Honeymoon Ideas

[TKGuardianAngel]

Oh, don't worry, we're not doing it anymore. Lol!

Thanks, but we just called it off and are splitting up.

I just wish somebody would have warned me 14 years ago what a pain in the ass it would be. :lmao :joke

 

[lakemadness]

My buddy went to St. Lucia and it looked awesome from his pics. If/when I get married again it'll probably be somewhere like there. [emoji57]

Yep. I wish I would have been able to see into the future before I tied the knot. Lol
Trying to stay friendly will really make a big difference in your child's life.

You going down the divorce road?

 

[djunkie]

You going down the divorce road?

Unfortunately yes. [emoji57]

 

[PVHCA]

Unfortunately yes. [emoji57]

SERIOUS?

 

[djunkie]

SERIOUS?

As a heart attack.

 

[PVHCA]

As a heart attack.

Sorry to hear buddy, I can offer you many bits of wisdom if you feel the need to hear them but nothing is gonna make it an easy road.

 

[djunkie]

Sorry to hear buddy, I can offer you many bits of wisdom if you feel the need to hear them but nothing is gonna make it an easy road.

Thanks. I appreciate it.

 

[lakemadness]

Unfortunately yes. [emoji57]

Ahh man... Sorry to hear. I read a few of your posts and wondered.

 

[OGShocker]

Unfortunately yes. [emoji57]

Sorry to hear this. Is she available for dating yet?

Too soon? I have been divorced three time so, I have a different take than most people.

We are truly sorry, DJ. One of the best weddings even. We wish you both, the best outcome.

 

[milkmoney]

Ahh man... Sorry to hear. I read a few of your posts and wondered.

I thought the same thing in some of his post , jus didn't want to come out and ask.

Sorry to read this. Hope the best for u guys and ur daughter.

 

[rivrrts429]

Unfortunately yes. [emoji57]

Sorry to hear, djunkie.

 

[OCMerrill]

WTF is wrong with Bakersfield? Great central location, easy to obtain sundries, inexpensive motels with a water fall mural in the lobby.

:thumbup::thumbup:



Guess I should have read the entire thread.

Sorry Flying Lavey.

 

[djunkie]

Sorry to hear this. Is she available for dating yet?

Too soon? I have been divorced three time so, I have a different take than most people.

We are truly sorry, DJ. One of the best weddings even. We hope you both the best outcome.

Go for it. The sooner she remarries the sooner I get out of alimony payments. [emoji16][emoji3]

 

[Flying_Lavey]

Go for it. The sooner she remarries the sooner I get out of alimony payments. [emoji16][emoji3]

Sorry to hear about the divorce. That sucks. I'm glad I only have to deal with child support payments and not alimony too.

 

[HavasuHank]

Unfortunately yes. [emoji57]

Like I said a few days ago Dave, sorry to hear and the most important thing right now is to be there for your daughter as much as possible.

Let me know if you need anything bud.

 

[waterhorse]

We need a divorce section.
I wish I was kidding.

 

[djunkie]

Like I said a few days ago Dave, sorry to hear and the most important thing right now is to be there for your daughter as much as possible.

Let me know if you need anything bud.

Thanks Hank. Right now it's actually going ok. We aren't really fighting over shit or anything and I don't think either of us wants to for my daughters sake. It's unfortunate but sometimes things just don't work out the way you hope. Life goes on though.

 

[djunkie]

We need a divorce section.
I wish I was kidding.

No. We don't. Lol

 

[OCMerrill]

Sorry to read Djunkie. I have also been there.

 

[LHC Kirby]

Off track slightly...
My wife and I celebrate our wedding anniversaries in a special way.. She does the odd years I do the even.
You don't know where you are going, what they plans are until you get to wherever you are going... Can't repeat locations.... Just told what to pack..23 years and going strong

 

[waterhorse]

Off track slightly...
My wife and I celebrate our wedding anniversaries in a special way.. She does the odd years I do the even.
You don't know where you are going, what they plans are until you get to wherever you are going... Can't repeat locations.... Just told what to pack..23 years and going strong

Great Idea.:thumbup:

 

[milkmoney]

We need a divorce section.
I wish I was kidding.

I wish u were kidding also. [emoji107]

 

[Waterjunky]

Wow! this thread took a dark turn.
Sorry for all of you on this. it was kind of fun plotting a honeymoon though........

 

[scouter]

Sorry to hear DJunkie.

Judging by the pictures of your daughter, she is about the same age as mine was when my ex and I separated. My daughter was about 5. My ex and I worked very hard to remain cordial during the divorce and while we were raising our daughter (We had 50/50 custody), and I think she is much better off for the efforts. Just keep your daughter in mind at every turn of this process......

 

[Riverbound]

Sorry to hear DJunkie.

Judging by the pictures of your daughter, she is about the same age as mine was when my ex and I separated. My daughter was about 5. My ex and I worked very hard to remain cordial during the divorce and while we were raising our daughter (We had 50/50 custody), and I think she is much better off for the efforts. Just keep your daughter in mind at every turn of this process......

That's solid advice. My ex and I have been split for almost 10 years now and we raised our kids 50-50 custody. We have been very good about making sure that every decision we make is in the best interest of the kids and not in ourselves and it has worked so far. We have a better relationship now than when we were married.

One thing that still gets me to this day is after 10 years every time I drop my kids back off with their mom it still saddens me a bit.

 

[Riverbound]

What an awkward turn this thread has taken. I've been busy so I really haven't been reading much on the boards figured I would catch up today while I was sitting in traffic holy shit I was shocked to read some of things in here.

 

[Heylam]

Thread makes me sad.

 

[djunkie]

Sorry to hear DJunkie.

Judging by the pictures of your daughter, she is about the same age as mine was when my ex and I separated. My daughter was about 5. My ex and I worked very hard to remain cordial during the divorce and while we were raising our daughter (We had 50/50 custody), and I think she is much better off for the efforts. Just keep your daughter in mind at every turn of this process......

That's solid advice. My ex and I have been split for almost 10 years now and we raised our kids 50-50 custody. We have been very good about making sure that every decision we make is in the best interest of the kids and not in ourselves and it has worked so far. We have a better relationship now than when we were married.

One thing that still gets me to this day is after 10 years every time I drop my kids back off with their mom it still saddens me a bit.

I'm not going to get into details but yes we both are trying to work it out as best as we can without doing anything to affect my daughter anymore then this already might have. So far I'd say it hasn't been too bad. We are doing a lot of the negotiating on our own and of course there's hiccups but we're getting along better then I expected. We will always put our daughter first. I wish it didn't have to be this way but shit happens I guess.

 

[PVHCA]

I'm not going to get into details but yes we both are trying to work it out as best as we can without doing anything to affect my daughter anymore then this already might have. So far I'd say it hasn't been too bad. We are doing a lot of the negotiating on our own and of course there's hiccups but we're getting along better then I expected. We will always put our daughter first. I wish it didn't have to be this way but shit happens I guess.

Good start and it's in both your best interest to keep lawyers out of it, all they are is leaches. get a good paralegal to do the paperwork when you guys agree to everything and it's the right way to go. Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

 

[BHC Vic]

I'm not going to get into details but yes we both are trying to work it out as best as we can without doing anything to affect my daughter anymore then this already might have. So far I'd say it hasn't been too bad. We are doing a lot of the negotiating on our own and of course there's hiccups but we're getting along better then I expected. We will always put our daughter first. I wish it didn't have to be this way but shit happens I guess.

I know you don't want to get into details and I hope in not out of line, but is it broken beyond repair? It sounds like it's not really what you want?my wife was ready to leave after my second dui and it was very rocky, But we made vows

 

[crzy2bealive]

Sorry to hear man

 

[djunkie]

I know you don't want to get into details and I hope in not out of line, but is it broken beyond repair? It sounds like it's not really what you want?my wife was ready to leave after my second dui and it was very rocky, But we made vows

Trust me I've tried. This isn't something that just happened.

 

[Scott E]

As a heart attack.

Sorry to hear that...

 

[shintoooo]

Damn Dave. Sorry to hear man.

 

[Riverbound]

Too soon?
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[Flying_Lavey]

Too soon?
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I have not heard that one before. That is freaking awesome!!

 

[Riverbound]

I have not heard that one before. That is freaking awesome!!

It was very true in my case.

 

[djunkie]

Too soon?
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Not the case. [emoji6]

 

[shintoooo]

Just be careful what you write on the forums lol.

 

[djunkie]

Just be careful what you write on the forums lol.

I know. Lucky I don't have a Facebook account to tell everyone my business. [emoji57]

 

[Flying_Lavey]

I know. Lucky I don't have a Facebook account to tell everyone my business. [emoji57]

Same here. Times like this I'm soooo happy I don't have one!!

 

[Rickybobby]

Holy crap this thread went sideways..... looking for honeymoon ideas and then this.... Not for me but my future son in law is looking at the Sandals resort in Grenada. Anyone been ???

ps
Sorry DJ for your drama but looking forward.

 

[OldSchoolBoats]

Oh, don't worry, we're not doing it anymore. Lol!

Thanks, but we just called it off and are splitting up.

Hey buddy, didn't want to jack the other thread I just read.........but thinking there needs to be an update to this story

 

[Flying_Lavey]

Hey buddy, didn't want to jack the other thread I just read.........but thinking there needs to be an update to this story

Lol! Ehh... ya. Kinda sorta. We got back together and she moved back in but we went back to just boyfriend/girlfriend. Not engaged. We are expecting another little girl in August but there is more to it and I'd rather not say in a public manner.

 

[OldSchoolBoats]

Lol! Ehh... ya. Kinda sorta. We got back together and she moved back in but we went back to just boyfriend/girlfriend. Not engaged. We are expecting another little girl in August but there is more to it and I'd rather not say in a public manner.

All good......thought that was the case. Congratulations!!

 

[Riverbound]

Lol! Ehh... ya. Kinda sorta. We got back together and she moved back in but we went back to just boyfriend/girlfriend. Not engaged. We are expecting another little girl in August but there is more to it and I'd rather not say in a public manner.

.....as the prop turns. LOL

 

[Flying_Lavey]

.....as the prop turns. LOL

Ahhh..... I wish I could argue that. Lol!