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What if she does? And what if it’s her husband that slaps her back? As long as she doesn’t “get hurt” and they “figure it out” it’s all good?

I didn’t grow up around dudes hitting their chicks so I find it totally taboo to put hands on a woman regardless the circumstance. Help me understand.

Here’s a thought experiment for you to start to understand.

Why is it ok for a woman to hit a man and it is not ok for a man to hit a woman?

If it isnt ok, why is it dismissed?

How about it is not ok for people to use physical violence against each other period?
 
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It's funny if you don't have sand in your vagina. Lighten up Francis, it's a joke.
All I said was that’s some of the reactions reminded me of the “ joke” that I said. After all it is what’s called a joke. There are or shouldn’t be any limits to a joke. Once you start limiting humor you become part of the problem and yet another snowflake . The shock value is what makes it a joke because we ALL know it’s not right.

Would it still be a joke is it was your daughter or sister that was being "taught a lesson"? Tell me again how people joking about the situation makes it funny? On second thought, never mind coming up with a response because I have heard enough.
 

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You need to step back, re read my statement. Think about what I actually said, and what it actually means, because you missed it. All of it.
you justified hitting a woman....(if she initiated it by slapping a drunk guy, and the guy who responded by hitting her was drunk). I understood exactly what you stated. While I like dana white...this was not cool, and was wrong.
 

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Would it still be a joke is it was your daughter or sister that was being "taught a lesson"? Tell me again how people joking about the situation makes it funny? On second thought, never mind coming up with a response because I have heard enough.
Oh???? I can definitely mind. Big difference between being a joke and something like that actually happening. Again, lighten up Francis, it is a JOKE!!!!!! If it was your daughter, sister, niece, wife, mother and it happened in front of me, I think you might understand my point of view.
 

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you justified hitting a woman....(if she initiated it by slapping a drunk guy, and the guy who responded by hitting her was drunk). I understood exactly what you stated. While I like dana white...this was not cool, and was wrong.

🤣 Where did I “justify” anything?

Dana White himself already said it was wrong. The entire situation was wrong.

I said it is none of our business. They are both free to file charges against one another in Mexico for crimes committed. They didn’t, he apologized, it’s time to move on.

If they don’t care themselves, why should I?
 

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Would it still be a joke is it was your daughter or sister that was being "taught a lesson"? Tell me again how people joking about the situation makes it funny? On second thought, never mind coming up with a response because I have heard enough.
I used to be uptight about shit like that. You know even momma jokes and shit also. But that’s no way to go through life bro. You should lighten up
 

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Nothing more then a "sparing session" like they do at home.. just a little slap boxing😩🤣🤣 they are not a "normal" couple.. they both train..



But on the other hand.. it could go this route..🤷🏻‍♂️
 

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I have never hit a woman in my life, My step dad once told me only a coward hits a woman. I have literal scars on my back from a woman I deeply loved who was drunk and I never laid a hand on her in response. I stopped her without hitting her. Your response is just a SMH moment. If anyone ever lays a hand on my daughter I can assure you it will be the last time it fucking happens.

You need to take a step back and think about that statement. There is never an excuse...the vast majority of non liberal cuck men could disarm/de-escalate a situation without hitting a woman.
Ummmmmmm..... you've gotta share the scars on back story just a tad though. Glass or nails? Don't tease.... plenty of time to return to original topic of beating on our women.
 

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Ummmmmmm..... you've gotta share the scars on back story just a tad though. Glass or nails? Don't tease.... plenty of time to return to original topic of beating on our women.
Wire coat hanger...once the blood flew she knew she fucked up. I'm not going to go more into it than that. We were together just over a year after that. We aren't together today. I'm married to a pretty awesome woman who I've been with over 5 years who has never so much as lifted her hand towards me. I wish my ex the best, but exiting that was a good decision. Abuse goes both ways, and there is no excuse for it.
 

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"I Never Saw A Dame Yet That Didnt Understand A Good Slap In The Mouth Or A Slug From A 45"

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I dont comment on here very much but one thing I do notice repeatedly is how many inmates let things like this of someone they don't even know anything about are so quick to judge or how so and so was in the wrong etc. I'm not sticking up for Dana at all. But geezes you grown ass men bitch just as bad as women.
Anyone ever think to just not comment and ignore stupid shit like this? Or hell try and help someone every once in a while? Imagine how the world would be.

Okay go ahead and rip on me now 🤣 🍻 cheers fuckers.
 

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Wire coat hanger...once the blood flew she knew she fucked up. I'm not going to go more into it than that. We were together just over a year after that. We aren't together today. I'm married to a pretty awesome woman who I've been with over 5 years who has never so much as lifted her hand towards me. I wish my ex the best, but exiting that was a good decision. Abuse goes both ways, and there is no excuse for it.
Totally with you on all that... never saw the coat hanger coming..... pretty creative gal. Back scars are about as cool as scars get. I had some from a busted margarita glass in my 20s... they faded so nobody asks me anymore
 

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Latina or a native american. Those girls will stick ya, and then make you breakfast.
Yup. A big pot of Menudo on the stove and then it all starts over for the day drinking😂 i dont miss those days. Lol. I cutthat shit out real quick. Told my girl no more Modellos in my house. That shit is like venom to the latina!
 

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Totally with you on all that... never saw the coat hanger coming..... pretty creative gal. Back scars are about as cool as scars get. I had some from a busted margarita glass in my 20s... they faded so nobody asks me anymore
One of my really good friends took a glass to the back of the head from his psychotic ex at maitai bar in Honolulu years ago.. I forget how many staples he got but I'll never forget that night..he went on to have two boys with her before they finally split.... Poly aka "local" girls are no joke o_O😅😅. My deal was very unpleasant to say the least.. I don't like to go much farther down that road than that. I left that relationship with my dogs, and my integrity..and thats all I wanted/could have asked for.
 

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One of my really good friends took a glass to the back of the head from his psychotic ex at maitai bar in Honolulu years ago.. I forget how many staples he got but I'll never forget that night. Poly aka "local" girls are no joke o_O😅😅
So I've been told lol.... and I've witnessed several bottle to head shots in college as a doorman in a Fla redneck bar.... man can they gush. Redneck women are some serious humans.... and don't even get me started on their crazy relationships with redneck guys. They've been throwing punches forever in those Fla trailer parks.
 

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That kid can fight.... woulda loved to have seen him launch that right he had cocked.... he might be a new age gentleman I reckon cause he held back. This gal needs to be taken out back.

PS.... could be my favorite thread of all time on RDP. Who knew Dana popping his wife would stir such emotions.
You did watch to the end correct?
 

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Here’s a thought experiment for you to start to understand.

Why is it ok for a woman to hit a man and it is not ok for a man to hit a woman?

If it isnt ok, why is it dismissed?

How about it is not ok for people to use physical violence against each other period?
Here’s a thought experiment for you to start to understand.

Why is it ok for a woman to hit a man and it is not ok for a man to hit a woman?

If it isnt ok, why is it dismissed?

How about it is not ok for people to use physical violence against each other period?

Ask one of your Mormon neighbors the differences between a man and a woman.

Then share your views on a man hitting a woman back.

Let me know how that goes.
 

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Ask one of your Mormon neighbors the differences between a man and a woman.

Then share your views on a man hitting a woman back.

Let me know how that goes.


I told him a dude from CA asked me to ask him what the difference between a man and a woman was. He started laughing so hard I couldn’t finish the question.
 

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I told him a dude from CA asked me to ask him what the difference between a man and a woman was. He started laughing so hard I couldn’t finish the question.

Did you ask the in 3rd person since you’re the dude from CA that doesn’t know the difference? I know why a man shouldn’t hit a woman.
 

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Did you ask the in 3rd person since you’re the dude from CA that doesn’t know the difference? And why a man shouldn’t hit a woman back?

Nice ninja edit there..

But try reading my posts again. Can you show me where I said it was ok for anyone to hit anyone else in the first place?

Since you didn’t answer my initial questions about why it’s ok for a woman to hit a man, or why do you not believe people should not hit other people, I know you won’t answer that one.
 
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That is a lesson in Fuck Around and Find Out. And for the people stuck on the sex of an individual involved, women can be just as much of aggressors as men. Shit... at least half the black clad Antifa Fags running around were female and I didn't hear this type of "OMG OMG OMG>>>> you can't hit a GIRL" back then. 🤷‍♂️

I honestly think if you guys took and honest look at this shit without the emotions involved this whole discussion would have been done 2 pages ago.
 
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I dont comment on here very much but one thing I do notice repeatedly is how many inmates let things like this of someone they don't even know anything about are so quick to judge or how so and so was in the wrong etc. I'm not sticking up for Dana at all. But geezes you grown ass men bitch just as bad as women.
Anyone ever think to just not comment and ignore stupid shit like this? Or hell try and help someone every once in a while? Imagine how the world would be.

Okay go ahead and rip on me now 🤣 🍻 cheers fuckers.
Lol... you just responded. So stop your bitchen!😂
 

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I dont comment on here very much but one thing I do notice repeatedly is how many inmates let things like this of someone they don't even know anything about are so quick to judge or how so and so was in the wrong etc. I'm not sticking up for Dana at all. But geezes you grown ass men bitch just as bad as women.
Anyone ever think to just not comment and ignore stupid shit like this? Or hell try and help someone every once in a while? Imagine how the world would be.

Okay go ahead and rip on me now 🤣 🍻 cheers fuckers.
So proud of you son! You're ready for the dungeon, c'mon down.......
 

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That is a lesson in Fuck Around and Find Out. And for the people stuck on the sex of an individual involved, women can be just as much of aggressors as men. Shit... at least half the black clad Antifa Fags running around were female and I didn't this type of "OMG OMG OMG>>>> you can't hit a GIRL" back then. 🤷‍♂️

I honestly think if you guys took and honest look at this shit without the emotions involved this whole discussion would have been done 2 pages ago.

That is a tall ask. This place is more emotional than a Hello Kitty convention.
 

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you justified hitting a woman....(if she initiated it by slapping a drunk guy, and the guy who responded by hitting her was drunk). I understood exactly what you stated. While I like dana white...this was not cool, and was wrong.
No one said it was cool and no one thinks it’s right.
We just arent getting our pitchforks out.
 

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What kind of man raises his daughter to slap a man. If you need to slap him you shouldn’t be with him.

Flip side Dana dropped the ball on self control. The massive amounts of TRT and alcohol probably don’t help and sure as hell isn’t an excuse. Since he didn’t start the slapping he gets a one time pass.

I have 2 daughters I would be super pissed if they pulled this shit. After giving them a lecture I would put the fear of god in the boy and slap the shit out of him myself.
 

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The thing I worry about is that he hesitated …… and then slapped her back and then a couple more times also. I think the hesitation was his brain saying “ don’t do it you’re in public” but then the juice said “ fuck that shit dude you’re Dana white hit that bitch” . I would bet it’s not the first time she got a little chin music from him. But it is unfortunate that it even happened it’s not ok for anyone to lay a hand on another person no matter the sex. The part I find hilarious is all the judges on here lol. No evidence, no information at all. Just video clip. It’s really funny how people get so hot headed so quick and are ready to throw down so quickly . I believe we were all reprimanded not to long ago by Dave about threads like this.
 

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I have nothing to add to this useless argument except I’ve been mistaken for Dana white numerous times. Chick on the train going down to San Diego a few months back wouldn’t leave me alone and wouldn’t believe I wasn’t him. 😂🤦‍♂️
 

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You're a "dude" from Orange County that drives an F150. 🤣🤣🤣 You're a Utah Redneck now? That was quick.. lol

And to these people yore a Tesla driving, purple haired, gender fluid Gavin worshipper. 🤣

It’s all relative.
 

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I'm still waiting for some kind of shocking revelations from @JDub24 regarding this whole thing, but in the meantime, here is what I've been doing in these incidents occurring California over the last couple decades.

California looks at Domestic Violence in a couple different ways. The most common penal codes we utilize are Felony 273.5, Misdemeanor 243(e)(1), or Non-Criminal Domestic Violence. Any cop that I've ever worked with that actually gets off training is taught to evaluate the entire scenario before jumping to conclusions based on the physical appearance of the involved party's. In this case, you have a large man who is known to have trained (far from making him a professional fighter unless I too am considered a professional fighter) and works in the MMA world, and you have his wife who (unknown MMA abilities, don't really care) is of much smaller stature.

All we have from our nice cushy seats to evaluate this is a high quality completely clear video 😁 shows them in some kind of interaction, she hits/slaps him, he hits/slaps her, she appears to be being held back as he is standing there and starts to turn his back to the camera. She hits/slaps him again, and he hits/slaps her again. If you keep watching she appears to be up giving him a hug shortly after (no idea how much editing is going on in that video).

So, If I'm the cop showing up to that, I'm doing a few things real quick;

-Examine each of them for injuries. (Visible injuries is Felony 273.5, No visible injuries can still be 273.5 depending on the circumstances, but to keep it simple generally no injuries will be 243(e)(1). Heated arguments where violence is likely to occurred, multiple occurrences in the past, threats but do not meet 422 etc... get documented as Non-Criminal Domestic Violence which is far more historical tracking and CYA for all involved than anything else. )
-Ask both of them for their version of what happened.
-If available, watch whatever video was there and see if there were any witnesses.

Once all that's done, instead of just assuming the male, or larger party, is the one guilty, you have to weigh everything and determine who was the dominate aggressor. Tricky thing with Domestic Violence is this, both can be arrested but as practice we take the dominate aggressor and list the other in our reports. Of course there are obvious cases where one party is just beating the shit out of the other and there is only one committing a crime. That is not always the case.

Here, both engaged all though at first look it appears White's actions were reactionary only. He has a right to defend himself, just like you, me, and anybody else reading this. He does not have the right to go curb stomp her over a slap... I'm pretty positive you already get the point and understand that.

So with what we know in this case, if anyone of the two would be going to jail, it would be her.

So much more to these things than I could post on here but really don't see the point. Let's just keep it simple and say the best option is always to walk away if you can.
Thank you for explaining the process. At the end of all of this I don’t have any “great revelations”… just a solid moral compass and if you don’t understand that I can’t explain it to you.
 

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ive never really talked about this publically, but this thread hit a sore spot for me.

I dated a gal for several years. she was younger then me and towards the end getting more and more BSC.

we went out off roading one sunday afternoon, came back to my house afterwards. i don't know what set her off, but she went absolutely ape shit in my home (she had her won apartment). started with throwing dishes, physically pushing me, refusing to get out of my house etc etc.

I had to leave the in AM for a business trip and was done trying to be reasonable with her. THANK GOD I turned my phone on voice record at this point.

after telling her to leave me home multiple times, that's when she really upped the ante, began hitting me and tearing things up in my bedroom. I had enough at this point and went and stopped the recording in the phone and hid it. I returned upstairs and gave her one last chance to leave. no dice, she began getting physical again, to which at this point I put her in a headlock, drug her down the stairs and physically ejected her from my house.

three days later she files a total BS police report, claiming she "came over to my house to break up with me and I assaulted her for no reason".

the cop that took her story called me the next day, wanting a statement. I was out of town but proceeded to tell the cop she was the aggressor, I was protecting myself and had a recording of the incident. so I emailed the cop the audio file, the cop called me back the next day.

the cop then proceeded to tell me the recording was meaningless. even though you could clearly hear me telling her to leave my property, her refusing, you could hear her hitting me and so forth on the recording. the cop only said they needed to know if I hit her, and how many times. once again I informed the cop I DEFENDED myself, and if the cops outlook was that the recording meant nothing, i had nothing else to say.

of course, here comes multiple felony charges, blah blah blah. I retained an attorney at this point.

i had to appear in court (with my attorney) and of course pled not guilt. the judge let me go with ZERO bail, to which my attorney felt like they knew this was a weak case.

after my attorney sat down with the DA, both listening to the recording, the DA wanted to dismiss it entirely.

however, my X had political connections, and used them to get the state attorney general (steve wolfson) to put pressure on the city attorney to not dismiss.

they offered plead guilty to misdemeanor battery ( felonies were dropped) only and do violence counseling or go to trial.

my attorney advised me to take the deal, as he could not GUARANTEE and win in a trial even though he felt 99% certain we would win. would also cost a big chunk of $$$ to go to trial so i took the deal.

this is all many years behind me now, but what a real sour taste it left me, how our legal system doesn't work, the agenda it has and how women can make any claims they want and the full force of the legal system will come down on a man even when there is total proof going the other way. in reality she should have been charged with assaulting me and lying to the police.

if she ever reads this post..........nice try andfuck you.
 

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I have nothing to add to this useless argument except I’ve been mistaken for Dana white numerous times. Chick on the train going down to San Diego a few months back wouldn’t leave me alone and wouldn’t believe I wasn’t him. 😂🤦‍♂️
Maybe she wanted a lil beat down .... getting mistaken for DW wouldn't be such a bad thing.... well, maybe not this month.
PS.... this is a discussion not an argument .... you're married so you know the difference ;)
Can't believe this threads still got legs....
 
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