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That number might actually be a little on the low end.

Yup, another middle class family, born and raised in Southern California, picking up and leaving for something better. I sure will miss this great weather.

I started working at Weddle Industries October 2012. I had zero experience working on transmissions. I've been a motorhead my whole life, but I did not know how any of them really worked. I walked in the front door and handed Ron Weddle my resume, just looking to sweep the floors, clean machines, and get my foot in the door for an actual career at 26 years old. I had already known Ron in my dealings with him while working at the local bike shop, and knew of the Weddle name from the years of going to Glamis and Dumont. I had no problem jumping in and tearing down dirty transmissions, I loved it (still do). It wasn't long until my mechanical abilities thrust me into the service and assembly side of the shop, as well as taking phone orders and answering tech questions. I became the sales and service manager, as well as building and managing the UTV service department from the very first Polaris transmission we serviced in 2015.

12 years later, I still highly enjoy what I do, which made the decision to leave a difficult one. My last day at Weddle was this past Friday October 18.

My wife and I set a goal to buy a house before we were 40 years old (currently 38). The best that we could do is purchase the small 777 sq/ft 2-bedroom condo we were renting in Ventura in 2021. I was the least excited new home buyer you would have ever met. This was not where I wanted to spend the next 10+ years of my life, living next to the busy Highway 126. The 45 mile commute to Goleta began to wear on me, spending an extra 2+hours per day away from my wife, 5 year old and 1 year old daughters was not going to be a long term solution. We love Ventura, but when my wife looked into going back to work full time, it became apparent that child care costs were going to literally cost us more money than she would be able to bring home at the postitions she would qualify for.

It became clear in early 2024 that there was not going to be any drastic reduction in home prices here in Ventura or Santa Barbara/Goleta. How long are we going to wait for the opportunity to purchase a real home to raise our family in?

After talking with a close mortgage/lender freind, he gave me an income number that was required to purchase a home in the Santa Barbara/Goleta area. This would have been a home that would require a heavy amount of updating, and we would be spending every dime we had just to make the mortgage payment. That number was literally twice the amount that I was making at Weddle. My wife would be able to find a job to help cover some of that, but with the child care cost required for her to return to full time work, it was clear we were backed into a corner.

The decision was made to sell our condo and make the move to Lake Havasu. My family has owned a vacation home there since 1989. It's an easy transition for us and not too far away from the rest of our family in Southern California for regular visits. As unhappy as I was to purchase this condo in 2021, I am glad we did as we stand to make a decent amount of money off it that will be used to live on and save for our future home purchase. I have plans to put my specialty skill set to use, and will be going into business for myself. More info on that to come later.

We have acquired a home to rent in Havasu that will save us about $1200-$1500 monthly overhead compared to current living costs here in Ventura. We are hoping to purchase a home in the next 2 years once our incomes stabilize. My wife and I are excited for this move and can't wait to get settled in with our 2 girls. We have received a ton of support from everyone we talk to about it. The majority of responses include "You guys are so lucky, we wish we could get out (of California) too".

Just one more CalExit story to add to the countless others.
 

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That number might actually be a little on the low end.

Yup, another middle class family, born and raised in Southern California, picking up and leaving for something better. I sure will miss this great weather.

I started working at Weddle Industries October 2012. I had zero experience working on transmissions. I've been a motorhead my whole life, but I did not know how any of them really worked. I walked in the front door and handed Ron Weddle my resume, just looking to sweep the floors, clean machines, and get my foot in the door for an actual career at 26 years old. I had already known Ron in my dealings with him while working at the local bike shop, and knew of the Weddle name from the years of going to Glamis and Dumont. I had no problem jumping in and tearing down dirty transmissions, I loved it (still do). It wasn't long until my mechanical abilities thrust me into the service and assembly side of the shop, as well as taking phone orders and answering tech questions. I became the sales and service manager, as well as building and managing the UTV service department from the very first Polaris transmission we serviced in 2015.

12 years later, I still highly enjoy what I do, which made the decision to leave a difficult one. My last day at Weddle was this past Friday October 18.

My wife and I set a goal to buy a house before we were 40 years old (currently 38). The best that we could do is purchase the small 777 sq/ft 2-bedroom condo we were renting in Ventura in 2021. I was the least excited new home buyer you would have ever met. This was not where I wanted to spend the next 10+ years of my life, living next to the busy Highway 126. The 45 mile commute to Goleta began to wear on me, spending an extra 2+hours per day away from my wife, 5 year old and 1 year old daughters was not going to be a long term solution. We love Ventura, but when my wife looked into going back to work full time, it became apparent that child care costs were going to literally cost us more money than she would be able to bring home at the postitions she would qualify for.

It became clear in early 2024 that there was not going to be any drastic reduction in home prices here in Ventura or Santa Barbara/Goleta. How long are we going to wait for the opportunity to purchase a real home to raise our family in?

After talking with a close mortgage/lender freind, he gave me an income number that was required to purchase a home in the Santa Barbara/Goleta area. This would have been a home that would require a heavy amount of updating, and we would be spending every dime we had just to make the mortgage payment. That number was literally twice the amount that I was making at Weddle. My wife would be able to find a job to help cover some of that, but with the child care cost required for her to return to full time work, it was clear we were backed into a corner.

The decision was made to sell our condo and make the move to Lake Havasu. My family has owned a vacation home there since 1989. It's an easy transition for us and not too far away from the rest of our family in Southern California for regular visits. As unhappy as I was to purchase this condo in 2021, I am glad we did as we stand to make a decent amount of money off it that will be used to live on and save for our future home purchase. I have plans to put my specialty skill set to use, and will be going into business for myself. More info on that to come later.

We have acquired a home to rent in Havasu that will save us about $1200-$1500 monthly overhead compared to current living costs here in Ventura. We are hoping to purchase a home in the next 2 years once our incomes stabilize. My wife and I are excited for this move and can't wait to get settled in with our 2 girls. We have received a ton of support from everyone we talk to about it. The majority of responses include "You guys are so lucky, we wish we could get out (of California) too".

Just one more CalExit story to add to the countless others.
Smart choice. The prices in CA are so out of touch with reality that any normal family has virtually no shot at a good quality of life. Can't wait til I'm out of this state!
 

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congrats on the decision to break out into your own business. Its a tough choice, but leaving CA to do it is your best choice. From everything i've heard from buds doing the same, its pretty much unsustainable to run a small shop in CA now.

too bad you could not have rented your place out in Ventura, I hate the idea of selling property there, but I understand needing the capital to be more flexible.
 

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Congratulations! It’s been almost 3 months in AZ for me and I am loving it.

My move did not include becoming an entrepreneur, you have major balls Sir, I wish you the best of luck.
 

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My wife and I both work and pull down reasonable money, we live in Central California ( not at the coast, the sweaty arm pit area), and we raised 3 kids with not much left over, sadly. I can't imagine the pressure of trying to make it on a single income near the coast in this era.

Good luck with your relocation. You are in the right area for your skill set!
 

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Congrats. We moved out here 8 years ago and love it
 

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Your story reads just like mine, I realized I could never afford a house in So Cal, that ship had set sail long ago.

Moving to AZ was the BEST thing I have done for our family. Welcome to AZ!
 

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Sean, This is a big life changing decision that clearly you did not take lightly. I wish you nothing but the best, and you will truly be missed at Weddle and for those that do business at Weddle they will miss you too.

I look forward to hearing about your new business that you will start. Please keep us all in the loop.

Best wishes to you, your wife and daughter.
 

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Smart choice. The prices in CA are so out of touch with reality that any normal family has virtually no shot at a good quality of life. Can't wait til I'm out of this state!
You could say the same for home prices in LHC. I was hoping to sell in CA and move out there but I wanted to downsize to something small and cheap to retire in. Well there isn't anything outside of a mobile home for what I was expecting. Now the prices are on par with some of CA which gets me nowhere with seliing in CA.
 

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I just made the move from temecula to havasu full time a few months ago...


My only regret is that I did not do it sooner. I have young sons and my 2 young nieces that moved out there too. I have found tremendous growth in the children, they are thriving in school and actually look forward to going. When we were in temecula I found my oldest niece starting to fall into the "mean girls" mindset and quiet frankly she was starting to be a bit off an a$$hole. Since we have been here I've seen a complete 180 in her behavior, she is a joy to be around now.

All that mixed with the small town living and the frredoms of being able to do fun stuff like take my kids to school in the side by side, or swim in the channel or go shooting out our back door made me realize that out here entertainment comes free, in california you ultimately have to pay for your entertainment.


Hell, just this past weekend I entered the beard and mustache contest at run to the sun and ended up winning the overall trophy, I had my son on stage with me and let him be the recipient of the trophies. Here I am actually living life, in california I was only surviving life
 

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Congrats on the move and welcome to Havasu life!!!
 

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OUTSTANDING!!!!! Congrats on the escape.
Let me know when you get organized. I have ( you sold me ) my Albins 5 spd sequential. It would be amazing to have local support for it.

Mike.
 

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I just made the move from temecula to havasu full time a few months ago...


My only regret is that I did not do it sooner. I have young sons and my 2 young nieces that moved out there too. I have found tremendous growth in the children, they are thriving in school and actually look forward to going. When we were in temecula I found my oldest niece starting to fall into the "mean girls" mindset and quiet frankly she was starting to be a bit off an a$$hole. Since we have been here I've seen a complete 180 in her behavior, she is a joy to be around now.

All that mixed with the small town living and the frredoms of being able to do fun stuff like take my kids to school in the side by side, or swim in the channel or go shooting out our back door made me realize that out here entertainment comes free, in california you ultimately have to pay for your entertainment.


Hell, just this past weekend I entered the beard and mustache contest at run to the sun and ended up winning the overall trophy, I had my son on stage with me and let him be the recipient of the trophies. Here I am actually living life, in california I was only surviving life

It wasn’t that long ago a few members were saying I was doing my kids a disservice by living out here.. lol

I asked where’s your kid right now? Mine just got off a quad and is currently shooting. I think we might go boating tomorrow. Then they said something about quality of education. My kids go to private school. And I think the other schools here are on par if not better than what I have seen in most of California. I agree 1000% it’s better for kids to grow up here..

RD
 

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It wasn’t that long ago a few members were saying I was doing my kids a disservice by living out here.. lol

I asked where’s your kid right now? Mine just got off a quad and is currently shooting. I think we might go boating tomorrow. Then they said something about quality of education. My kids go to private school. And I think the other schools here are on par if not better than what I have seen in most of California. I agree 1000% it’s better for kids to grow up here..

RD
depends on where you live IMO.
you kids are awesome, becuase you and Stacy are involved with them.

Carlsbad has its niche. One reason we don’t move.
Top 4 district in SD. Top 20% in the state. #10 in CA for athletes and top 10% for quality of teachers.

good parents raise good kids, no matter where you live.
 
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It wasn’t that long ago a few members were saying I was doing my kids a disservice by living out here.. lol

I asked where’s your kid right now? Mine just got off a quad and is currently shooting. I think we might go boating tomorrow. Then they said something about quality of education. My kids go to private school. And I think the other schools here are on par if not better than what I have seen in most of California. I agree 1000% it’s better for kids to grow up here..

RD
What do the baseball and soccer programs look like? I know they have little league in BHC I’m trying to volunteer some time there next season. What about havasu?
 

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What do the baseball and soccer programs look like? I know they have little league in BHC I’m trying to volunteer some time there next season. What about havasu?
I heard it had a solid team once and tons of sponsorship.
quality of players might be limited, but…….
 

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Best of luck on your new business and living conditions!

Looking forward to hearing about what you'll be doing next! 👏
 

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You could say the same for home prices in LHC. I was hoping to sell in CA and move out there but I wanted to downsize to something small and cheap to retire in. Well there isn't anything outside of a mobile home for what I was expecting. Now the prices are on par with some of CA which gets me nowhere with seliing in CA.
Sad but too true!
 

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Congrats and best of luck. Family decisions are tough at times. You got this
 

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Sad to hear you are leaving Weddle, but happy for you! Let us know more about your new business!!! I am seriously considering looking for my next new gig in Havasu too...
 

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What do the baseball and soccer programs look like? I know they have little league in BHC I’m trying to volunteer some time there next season. What about havasu?
Baseball is average at best. However a pitcher from the HS just signed with Vanderbilt last year but he threw 93. With any sport it’s how much you put into it. Hard to focus on baseball when you have all the off roading, boating, and fun right out of your backyard.
 

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Good luck on you move and new venture.

seems like Weddle lost a big asset... you always answered all the questions I had, and put out some good info on GD and here.

X2

Thanks for all the information and posts over the years at GD.com. Your contributions were many.

Wish you much happiness and prosperity in the future. I hope you and your family benefit greatly.
 

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Congrats. I moved out of Ca in 2018 in pursue of home ownership. I just moved to my second house. Long story short I had to drive to Ca to wire money as I had to be in person couldn't do it over the phone like 5 years ago. I got asked why I moved to Az by the bank employees. I responded with if I stayed in California I was going to go broke safely. The looks on there faces at 9:05 in the morning when I said that could tell some stories.
 

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Congrats and best of luck to you and the family! Too bad you could not convince Weddle to have an office in AZ.
 

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That number might actually be a little on the low end.

Yup, another middle class family, born and raised in Southern California, picking up and leaving for something better. I sure will miss this great weather.

I started working at Weddle Industries October 2012. I had zero experience working on transmissions. I've been a motorhead my whole life, but I did not know how any of them really worked. I walked in the front door and handed Ron Weddle my resume, just looking to sweep the floors, clean machines, and get my foot in the door for an actual career at 26 years old. I had already known Ron in my dealings with him while working at the local bike shop, and knew of the Weddle name from the years of going to Glamis and Dumont. I had no problem jumping in and tearing down dirty transmissions, I loved it (still do). It wasn't long until my mechanical abilities thrust me into the service and assembly side of the shop, as well as taking phone orders and answering tech questions. I became the sales and service manager, as well as building and managing the UTV service department from the very first Polaris transmission we serviced in 2015.

12 years later, I still highly enjoy what I do, which made the decision to leave a difficult one. My last day at Weddle was this past Friday October 18.

My wife and I set a goal to buy a house before we were 40 years old (currently 38). The best that we could do is purchase the small 777 sq/ft 2-bedroom condo we were renting in Ventura in 2021. I was the least excited new home buyer you would have ever met. This was not where I wanted to spend the next 10+ years of my life, living next to the busy Highway 126. The 45 mile commute to Goleta began to wear on me, spending an extra 2+hours per day away from my wife, 5 year old and 1 year old daughters was not going to be a long term solution. We love Ventura, but when my wife looked into going back to work full time, it became apparent that child care costs were going to literally cost us more money than she would be able to bring home at the postitions she would qualify for.

It became clear in early 2024 that there was not going to be any drastic reduction in home prices here in Ventura or Santa Barbara/Goleta. How long are we going to wait for the opportunity to purchase a real home to raise our family in?

After talking with a close mortgage/lender freind, he gave me an income number that was required to purchase a home in the Santa Barbara/Goleta area. This would have been a home that would require a heavy amount of updating, and we would be spending every dime we had just to make the mortgage payment. That number was literally twice the amount that I was making at Weddle. My wife would be able to find a job to help cover some of that, but with the child care cost required for her to return to full time work, it was clear we were backed into a corner.

The decision was made to sell our condo and make the move to Lake Havasu. My family has owned a vacation home there since 1989. It's an easy transition for us and not too far away from the rest of our family in Southern California for regular visits. As unhappy as I was to purchase this condo in 2021, I am glad we did as we stand to make a decent amount of money off it that will be used to live on and save for our future home purchase. I have plans to put my specialty skill set to use, and will be going into business for myself. More info on that to come later.

We have acquired a home to rent in Havasu that will save us about $1200-$1500 monthly overhead compared to current living costs here in Ventura. We are hoping to purchase a home in the next 2 years once our incomes stabilize. My wife and I are excited for this move and can't wait to get settled in with our 2 girls. We have received a ton of support from everyone we talk to about it. The majority of responses include "You guys are so lucky, we wish we could get out (of California) too".

Just one more CalExit story to add to the countless others.
Congrats Sean on making the leap! I hope the best for you and your family..I’m pretty jealous as our story parallels your very closing (ie born raised in So.Cal) and hate to leave. But the reality has been setting in more and more the last few years. I’m sure you’re going to excel with your new endeavor.
Was planning on bringing our Wildcat XX front dif to you for the Weddle treatment..as I’ve been very happy with the transaxle after the treatment from you guys.
Cheers to you and the family!
 

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Congrats to a new chapter in life. 💪🏻
 

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Congrats.
We just stepped one foot out of the CA door last month and bought on the N side of town. 4.5 years to go till its a complete AMF to CA!
4 yrs, 4 mos for us. Unless/until i get clipped. 😬
 

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Sounds exciting, throwing big logs on the fire always makes you hustle and get things done. 👍
 

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Congratulations, but more importantly, are you wasting your vote in California or are you using it in Arizona?
 

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Surprised the company didn't try to get you to stay. That's a huge void your leaving and finding someone to replace you won't be easy. I have 1 guy threatening to leave to Texas. He made 200k before taxes last year and can't afford to buy a house anywhere near here. I might give him my project house to live in and pay the difference. Then in 2 years help him buy a house.
 

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I was priced out of Santa Barbara in the mid 80s

Living there was amazing.

Good luck on your new ventures!
 
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Surprised the company didn't try to get you to stay. That's a huge void your leaving and finding someone to replace you won't be easy. I have 1 guy threatening to leave to Texas. He made 200k before taxes last year and can't afford to buy a house anywhere near here. I might give him my project house to live in and pay the difference. Then in 2 years help him buy a house.

Fuck...

Will you adopt me??? 😱🤣
 

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Fuck...

Will you adopt me??? 😱🤣
If you make me 10- 20k a month. I don't have 18 years to train another Guy to replace him.

My other possibility is buying out a friend's business and making him a partner. Which he wants to do. Then he can afford to live locally.


Weddle will be taking a loss each month and it might pencil out where if they helped Sean buy a house locally they would be money ahead.
 

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If you make me 10- 20k a month. I don't have 18 years to train another Guy to replace him.

My other possibility is buying out a friend's business and making him a partner. Which he wants to do. Then he can afford to live locally.


Weddle will be taking a loss each month and it might pencil out where if they helped Sean buy a house locally they would be money ahead.
Im sure Weddle will move on and theres always another guy to take his place. His customers will continure to use weddle.
 

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If you make me 10- 20k a month. I don't have 18 years to train another Guy to replace him.

My other possibility is buying out a friend's business and making him a partner. Which he wants to do. Then he can afford to live locally.


Weddle will be taking a loss each month and it might pencil out where if they helped Sean buy a house locally they would be money ahead.

I don't know how Anyone couldn't afford to live in SoCal, on 200k a year.

Especially someone in construction. A fixer upper would be a no brainer.

Hope it works out for you. 👍🏼
 

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By chance did you look in the Santa Maria area for housing? It still has affordable areas. Weddle's in West Goleta, makes for a shorter commute.
 

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I would imagine any engine shop or related business would be happy to have you out there. Best of Luck!!
 
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