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jeteater1

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I would like to start off by saying I don't offen ask for help outside of my family.
I was injured at work and have been on workman's comp and S.S. disability for 5 years.

Two and a half years ago my wife wasn't feeling well , we went to the doctor and she was diagnosed at stage 5 kidney failure which was a shock. More testing and they discovered she has Anca Vasculitis, a auto immmune disorder which is a form of Lupus.

We have done home dialysis for two years , while going to multiple hospitals in many states to put her on their kidney donor lists.

On the 9th of November she was ¹admitted to Loma Linda to have open heart surgery to replace a valve that the Vascular disease destroyed. Many complications arose, and she was finally sent home but without the proper medication and had to return to the hospital via ambulance as her health had deteriorated.

On the 19th of November I had to do one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life. I had to tell the doctors to stop extra measures as April continued to fail ... Three minutes later I lost the love of my life and the mother of my two children.

If you can help it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much
Brian

 
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Romans9

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My empathy to you sir. Death is such a cruel reality but reflecting on life’s joys and good memories are blessing no one can take. I hope your children remind you of those things.

You may want to check into the amount that they are attempting to raise. 10K seems awfully low for a funeral. I have had to plan many.
 

jeteater1

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My empathy to you sir. Death is such a cruel reality but reflecting on life’s joys and good memories are blessing no one can take. I hope your children remind you of those things.

You may want to check into the amount that they are attempting to raise. 10K seems awfully low for a funeral. I have had to plan many.
I will see if the amount can be changed. Thank you
 

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So sorry for your loss. 😔
 

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@RiverDave can we keep this at the top of the new post page so everyone sees it maybe? Don’t know how that works. Just hate for it to get lost in the shuffle. Power of RDP is Strong.
 

Tamalewagon

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I would like to start off by saying I don't offen ask for help outside of my family.
I was injured at work and have been on workman's comp and S.S. disability for 5 years.

Two and a half years ago my wife wasn't feeling well , we went to the doctor and she was diagnosed at stage 5 kidney failure which was a shock. More testing and they discovered she has Anca Vasculitis, a auto immmune disorder which is a form of Lupus.

We have done home dialysis for two years , while going to multiple hospitals in many states to put her on their kidney donor lists.

On the 9th of November she was ¹admitted to Loma Linda to have open heart surgery to replace a valve that the Vascular disease destroyed. Many complications arose, and she was finally sent home but without the proper medication and had to return to the hospital via ambulance as her health had deteriorated.

On the 19th of November I had to do one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life. I had to tell the doctors to stop extra measures as April continued to fail ... Three minutes later I lost the love of my life and the mother of my two children.

If you can help it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much
Brian

My God Brian. I am so sorry to hear you lost April. Please stay strong. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers.
 

Socalx09

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
 
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