family. My wife and mother both beat breast cancer so hoping the same for your wife!

 

[She's Mine]

Walt and EBOG family member:

Stay positive for yourself and especially for her. Been through this with my mom and it is tough. There will be bad days and good days but the import thing is to make the bad days better. Advancements in medicine over the past few years have been astonishing and there is no stronger gender on this planet than a female faced with a challenge. Educate, stay strong, and be positive, this is a beatable disease. Your wife, you, and your family will be in our prayers.

 

[Stainless]

Sorry to read this. Like a couple have mentioned so much advancement has been made in cancer survivability. Hopefully she is in early stages and beats it to lives a long happy life.

 

[Advantage 1]

Positive thoughts for you and your wife!

Joe

 

[purrfecttremor]

You need to be strong for her Walt so she can beat this! Positive thoughts your way and stay positive!

 

[Outdrive1]

Early last week we got the phone call that nobody wants to get, my wife has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Its been a gut wrenching process so far and now we are scared as hell. Later today is a big meeting with all of the doctors involved where we will learn next steps.

Life can turn in a second. We are enjoying are lives like never before, financially and emotionally we are all set, spending about half of our time at the lake, we eat well, exercise, do all the right things, but you still get kicked in the teeth.

My life without my wife doesnt exist.

Im not a fan of people who put personal stuff like this on Facebook so we didnt, but RDP is a bit different, more like family, and for some reason it just feels slightly better to type the words.

- Walt

Sorry to hear this Walt. Stay positive buddy.

 

[Scott E]

Sorry to hear this. Positive thoughts your way.

 

[RiverDave]

I am floored. . Please keep us updated Walt!

 

[RVR2SNO]

Sorry to read this. Positive thoughts and prayers headed your way!

 

[SBMech]

Sorry to hear this, stay strong and love each other, love is a great healer! Positive thoughts your way!

 

[Cole Trickle]

Fuck Cancer.....

Sounds like you guys are on top of it stay positive and fight. Early detection is the key!!

 

[Bobby V]

Sorry to read Walt. Lauries a tough gal. She will beat it. :thumbsup

 

[was thatguy]

Sorry to read this.
I'm sitting in Debs oncologists office as I type. They brought her back from the brink yet again over the last 4 weeks.

I clearly remember that kick, and the disbelief, and most of all the fear. That was 3 years ago when our call came. We also were at the peak of our enjoyment of life.
That seems like an entirely different universe now.

You must put that fear of the unknown aside. Educate yourself about every aspect of her disease that you can.
How it progresses, how it reacts to treatments, what to expect next.
The people at the top treatment centers are astoundingly educated and commited to this fight.

I don't know the stage of your wife's cancer, but one thing I will say...going forward you will want to always think that the best case scenarios that the doctors offer will be the ones you experience...don't do that.

They may be, they may not be. If things go bad at times don't think it's out of control, it just means a different or more urgent response.

Pm anytime.

 

[Mandelon]

Breast Cancer is one of the more treatable types. Find the best doctors and be positive!

 

[boatnam2]

Tough road for sure, stay positive and learn how to understand what she needs and what they want to give her.

 

[milkmoney]

Walt , I am sorry to read this. My thoughts with you guys. Hang tough, wish there was something I can do.

 

[460]

Killing me reading this today. I'm sorry to hear Walt.

 

[Tommy Gun Images]

Prayers sent!

 

[TCHB]

Sorry to hear the news Walk. She is strong and will beat this cancer.
If you ever need help in Havasu give me a call.
Positive thoughts going your way!

 

[ductape1000]

So in having spent some time with these two there is a couple things I know...

First, Laurie is a tough woman. She will kick cancer's ass. She will pull the strength from Walt and all of us to fight the good fight. We've got their back and they will win. [emoji106]

Second, Walt is pampered by his wife. He doesn't know his way around a kitchen. So if any of you guys cross his path while they are in this fight, make sure he gets fed!! [emoji13]

Walt as I told you yesterday, if you need anything, let us know. As you see here, you have help to get through this!! Make sure to take care of yourself so you can take care of Laurie.

 

[rivermobster]

Early last week we got the phone call that nobody wants to get, my wife has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Its been a gut wrenching process so far and now we are scared as hell. Later today is a big meeting with all of the doctors involved where we will learn next steps.

Life can turn in a second. We are enjoying are lives like never before, financially and emotionally we are all set, spending about half of our time at the lake, we eat well, exercise, do all the right things, but you still get kicked in the teeth.

My life without my wife doesnt exist.

Im not a fan of people who put personal stuff like this on Facebook so we didnt, but RDP is a bit different, more like family, and for some reason it just feels slightly better to type the words.

- Walt

Fuck...

Walt, get her to City of Hope ASAP!!! This is where Nick Barron went, (the owner of Hallett) after he was given a few months to live by his doctor. It's been almost a year ago now. I talked with him on Monday. He is complete remission and is doing just fine.

Fuck cancer, she can do this!!!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup:thumbsup