How would you handle your 9 year old son

[Lue]

Looking up nudeys on the net? We've never had to worry about this shit until yesterday when I looked into what's been going on on the puter.This dude was looking up Vaneesa Hudgens pics and strayed into big boobs and knockers type sites. I asked him that he stays off those sites or he was going to lose his puter priviledges. I also threw in the bullshit where I'm going to set this up where I get a notice on my cell phone if they go on these sites, and monitoring from work blah blah blah.Tell you truth I'm chalking it up to boys being boys, but god damn I didn't expect him to be onto that this young.

You mind sharing what your take is on this?

 

[Lue]

Good boy

Don't get me wrong, the father in me was holding back a chuckle but I don't want him to think that's acceptable at his age.

 

[KING BEE]

Have a 10 year old we caught doing the same thing around 6 months ago. Seems he strayed from another site as well. Brought down the same kind of threats and it seems to be working. At that age I think they are exploring to some extent. We did put some locks on the access though just for peace of mind. He is a great kid. Straight A's in school. Just being a curious 10 yr old in MHO. KB:hmm

 

[OutCole'd]

I would have to see what sites he was looking at before I can comment on this subject. Can you please forward me some links??

 

[Racey]

At least you know he aint gay

 

[HocusPocus]

my son is 8 and as of yet all he looks up is weapons and video games about weapons. we also have our computers in an open spot where there is no door. which sucks for me because i have to be careful what im looking at. doh! maybe since he knows now you can find out where he has been, he will be more cautious... or better at hiding his tracks.

 

[Ratso]

High Five...

 

[SoCal Detail]

just tell him "son the Vanessa H pics are on ISL and show him"

 

[Tom Brown]

I think it's important to take the issue seriously. Sit him down and give him the respect of talking directly and openly with him about it.

Put a lock on his bedroom door and make sure he understands how important it is for him to keep all twitching and spurting in the privacy of his room. Also, tell him to throw his glued up tissues in the toilet, instead of the garbage, because they cat will dig them out of the dust bin and nobody wants to see that shit when he's done with it.

 

[Phat Matt]

Looking up nudeys on the net? We've never had to worry about this shit until yesterday when I looked into what's been going on on the puter.This dude was looking up Vaneesa Hudgens pics and strayed into big boobs and knockers type sites. I asked him that he stays off those sites or he was going to lose his puter priviledges. I also threw in the bullshit where I'm going to set this up where I get a notice on my cell phone if they go on these sites, and monitoring from work blah blah blah.Tell you truth I'm chalking it up to boys being boys, but god damn I didn't expect him to be onto that this young.

You mind sharing what your take is on this?

He was probably looking for this pic of her. lol. Strayed. :beer

 

[SoCal Detail]

See Uncle Phat Matt had a copy tell him to give him a call

 

[maxwedge]

When I was 9, kids smoked pot, had sex, looked at boobs, and had rifles pointed at them by their straight A student 11 year old brothers brothers while their dad was out mowing. That was back in 1980. It was great.

 

[Kachina26]

I think it's time to show him what girls really do. www.2girls1cup.com

 

[Stalkaholic]

I think my dad was out mowing the lawn or something, it's not like he left us alone all day all day or something.

Not meaning to threadjack however...

You all are worried about Later and his "improper grammer" and you can't even catch a massive mistake with this quote!? I'm pretty damn drunk and I even caught this!!! Now who's on meth!?

 

[peter]

My wife caught our 12yr. old son looking at S & M sites and called me at work crying asking what should she do ... All I could tell her was for Gods sake DONT spank him.

 

[Wet Dream]

My wife caught our 12yr. old son looking at S & M sites and called me at work crying asking what should she do ... All I could tell her was for Gods sake DONT spank him.

Holy Shit!!! :beer Perfect first post.

Its curiousity and maybe a little early puberty (rare at 9), but all you can do is delay the inevitable and preserve the innocence a little longer. Or, show the little shit some great sites and get him educated early.

 

[OGShocker]

Use this software from this day forward. At the very least, it will keep you from having to search for good porn.

 

[boatnaked]

Looking up nudeys on the net? We've never had to worry about this shit until yesterday when I looked into what's been going on on the puter.This dude was looking up Vaneesa Hudgens pics and strayed into big boobs and knockers type sites. I asked him that he stays off those sites or he was going to lose his puter priviledges. I also threw in the bullshit where I'm going to set this up where I get a notice on my cell phone if they go on these sites, and monitoring from work blah blah blah.Tell you truth I'm chalking it up to boys being boys, but god damn I didn't expect him to be onto that this young.

You mind sharing what your take is on this?

LIKE FATHER - LIKE SON! :lmao

 

[Infomaniac]

MATT !!!

Send me the un censored pic. FAST HURRY !! LOL

 

[No Butt No Putt]

Good boy

Thats what im sayn. Boys will be Boys.

 

[TPC]

Our kids aren't allowed to online communicate with anyone other than a select list of their friends.
That policy is strictly enforced because we feel that's the real danger.
Other than that,, no restriction on their TV or what they look at.

Wife was raised in a Swiss family, and looking at naked girls is no BFD in their culture.

Our 7 year old plays with a 7 year old girl from Germany.
He palms a feel, his friend encourages it, and the moms say it's normal,, let it go,, nothing to sweat.

I was shocked but really they're right, it's no big deal.

Ziggy summed it up best last year in a somewhat similar thread. It's really no BFD.

Just glad it is girls they look at is my only take on the whole matter.
They're good kids, get good grades, looking at chix in the buff really isn't so bad.

Our young Nieces visit from Switzerland and walking through the house or RV in the buff is just not an issue in their frame of mind.

We've told them it's tradition to leave their tops on at Emerald Cove in public because nudity and sex are judged differently in the US, and they're too young to be flashing on the boat,, it's an adult kinda activity. That contadiction they don't get, and they go along with it, but think it's silly & old school Victorian.

Having said the above, I respect and understand your opposite takes though.

But, nudity and sex ain't that bad if ya think about it, just takes getting used to.

 

[maxwedge]

Not meaning to threadjack however...

You all are worried about Later and his "improper grammer" and you can't even catch a massive mistake with this quote!? I'm pretty damn drunk and I even caught this!!! Now who's on meth!?

What the fuk are you talking about? I never critized Later's grammer, or anybody elses for that matter. I think it should be pretty clear from most my posts, that I suck ass at spelling and grammar. I said my brother was a straight A student, not me. Me, I'm basically an idiot, and because of that, I'll feel free to use the word something as many damn times as I like in a sentence or something. And what does my meth habit have to do with this anyway...or were you talking to somebody else?

Besides, I went back and fixed it.

 

[jordy]

At least you know he aint gay

No kidding!!! All the gay and lawnmower porn was from Lue. oint

High Five...

:beer

LIKE FATHER - LIKE SON! :lmao

See quote above. :smackheadoint

 

[catman-do]

I say let the kid pull his wanker to the sites... He's at the age where boys and girls are starting to notice each other a little more. Atleast he isnt knocking some girl up, or looking at dude sites.

 

[CALJAMR]

So my cousin has 3 boys (8,8 and 10) and i stayed at their house over this last holidays. I woke up at 3:30am to hit the head and i walk by the 10 y/o room and i see the tv on. I peek in to see if he fell asleep with the tv on and the young man was watching the "Girls Gone Wild" commercial and was wide awake. Well at breakfast i thought it was funny and mentioned it and all hell broke loose. I guess he's been reprimanded for it before. So you have to watch the internet, tv, magazines etc...

I was still proud of my little nephew he was so glued to that tv he didn't even hear me open the door.

 

[CALJAMR]

Our kids aren't allowed to online communicate with anyone other than a select list of their friends.
That policy is strictly enforced because we feel that's the real danger.
Other than that,, no restriction on their TV or what they look at.

Wife was raised in a Swiss family, and looking at naked girls is no BFD in their frame of mind.

Our 7 year old plays with a 7 year old girl from Germany.
He palms a feel, she encourages it, and the moms say it's normal,, let it go,, no BFD.

I was shocked but really they're right, it's no BFD.

Ziggy summed it up best last year in a somewhat similar thread. It's really no BFD.

Just glad it is girls they look at is my only take on the whole matter.
They're good kids, get good grades, looking at chix in the buff really isn't so bad.

Our young Nieces visit from Switzerland and walking through the house in the buff is just not an issue in their frame of mind. We've told them it's tradition to leave their tops on at Emerald cove in public because nudity and sex are judged differently in the US, and they go along with that, but thinks its silly & old school Victorian.

Having said the above, I respect and understand your opposite takes though.
But, it nudity and sex ain't that bad if ya think about it, just takes getting used to.

The only thing i could think that would be wrong is what they see the girls doing. 2girls1cup, gangbang, bukaki etc.... but looking at some hooters is fine in my eyes.
Heck they opened up a place to eat just for us adults that still like to look at Hooters.

 

[Topless]

What the fuk are you talking about? I never critized Later's grammer, or anybody elses for that matter. I think it should be pretty clear from most my posts, that I suck ass at spelling and grammar. I said my brother was a straight A student, not me. Me, I'm basically an idiot, and because of that, I'll feel free to use the word something as many damn times as I like in a sentence or something. And what does my meth habit have to do with this anyway...or were you talking to somebody else?

Besides, I went back and fixed it.

Don't mind him Max, he's Laters lover and feels the need to defend his honor.

 

[OutCole'd]

I won't walk into my kids room without a Haz-Mat suit on.

 

[John.]

this is one of the funniest threads I've read in a long time.

 

[BarryMac]

Dude, let the poor little guy be, if not he's gonna use your drapes as a sock...

 

[RiverDave]

Dude, let the poor little guy be, if not he's gonna use your drapes as a sock...

That sux.. LOL

RD

 

[Lue]

That sux.. LOL

RD

LOL, thanks for all the input folks. He has not been on those sites since the talk. Boys will be boys, but I'd like to hold onto them as kids as long as I can.

BTW, it's the 4 year old I'm most concerend with. That little bundle of tension has done some really bold shit. Some of you remember the humping thread dont you. LOL.

 

[Boatsnblondes]

FWIW, it think you handled it just right. I don't think he got there on purpose, but, he didn't mind being there once he got there either. He has plenty of time later on to figure those things out , for now, wanting him to just be a kid is a good path...good for you.....

 

[XtrmWakeborder]

LOL it's been said, at least he isn't gay.

 

[TITTIES AND BEER]

tell him to check out flashyourrack.com,he can learn how to vote

 

[Cabo San Chez]

found out my 11 year old was doing the same thing a few months back, just explained he was to young to be on those site and if he continued I would take away his use of the computer. Also told him I installed spy ware so that I could see what site's he was on if I were to be at work. So I just go back every few weeks and just check the history of sites visited.

 

[rivergoer]

give him a smoke and a beer. then say shiat now i know your not a homo

 

[Photo Chick]

Let me start by first saying I don't have kids so......and I didn't read all the responses so if I duplicate what someone else says..sorry, oh and BnB if I misspellll something please furgiv me!

Ok...personally I don't see it as a huge big deal, good thing it was women and not men he was looking at, although I have nothing wrong with the gays, just another can of worms.... Sounds like you did the right thing in confronting him, however you did lie to him. Something i'm sure parents have to do from time to time.
Also, I'd rather my son look at that than weapons, as someone else indicated their son was doing. I own a lot of guns but would rather be the one to teach him about them.....just my 2 cents....

 

[Luckie Stiff]

My wife caught our 12yr. old son looking at S & M sites and called me at work crying asking what should she do ... All I could tell her was for Gods sake DONT spank him.

Thanks! my new flat screen monitor and keyboard now have coffee thoroughly embedded in them!

 

[jetboatperformance]

Let me start by first saying I don't have kids so......and I didn't read all the responses so if I duplicate what someone else says..sorry, oh and BnB if I misspellll something please furgiv me!

Ok...personally I don't see it as a huge big deal, good thing it was women and not men he was looking at, although I have nothing wrong with the gays, just another can of worms.... Sounds like you did the right thing in confronting him, however you did lie to him. Something i'm sure parents have to do from time to time.
Also, I'd rather my son look at that than weapons, as someone else indicated their son was doing. I own a lot of guns but would rather be the one to teach him about them.....just my 2 cents....

Good post ! I have similar sentiments ! son Josh sneeked peeks a P'hse Mags and such when that age and was always around weapons too he turned out great! Tom
Skip I got an xtra moniter if ya need it T

 

[LhcBrad]

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